sherpa56

We are pretty new to this. Although I have had fantasies in the past about girl/girl playing, my girlfriend has too. What a pleasant surprise to know I had found someone who wasn't put off from the idea to play a little to enhance a couples sex. We had talked about it for some time because, well I wasn't going to push someone into trying something they would only be doing for me (him). We decided to try a club in So CA that had many members and seemed to be well into the life style with out any singles males, which is what she wanted. The first experience was a bit to fast for me but ended up be very exciting and after we went back to our hotel room, had sex for 4 hrs. We were so tired the next day that we ended up just going home and staying in bed until the next morning, of course having sex on and off all day. Our next encounter will be even better I hope. And not too far between (from her).....

Good point Tina; and yes we always wear protection or we don't play....

Ok, so first off I want to thank everyone who responded. And after thinking long and hard, I felt (like pretty much everyone here), I over reacted. Like most who play this lifestyle, I realize that you can't really get butt hurt if you go and swap with someone other than your SO..... No matter what status in thier relationship they have. I felt just a little overwhelmed I think because this all happened so fast. I really didn't think we would actually hook up the first time we went to the night club. Surprise was on me I guess. And since then we have been contacted by many wanting to hook up and possibly full swap. Kinda flattering I guess...... So all is good in Sherpa land, and want to say "thanks" again to you all.....

My SO and I (him) have for many weeks/months been talking about swinging, brought about from the fact that we didn't want to get bored with sex in any way. We are in our late 40's and find the thought of seeing each other turned on with someone else made us very interested in this lifestyle. So to make a long story short, we went to one of the more popular clubs here in CA (SO CA in fact). We both had no idea what to expect and in as much when we showed up, were taken on a tour. That was great. But didn't really have anyone in the seating area introduce themselves. So we went into an area after checking on the place that only couples can go and play, no singles (this place doesn't allow single men at all). After a couple of hours playing by ourselves, a couple (in there late 20's early 30's) came next to us and started watching. It only took about 5 mins before they too were turned on by what we were doing to each other. They asked if they could join in and we both looked at each other and said sure. We all touched each other and after a short period my girl and the other guy were paired off. My girl and I had said we didn't want to play without each other there, so we were within touching distance of one and the other (me and her). So here comes the point.... I was watching them having intercourse and kinda lost track of what the woman with me wanted to do. I was more interested in watching my girl and this guy. At first I got a major hard on and the woman that was (at this point) giving me a BJ was surprised that I could get that hard and must have been a bit bigger than her man (as she mentioned, I wasn't flattered though for some reason) but after trying to refocus on her, I started to ask how long they had been married (assuming they were but didn't know for sure). She said they weren't but just friends with benefits. And sometimes they go home with different people and did I want to try that.... Now I don't tend to make knee jerk reactions, but for what ever reason, was totally put off by this. I almost called it quits with them but my girl seemed to be enjoying herself. So I let them finished and then asked that they let us play alone again. They did with out any problem, but I felt really pissed or more so like he used my girl for just a piece of ass. To me this was a guy just talking a girl into going to a swing club to score on someone else's woman with out any connection to his FWB.... My girl said I should have stopped him if I was feeling that... But after we talked a little more came to a agreement not to play with anyone not committed to each other. Whether its a married couple or not, just be committed to one and the other. Later on that night, picturing them having sex was a major turn on still and we went after it until morning. So..... did I over react ??? My girl and I are very committed and love each other more than ever before so I'm OK with still going to swing parties and the like. Again it was a major turn on watching her but I just didn't like the fact they (the other couple) weren't really into each other. Comments please.... !!!!!!