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About EroticGent

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  • Birthday 05/24/1960

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    Single Male (ENM)
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    Hawai'i
  • Swinging Experience
    Over fifteen years off-and-on.

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  1. Thank you for introducing this very interesting and relevant thread! I have also experienced the challenge of being perhaps too open during intimacy with a female vanilla partner and sharing a fantasy that I found (and still find) arousing. The fantasy included FFM and sex toys. I also simply viewed it as dirty talk and as an opportunity for my partner to see into me and discover my deepest level-- a way to know me more deeply. Alas, that relationship with great sex declined soon after my expression of my fantasy which was just that. I had no intention of pursuing it although if she had expressed a positive reaction that might have led to a wonderful conversation about our hidden desires. I was surprised by her negative reaction even to sex toys alone. She was unwilling to discuss her reaction to my dirty talk. In retrospective, I am grateful I discovered this side of her early since I prefer ladies and couples with great open minds and with a desire to explore sexually. Fortunately, the fantasy did eventually turn into reality with other females and couples. The reality was indeed amazing; so glad I found the right partners with whom to take the leap from fantasy to reality!
  2. I value my privacy and discretion, so I would not be interested. I do enjoy being sexual with a partner on video but only for our viewing and viewing by a small group of others who we hold as close, intimate playmates.
  3. Yes, as far as mirrors. I was amazed how powerfully arousing having sex in front of a full length mirror was and is. The opportunity to see views that drive me wild in erotic photography and porn by adjusting the position of the mirror is powerful. In addition, we found just setting-up a video camera that points toward the area of play (the bed, dining table, etc.) and going about having sex as though the camera was not there worked very well. At a subconscious level it seemed to bring out the exhibitionist and performer in each of us. Going through the video afterward together and finding the sections that were gems was arousing too.
  4. Cecilia Tan's "SexMagick: Women Conjuring Erotic Fantasy" and "Telepaths Don't Need Safewords: And Other Stories from the Erotic Edge of Science Fiction and Fantasy" might be worth considering. Of course the old standby: Pauline Reage's "The Story of O".
  5. Trés bien! Bon pointe! Of course, swingers are a cut above. 😈
  6. Beautifully summarized! My impressions exactly. Gratitude, taking care of one's body in all ways, acceptance, and loving-kindness are essential.
  7. Love it! Hilarious and brilliant! My only suggestion is to use a French phrase for "Mary's Nipple". For example, "Tétine Mary" or "L'apogée Mary".
  8. Rediscovering the joys of SwingersBoard after being away for a while....

  9. Indeed they did and nature provided a great form here. Visited long ago, and they are gorgeous and inspiring of erotic thoughts!
  10. As a resident of Hawai'i, pineapples are everywhere, so a pineapple motif is not really a very effective way to identify swingers. A black ring is certainly more definitive, but many locals tend to not wear such a ring to advertise their lifestyle in such a tight community. Residents here on average tend to be able to slow down and be more relaxed and are very approachable and friendly. Starting a conversation here with people with this "vibe" is generally welcome. If visitors are able to slow down and take-in the slower more relaxed way of life here, starting a conversation and seeing where it leads is a good idea. As has been said previously, someone needs to start the conversation and then explore where it goes.....
  11. Yes! Doggy position for watching others is indeed hot. Using a full length mirror in front of a pair in doggy position is a real turn-on to see each other having sex. I know my playmates and I find this a real turn-on. Personally, I find the view reflected in the mirror looking down a lady's chest as she leans forward drives me wild. 😇😈
  12. Thank you for bringing this to our attention. Certainly has changed my reaction to this pic posting. I am unfamiliar with Tineye, but it sounds like a very useful tool.
  13. Bravo on an excellent collection of pictures with excellent titles!

  14. Sounds like those involved chose the wrong type of cruise for their fun on the seas. Knowing what you seek on your vacation and doing the research to find a good match is the first rule of excellent vacation planning. 😝😎
  15. I have a couple lady friends with whom I swing occasionally, and one is bi. I say occasionally since we are just friends and live in different parts of the world. Hawai'i where I live and especially my particular island has a very limited to nonexistent swinging community among residents. Most opportunities come from swingers who visit the islands and connect via swinging websites such as SDC. Hence, that is one reason I posted a personal here recently seeking swingers in Hawaii or visiting Hawaii-- although the reality based on my experience so far is that I am seeking more of a poly family relationship since a multi-level connection, friendship, and regularity are important to me rather than playing superficially with many. I like your entrepreneurial spirit and suggestion as far as setting-up the porn site! For many reasons I am not really the right person to set-up such a site. I imagine such a site may even already be out there--- a site with real, raw, amateur sex where the chemistry is palpable and hot. I would be willing to pay a subscription to such a quality site. I am fascinated by your story of how you ended-up in a poly family! Thank you for sharing it! As I stated earlier in this response, a poly family seems like the better fit for me rather than casual swinging. I look forward to learning more and exploring further.
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