Re: Fantasy vs Reality
Yes, there are a lot of good ways to "test your mettle" in regards to swinging. Massages work, so would flirting with another couple, a night out dancing with some close contact...
Like many on the board, my wife and I have talked about her getting plowed by another guy while I watch, but have yet to take the plunge.
Having my wife get an erotic massage sounds like a brilliant idea as a way to do a 'dry run.' That idea had never occurred to me . . . this board is an amazing wealth of information.
She and I are heading to Las Vegas in August. I'm definitely going to take a shot at heading to the Red Rooster, but I love the massage idea as a very 1st step.
In reading this board it seems like there's an answer/advice/insight for everything so I'll throw this out to see if there's any insight to be gained. I've started doing a couple searches for "male in-call erotic massages," but as you can imagine they all come back with gay massages . . . couldn't have less interest in that.
Does anyone know a resource to find a male in call massages for the purpose i'm looking for?