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2neophytes

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About 2neophytes

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  • Birthday 02/14/1973

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  1. Granted I don't have a "big boy", well not one attached to me, but I've been shaving my legs, underarms, and the rest for quite some time, and I've found that shaving toward the grain before shaving against the grain can help eliminate red bumps and in-grown hairs. I used to get red bumps everywhere until I took a little extra time. For what it's worth... 2N
  2. Before my partner and I got together, condoms were a sometimes deal. It took a pregnancy and a case of trich to get me to think, oh hey, I'd better use something. That was 7 years ago! We use condoms with other people. I am fertile myrtle, and I don't do hormones. So condoms all the way. Plus I don't like the feeling of being sneezed on, or rather, in! My partner and I also use condoms when it's just us. Since we have HSV, if one of us is broken out, we can prevent the other from breaking out. So far, it works! BTW, we found a great condom, Beyond 7, that doesn't cut off Elliot's sensation and doesn't rub against my skin.
  3. I don't know, I've heard much, much worse. Though this is stranger than fiction, as most of life is. I don't know what kind of advice to give you, if you're still reading, but this would be the time I seriously reconsider my entire life relationships. Things like this happen. We're human; we do stupid shit. To everyone else, I wonder if this is any different from a woman doing her husband's brother, or her husband's dad. I know these things happen, and I know age is often overlooked or overly scrutinized. Plenty of 18 year-old girls marry men--much older men--all the time. And personally, even though I'm 31, I particularly like 18-22 year-old men. And I have other girlfriends that do too. I suppose it's a power issue, but it's something I enjoy, and 18 is consensual. Girl, I'm sorry you got yourself knocked up in this situation. Many of your decisions are completely up to you. Introspection through journal-writing may help you through this. 2N
  4. Now that I've finished reading this thread, I can say something more! Obviously no one wants their kids to catch them in the act. But what I wonder is what's the difference between being caught together (you and your spouse) and being caught with another person or couple? I guess things on the West coast are different. There are many polyamourous families, in which parents openly share affection with others outside the primary relationship. I have friends who have grown up in environments such as these, and sex, swinging, or any alternative sexualities are non-issues. Sex is a fundamental drive, like eating, sleeping, and using the restroom. If the drive is repressed within a society, that society will face problems. I would much rather my kids watch a graphic love scene than some of the prime time violence. Our kids watched Rocky Horror with us the other day. But then issues of gender and sexuality are non-issues. I don't know if any of you guys have ever read Kurt Vonnegut, but there is a scene in one of his books (I think it's Cat's Cradle) at the porn house. What's funny is that at the porn house, the film was a close up of someone easting an apple! Eating fresh fruit was pornographic! So as far as swinging with the kids around, we've done it, and we don't like the idea just because we're usually in the living room. It's hard to focus when you know you're out in the open. But we're the same way when it's just us. Sometimes we get a wild hair and my partner wants to eat me on the kitchen table, and the kids will be next door playing. They could come in any minute. So it's no different than that for us, really. I just don't like feeling vulnerable. I mean, I don't like the kids bothering me when I'm using the bathroom either, so I close the door. Well that's my 2 cents. I'm sure I'll think of something else after I've logged off.
  5. I think I'm in the same boat as Audrey. I was anally raped when I was 16, and then coerced into it by a BF when I was 23. So there is some damage. What's cool is that my partner was going down on me recently, and his finger or hand or whatever--I can't see what's going on--slipped and pressed against my ass, and it felt so good! I was kinda shocked, and so was my partner for that matter. Now we've taken it to digital penetration. I don't think it will get past that though. My partner is 7.5 inches. 2N
  6. I am right there with Julie. I am attracted to the smile, eyes, the laugh, the voice, and what and how something is said. I suppose that falls under personality.
  7. You know, he could have "rolled" it off! I often roll them on my partners...with my mouth. But to the point of the thread, he shouldn't have done that. And I would certainly cut off ties. And instead of beating myself up or pouring any of my energy into the guy by being angry with him, I would be down at the STD clinic. You never know where people have been, even if you do know them.
  8. Such a problem with language... First we're debating about whether a condom "slid" off, and now we're on to the difference between "my" and "a".
  9. I have several tattoos, but no piercings. This may sound silly, but I've been a little chicken ever since a friend told me that the washing machine lid caught both his nipple rings and ripped them out! I've considered my nose and belly button. My cousin had her belly done, and she said it hurt like a mofo. Maybe I'll just stick to tattoos.
  10. I have to clear this up. Pussy rubbing is known as tribadism. Just thought you all might like to know that. And Zgirl, I'm curious, how shaved are we talking here? You say you keep yours neat and clean; I'm wondering what that means. Landing strips, 70's style, or all the way? I like pubic hair. 2N
  11. 2 cute, You and your husband have a lot of talking to do. Absolute trust is needed. I had hoped that I would have enough information to really give you an insightful answer, but it seems as if you all weren;t honest with each other. MArriage is a lot of work; it's not what the TV cracks it up to be. Though my partner and I are bound by the laws governing marriage, we chose to refer to our relationship as a domestic partnership. It is communication and negotiation. If he's unwilling to talk, I can only guess that his feelings may be hurt. Hurt feelings make us do the strangest things and react in the worst ways. Only you know how to open him up, unless you all had trouble opening up before. I don't know how much you're drinking, but it isn't the best thing for you when attempting to sort through things. PLease take care of yourself, and keep us posted. Good luck. 2N
  12. "it would just be the two of us till way later in our lives when we both trusted each other completly and were 100% in love as our marriage was rocky." Hey 2 Cute, I have a few questions: How long ago did this happen? How long have you two been together? What kind of relationship do you have with this other couple? And what led you to pursue swinging, if the above quote is true? Get back to us! 2N p.s. and there is no battle; some of us just like to talk!
  13. I used to smoke so much that I didn't know what it was like to have sex sober! However, after several years of not smoking and then falling for nostalgia, we found that it increases our sensory awareness, but we cannot focus on anything!
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