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I've noticed that the older I get, the more I enjoy seeing my wife with another man. It is a requirement when we see single men to be bigger then I am or no deal.

We started by sending mail to some magazine subscription we would pick up at Castles. It was a very long drawn out process.

Good one Hedo, lol. Thankfully my wife did not tell me that.

condoms condoms condoms condoms Other than that we started with all kinds of rules for the Mrs to feel comfortable. Now, just protect yourself.

We have always made it a rule to never involve people from our past.

We have been in the lifestyle a very long time and we have seen you situation time and time again. Unfortunately they have all ended the same way, separated or divorced. Swinging can do one of two things for a relationship. 1. Make it incredibly strong. 2. Tear it apart. If anyone in the lifestyle has to rely on being trashed to swing, you should not do it. As for us, we stay away from people that have to be trashed to get down. We do not want to be around when the crap hits the fan. And if one of the couple is trashed, it usually happens in public where a big scene is made.

Male half here, I have not had a better lover in bed, but I have had a better kisser.

I agree with Frank

This is the male half. I told my wife that I was a swinger the first week we started dating. She dumped me about 20 minutes after I told her. I did not mind because I had only a few days invested into the relationship. About a week later she give me a call telling me that her ex-husband shamed her because she wanted to try being with another woman. So that weekend I took her to a house party and we have never looked back. It has been 15 years now.

It is better to have more couples involved so you do not have to get too intimate with one single couple. Besides, the more people the more things there are to lick, suck and poke.

We have both faked them with another couple once, but to my knowledge we have not faked one to each other.