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About ifonly

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  • Birthday 10/23/1940

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  • Relationship Status
    single
  • Location
    midusa
  • Interests
    I enjoy building our home and woodworking in general.
  • Occupation
    Own a pathogen DNA testing laboratory
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    Newbie
  • Anniversary
    January 21

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    ifonly

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  1. When are we going to put the Politically Correct stuff aside and do what we personally desire? What is wrong with people that desire a certain body shape, color of hair or race. Do the Lifestyle the way you want to and not be offended when someone says No! Good Grief -- go have fun.
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    My brother

    Oh sunbuckus -- I can only say --- WOW. You have such an emotional heart -- WOW!!!
  3. Rereading my previous post, I want to add a word of encouragement to others that are getting "More mature". Most of you are enjoying the benefit of more openness in your relationship than those of us before you. Non-monogamy adds enrichment to a couple regardless of their ages and I dare say the longer the relationship, probably the more value of that enrichment. My wife and I are definitely much better lovers today than years past and I hope those younger will experience the same regardless of their age. Age does not mean that you have to leave the lifestyle; you just need to work around those impediments that life dumps on your lap!
  4. Considering that my wife and I have been married longer than some in this group have been around (54 years) and that alone will put us in the category of older -- I prefer the term "Mature". Enough of that and I will try to answer your questions. Considering the social pressures at the time of our marriage, our sex was limited to missionary until I could cum and that was it. My dear wife got nothing out of the experience but --- some sperm. Many, many years later (maybe 35 or 40) I started to learn how to please her so she enjoyed the experience.While my wife had never complained, neither of us really knew any better. Fast forward to about 15 years ago (2000),I felt that the romance was gone from our marriage and commenced to read more on how to move out of our rut --- it had become very boring even though we still had frequent sex; about 2 to 3 time a week. My wife was now accepting of different positions and new foreplay techniques. Mind you, she still harbored many of those Bible interpretations that may pastors preach that are not really in the Bible. This feeling of hers has been a very large mountain to climb and has been a major block to any possible swinging adventure. We are satisfied with sex a couple times a week but now we both really focus on the intensity of pleasure that we both receive. Yes, even at our age, we have a more enjoyable physical experience than 15 or 20 years ago. One thing that has really help was the purchase of Philo Thelos "Divine Sex". I purchased the book and never asked or pressured her to read it but she did pick it up and has already read about 1/2 of it. I can see a difference in her already. When I first brought up the subject of swinging, she had a very typical response -- "You don't love me", "You just want to have sex with other women", etc. Today there is still very good sex, no heated discussions and yes, we still love each other very much. Yes -- I would like to experience sex with other women! My wife should experience other men as well. I do experience stress and tiredness as I still work every day in our laboratory and am building another new house. So I can really identify with other men even though they may be 20 or 30 years younger but I enjoy sex and giving pleasure to my wife; that is always goal Number 1. I hope that our roller coaster sex life answers you question but if not just fire your queries my way.
  5. I am so glad that we live in a reasonably free country and we do have a choice about "Hair down there". I certainly desire the "Hair Free" zone (myself included) and you may label the owner(s) any way you want. If it is not your desired environment, then please avoid the situation without attempting the intimidation. Its a free country!
  6. It is my observation that fundamental religion mantra is the direct result of "Cherry Picking" verses from the Bible. A web site ( A Bible study on Sin (Part-6A) ) explains how 667 sins are all validated through Bible verses. The summation is that try as one might, reaching Heaven by living a "Biblical Life" is next to impossible. If a couple can make a non-monogamous lifestyle work, it is probably no worse a "Sin" than any of the others on the list. Those who proclaim sex outside of marriage will send them straight to hell obviously have never explored all of the other things they are or are not doing in their life. For the record, I am part of the fundamental religion family but obviously have evolved a more enlighten individual.
  7. As others have stated, local drug store condoms should not be the first choice; there is a huge difference in the products available. I have found the Okamoto 0.02 to work the best for me although they do cost a little more. I order online and they are delivered directly from Japan. I can hardly tell that I have one on. -
  8. At 45 it is a cruel sentence to not get hard but there is a remedy: a penal implant. I have had one for going on 10 years and the best "sex toy" that a guy could have. If you have contact with this gentleman, you would do him a favor and suggest this to him. He could not only be hard but go all night!
  9. While we are on the mature end of the spectrum, I have a business that demands my attention. Having said that, we both desire a more intense intimate session that we cannot achieve with a quickie. That does not mean that our frequency suffers --- oh no --- as we do make time for "Our Time". I want her to have an "O" and that does take time that a quickie would not afford. Love that woman!!
  10. I am a guy and I have been shaving for the last nine years. I feel that I am more sexually sensitive and cleaner.
  11. I can easily stay hard after cumming but that is because I have implants. I just love those as I can go all night!
  12. I can stay hard after I cum and go all night --- I do have an implant though. Just love it!!!!
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