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curious42

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About curious42

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  • Birthday 10/06/1970

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  1. OMG i,ve read this twice! i want an experience just like this!
  2. Thanks for posting this! I'm sitting here laughing at the situation because as someone who is just considering the LS this senario has gone through my mind! Not sure how I would handle it!
  3. Wow, great idea! So the husband makes the rules for the wife as to what he's comfortable seeing done to his wife? and the wife gets to say what gets done or not done to her husband? Never thought of that before , I like it. Does the one not calling get the shots get to say no I don't want that done to me even though your spouses gave the go ahead?
  4. Hello: I was reading one of your posts to a gal who was asking questions about getting started... she wouldn't do things to her husband that she was willing to do to others. Anyways I enjoyed your response. Is there a way to follow certain members? I'd like to be able to see your other posts and advice... I am new to this... still trying to decide if I want to present this idea to my sig other. Thank You.

  5. Still doing my research... I have not mentioned my interest to my sig other yet. My question is this... I've been reading advice to newbies and almost everyone says how they have a "date" or get together with other couples before the "real date". I've read that people like to get to know each other first, become friends etc. Doesn't this create more emotion in the situation than necessary? I mean I'm thinking that the swinging lifestyle was more strictly about the sex, not creating an emotional connection with other people. My sig other and I have an amazing bond, emotional connection and I want that to be special between the two of us. So if you are getting to know your playmates how do you keep possible emotions out of it? Also, I'm curious. I wear lingerie all the time for my sig other, but don't really own any sexy clothes... and I'm pretty fit, slim, although a little belly. I'm getting the impression that everyone is crazy attractive and porn star looking and all dress in slutty clothes! Is it expected for the woman to be "dressed up slutty" or how do I phrase it?? I would expect to have a hot sexy little number on under the clothes, but can't you arrive in jeans and a sweater? lol. I know this question will probably make many people laugh but I just gotta ask!
  6. Hello: I am 100% new to this! My question to you and anyone else who can give me advice... You say you've only done soft swap vs full so far. Is that common? To me I would think a no kissing rule would be better. I think i'd want to do a full swap minus the kissing, or who knows maybe know kissing is a difficult rule to stick to! like I said i'm new!
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