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Thank you for the suggestions everyone. You have given us some great ideas.

We are going to have our first orgy at our home next weekend. We told our guests that the event would be BYOB and that we would provide light snacks, water, and perhaps wine. We are looking for suggestions for light snacks that are good orgy food. Thanks for your input.

My wife and I have no idea how many partners the other had before we were a couple. Why? Because the question was never asked. Why? Because it doesn't matter and it is none of our business! We are very honest and upfront people and would tell each other ANYTHING if there was a need to know or were simply to ask. We know how many partners each has had since we were a couple because we were both present. Swinging is very different from emotional sex and not that hard to separate. There is sex for pure recreation and sex for love. "There was always alcohol involved" and "alcohol fueled sex party" have two very different connotations. There is usually alcohol involved when my wife and I swing. The most we have ever had was two drinks apiece all evening and sometimes we have none. "Alcohol fueled sex party" implies a bunch of drunks doing things that they will not remember in the morning. So, which was it? It sounds like you have deep seated doubts that will always eat at you and in time ruin what could have been a wonderful relationship. You have a picture in your head as to what is enough experience and what is too much. She seems to have too much. Cut her loose before you both get hurt and go find yourself someone else with "a fairly experienced past." (but apparently not too experienced!)