storygirl

A quick comment on IUDs - I've got one because my doc prefers not to do surgery if possible - complications from various things, recovery from anesthesia, etc. I've got a Merina, and it does have progesterone in it/on it, so if you have a drug sensitivity, that may be an issue. I will tell you that I was on the pill forever because of heavy periods, but I don't have any bleeding, maybe a little spotting with the IUD, no cramps at all - so I think it's great. It will have to be replaced every 5 years, but I never have to think about it otherwise. [still, I always have a partner use condoms, because there's just too many other things to get, and give, I guess. Also, it makes me more comfortable with anal sex.]

Hmm, I go to work for a day and miss a whole long conversation. I'm with Mr Naughty - you do something your partner doesn't think is okay or the two of you have not agreed to, that's cheating. And if you do it without discussing it, because you know they'd say no, then you are just sliding down a slippery slope. Cuz they'll find out and then there will be *mom voice* consequences.