Talon34420

The day after we had played for the first time, my wife was both overwhelmed with guilt and also wildly sexy!! By the time we decided to play again with the same couple, she was much more into it and we did continue to play until a job transfer led them to move away from the area. In spite of her initial reservations, she admitted that she had a good time and looked forward to more 'play dates' with them! If you've discussed it fully with your wife, I think you can expect some residual guilt from her religious upbringing but with patience and love, I'm sure she'll learn really to enjoy it!

As I've mentioned before, my wife and I have only played with one other couple and they were friends before we ever had sex with each other. (There is a whole story there. Maybe I'll post it in the 'stories' section one of these days.) Anyway, there is no way the my wife ever would have swung if it weren't for them being such good friends. We enjoyed an incredible 5-month relationship before the other husband got a job transfer overseas and the whole thing ended. Since then, my wife has never wanted to play again and we haven't been fortunate enough to meet another couple with whom we had that kind of 'click'. I can't speak for those who swing on a regular basis but I'm very thankful that we had friends with whom we could share that adventure.

It had taken an enormous amount of convincing to get my wife to try swinging. (To be completely honest, we only ever did it with one other couple.) However, when it finally did happen, the next morning was kind of interesting. She was wildly horny and we had some of the best sex of our lives. Then guilt set in. She had had a very religious upbringing and the guilt over what we'd done really impacted her. However, with patience and love, we were able to get her to 'come around' and the second time we played, she was VERY much into it. We played with this couple for several months when a job transfer sent them overseas and my wife had no desire to continue the experience. As for my reaction, I LOVED it but have to confess that I also experienced some guilt feelings since it was something we 'weren't supposed to do'. But I would love to have that experience again!!