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    San Antonio, TX area
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    Full swap, MFM, want to try house party and grp
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    Healthcare workers
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    Been here since 4/12, have enjoyed reg cpl full swap, but most currently enjoying MFM w BBC
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  1. Thanks everyone for your comments. Just wanted to give you all an update But first to let all those know that we never considered him trying to cheat, as 1 he was single. 2 we were the ones initiating the MFM. Ok now for the update, after a long amount of tries/failures we finally ended up hooking up several times. First time, as soon as she saw how huge his cock she was excited and wondered if she'd be able to enjoy it. Even with his oral skill he was still too large for her to totally enjoy. After that we have been with him several more time and her oral skills have improved where she is able to take all of him orally. And with the use of lube she has been able to take his 12" vaginally. He also had her in positions that I have never had her in (missionary with legs to her head, kneeling edge of bed with him standing among some) all in all we have had quite a bit of fun. Thanks for you replies.
  2. I don't know if this will help but here is my two cents worth. Everyone is human, everyone will get jealous at one thing or another. I don't care if they say they don't, if they mean it then they don't care about that person. Well with that said, I think it is more important HOW you handle this jealousy that keeps you and your wife playing. My wife and I recently got together with a BBC. It was awsume, it was great. He ate her out and made her cum/squirt several times ( I have never been able to make her squirt). She rode him like crazy, she took turns giving us both great BJs. She never sexually left me out. Ok now for the bad part (at least on me). After things began to come down, I decided I wanted to spoon with her and fuck her from behind. Which in turn made her lay her head on his chest, and he held on to her, they ended up kissing, caressing, her jerking & sucking him off. But it all seem so ..... Lovingly, not sexual. The jealously began to hit. I just kept on playing. We finished after a few more hours of play and went home. When me and her play at home by our selves and finish I have always tried to get her to lay on my chest (not sexual) because I've always felt this is nice, me holding her. She usually does not want to and I have given up asking. Well when we got home that nite, I told her how I felt. After some great sex and being worn out I rolled on my back closed my eyes ready to pass out, with out any prompting. She put her head on my chest and we both fell asleep. I have not felt jealous about that again.
  3. I agree, why out yourself? What positives, would this bring out in your relationship with your kids? Now if your kids found out and they questioned you about it, that's a whole different story. I would just enjoy swinging, discuss with your kids any issues they have with their sexually and try to help them as best as I could, but keeping my swing life private. We have 2 teens and this issue has never come up. But the sexual issue comes up a lot and we talk about it openly and honestly, about sex, protection, and respect.
  4. Lol I was wondering the same thing too after we went home. I asked my wife about it. I could imagine the conversation going like "of course not baby, I'm not fucking anyone else" lol Or maybe he was having trouble getting hard which I asked my wife and from what I saw he never really got rock hard... Was thinking maybe he was having difficulty concentrating cuz of all the calls
  5. First time to me was a learning try. Second time was.. Amazing which is what made wife want to try a third and maybe keeping him as regular, which would have been perfect. Don't know now just thinking about backing off for a while see where it goes
  6. He is and isn't vanilla. To us he is, but had told (after we all been together) he had told us he has swung with other cpl and as a cpl before. The part of him wanting to solo, and considering him cheating was already resolved as that me and wife are very secure in our relationship, she loves cock but is not gonna leave me for anyone and we will tell each other everything as when she told me about the kiss. And we have found out after first play he has no problem sharing. I think so too, as he was very receptive of my suggestion to use lube when doing my wife since his member was too big and wife did not have fun. Second time she was left in heaven we came home had more sex and kissed a lot. I have never told her that many "I love you" before lol
  7. I agree there are a lot of fish out there, and plenty that have no problem with wanting to fuck your wife. Problem is finding the right one. We have be getting to know this guy for about 4-5 months if not more but have only talked to him about sexual play and have only gotten together about 3-4 weeks ago sexually. I know what you mean, just not that easy, if you want the right male it takes a good amount of effort.
