forbiddenrain

Thank you for sharing, I am enjoying reading about experiences, I hope our first time goes as smoothly!

I know my bf wants this, its what got us into the possibility of swinging and I would also love to watch him with another woman

both totally new to this, I'm the one doing all the looking into etc.. as that's not really his thing, but we discuss everything and are both very curious

We're 30. I wouldn't want to go any lower than 25, he said 20 but promptly accepted my shut down. I said around 45 for limit, he said that was too old, but then I told him there are tons of good looking men at my work older than that (not that I would ever even get involved with anyone at my work, but he needs everything explained to him with an analogy) so it didn't seem too old for us, and as long as we were both attracted I'm cool with it. He agreed I'm looking forward to see how this may play out for us!

For us it is all very ne. It started with talk during sex. I'm pretty sure I started it as he is normally not the one to start. Lately we've been both super turned on during sex at the idea of watching each other with someone else, I'm very open but am super content in our relationship so I thought it was just talk. So the other day I get an email from him with a link to a craiglist ad, I open it and can see it is an ad he posted looking for a couple for us. After I deleted the craiglist ad lol, I came in search of forums. So obviously nothing yet, it hasn't been long that we are talking about it, but we are in no rush, we want to be picky on our couples.

Yes it arouses both of us, we both agree that the reason we want to swing is because we want to watch the each other, neither one of us would want to swing separately, it defeats the point for us. I don't want to think about it, I want to see it

I'm an executive assistant and he is an awesome stay at home Dad