  8. Ok on a previous post I had asked about wife and I hooking up with a person from a regular bar, answers varied. NOW I have a different question. We did end up hooking up with person which I mentioned in previous posts. Wife and I are Hispanic and in our early 50's. He is in mid 40's and black male. I have wanted to see her play with such a male for a while. We have known him for a few months, usually play pool, hang out and after a few conversations hinted of our wanting to play. Which he seemed interested too. His place was close to the bar we frequent and we ended up going to his place to "hang out". Well one thing lead to another and we all ended up naked and in his bed playing with my wife. He was very well endowed and at first sight she was excited but after, wife said she had trouble servicing him oral and even less sexually to the pointed she told me that she was not interested in playing with a guy with such a big member again because it hurt too much. I texted him that he should keep KY available which he did not have. Well we ended together again a few days later and this time he used KY. VERY Big difference she was like a kid with a new toy we all had a great time. And this time she stated she would not mind having him as a regular male to play with. Ok now for the problem. We just got together a 3rd time. It was ok. But he kept bragging about his oral abilities (which I was ok with, his bragging I mean) BUT throughout the night that's all he did... Not brag, but only oral. We spent about 3-4 hrs with him and he actually only had sex with her about twice for a few minutes. He would start pumping her for a while then go back to oral. That was just getting old, she thought so too. But the real problem was when someone kept calling him on his cell and he'd walk off to another room for 10-15 minutes to talk to this person. I asked who it was, he said it was his adult college kid calling about school activities? We know he's been having problems with a girl he says he is not serious with and we feel this was her (no she does not know of this, though she might suspect as he told her he was interested in swinging with her, but she said it was out of the question). I felt as him stopping to answer his phone and going out in the middle of this was inconsiderate and disrespectful. I understand you have see what's going on maybe one or two calls, but this went on several times. Wife said maybe we should just stay away for a while till he gets his "stuff" together. I told her I was really upset by his inconsiderate behavior and would not care if we hook up any more, plus if it was the girl calling, I don't want the drama. What do you guys think? Sorry about the long story, just wanted you all to know what was going on.
  9. Wife and I first play was back in early 90's with only MFM. Most recent have been with couples. I must say both have been very exciting. But I personally have enjoyed the MFM a lot more. I love it when she is moaning and enjoying herself with another guy. And the best part, she never forgets about me either... it's like she really loves the attention. And for me it's not as tiring. Even when we did the couple thing, when the other female took a break, it was awesome doing her at same time with other male also, and you could tell the sexual level got knocked up a few notches lol.
  10. Thanks for everyone's input. Just giving you guys an update. Since wife found him attractive I kinda gave her the go ahead, and if things happened...they happened. Which to date, nothing has... Lol. I think through the hinting and "trying to get together at his place for drinks" he has figured we would like to play MFM. But so far there been obstacles. First as told in this story there was miscommunication with me and wife, I did not think he was interested but she told me after we left he was. Lol by 2nd meet at bar when we got to his apartment, which is a plus right across, he had gotten off of work and was tired... So he passed out. 3rd time we were at the bar taking it easy playing pool letting wife kick our butts, getting her in the mood to play. It was dead, just a few people, about thtee others. We decide to take a break and sit at a table and finish our drinks and just as we were about to leave to his place, in comes a small crowd of 4 girlfriends of wife so they all sit with us and the drinking and having fun commence. Music is playing and wife is dancing with the guy and he tells her he can't wait to take her back home. She tells him... It ain't happening tonite lol. One of the girls there lives opposite of him, which is ok I guess. BUT, one of the other girls there is a real gossip AND she was gonna spend night with her instead going across town back to her place lol ... Oh well on the plus we all a great time. I told my wife, if this happened at our other club, we would all gone to the big room and had a lot more fun than just dancing. lol
  11. Thanks I agree. Somehow the issue got way off track. I should clarify. When I stated I had concerns that I felt like he was trying to cheat with my wife, it was that I felt he did not have to try to do that. His flirting, which included the kissing did not bother me. I am all for my wife having fun especially if she finds him attractive and nice to hang out with. I am very secure with my marriage especially since we have both played with others. My main concern was that all this was happening at a regular bar. If this were to happen at the swing bar we like to go, there would be no question we'd all be in the back getting it on. I'm just not too sure about hooking up with someone at a bar we like to frequent at
  12. Exactly! It's not about him making advances toward her, he was very flirty with her in the bar in front of me, and with other females also that is his personality which I was ok with. The fact that this is a vanilla bar is my prob. I guess what I should have asked was. Has any body regretted picking up someone in bar like this, especially if it is your hang out? We don't come in and announce our intentions of having someone join us for a MFM but when you meet someone you like and especially your wife likes... What do you do. ???
  13. Ok this is just a general question, just wanting opinions. Wife and have been going to a swing club for about 2 years now, hooked up with a few cpls, not a lot 2-3, but had a lot of fun. Sometimes just me and her play while watching others too. I would like to think we both enjoyed it. Prior to that we had done MFM with an ex BF of hers, she enjoyed it. I loved watching (and messing with her at same time) that was a long time ago when we were in our mid 30s. We just turned 50s. That MFM was short lived, about 2-3 week span with only about 3-4 meets. He was the one who moved on. So since then, there was a long period of no play. But that's not the only thing that stopped us, we now had a family to deal with. Started up again since kids are now bigger and self sufficient. So that is our back ground. Now for what's currently going on. We love to go to reg dive bars (as well as the swing club) lol, you know the kind where one knows your name lol. Well we have gotten to know a few people there at one of our favorite places and their drama (DAMN more drama than the swing club). Well we really got to know this guy that frequents there a bit. He is a really nice guy, gets flirty with all the girls, loud when drunk. My wife enjoys his company, he is about our age if not a little older. He is a tall good looking black man (we are Hispanic). We've played pool, darts, gotten drunk together at the bar. Basically had a lot of bar fun that was it. The second to the last time we saw him, in a drunken discussion we all agreed to meet at his apartment the next morning for steak BBQ (my wife even told him she'd bring the salad lol), just saying we were all wasted. The next time we saw him he asked "what happened?" We told him the truth, we were all f'ed up, my wife didn't even remember the salad statement she made. Well that night we closed the bar.... again. This time he asked us if we wanted to come over to his apartment, which we discovered is right across the street from the bar and that a lot of the people that we know and frequent the same bar also live at the complex. We went with the intention of just seeing where it was just in case we ever decided to get together again we would know where it was, plus I was kind of curious as to see what his "pad" looked like. My wife looked at me and stated "you know he's probably gonna wanna fuck", I just blew her off. He was very flirty with her at the bar, making comments like "girl, if he wasn't here", and "man, you lucky dog I know your gonna hit that tonite". I was not insulted as I know that was a great ego boost for my wife . He showed us around. It was a small place, but big enough for a single guy. We talked for a while. Then I had to go pee. After a little while, probably about 20-45 minutes, I felt we had stayed enough and said goodbye and left (we had closed the bar so it was way past 2 a.m.). Nothing eventful. So I thought. The next day while wife and I went out, I started asking what she really thought of him. I found him very cocky, too loud when drunk, even probably better in bed just by his stature. On the plus side he was great to be around, life of the party, he enjoyed doing what we were doing. I was surprised, she told me she liked him and found him fun to be with (no neg, not even the over flirty with the women in the bar). I asked her straight out would you fuck him? She stated yes (this does not bother me, we usually talk). I asked her would you have fucked him that night? She again stated yes but that I was the one who wanted to leave (again, I guess it was my misunderstanding, but I did not get a vibe that he wanted to do anything that night that he was just being cordial). She then told me... oh yeah, he wanted to fuck. While I was in the bathroom and he was showing her some family pictures hanging on the wall, he grabbed her, pulled her close and kissed her with tongue and she kissed him back. He stated again to her that if I was not in the picture, he would be doing a lot of stuff to her right now. I was not mad, I guess becauseof all his comments at the bar I figured he was hot for her, I just didn't think he wanted to do anything now. What do you guys think? I have a lot of issues with him being loud. You know the code at the club, is way different, (we are there to play and so are you... so no tell). I like my privacy and don't want to be outed. The part of my wife wanting to fuck him really excites me, but I keep getting the thoughts, he wants her to "cheat on me" which is kinda of stupid because I would so let it happen as long as I was there too (we have never played apart and it's not gonna happen... plus she's always been greedy, the more dicks the better)
  14. My wife has never done one but I say 10 is a nice round number
  15. You said that you've been swinging for about 2 years. I am guessing that the first cpl you all played with and you had trouble was 2 years ago? Are you still having problems or do you just want to stop swinging. Maybe your just burnt out on it. I'm not saying it is wrong for you not to want to swing while wife still does. I've seen a lot of stories here about the wife wanting to stop while the hubby still wants to continue. I think you and wife need to talk about it seriously. You might also have to decide if she still wants to continue and you don't that a break up might be coming. Have you considered asking her to just take a break for a few months and see where that leads? I would never suggest that you bite the bullet and just keep playing especially if you want to stop.
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