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  • Birthday 04/01/1957

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  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    Oregon
  • Interests
    Sailing, Scuba, computers
  • Swinging Experience
    10 years

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  • SLS Name
    forfunonly692
  • Favorite Club(s)
    Velvet Rope in Portland Oregon

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  1. My wife is often driven by her new partners to be a total slut. She dresses different for them, fucks in public areas of the swing clubs, takes on multiple men, etc. However she is my wife, she feels and acts different when she is with me. After 33 years together we have patterns that are difficult to overcome. When we make love after the 6 years swinging I can sometimes get her to act sluttier with me, but the difficulty for her is she is making love with me, with other guys she is simply fucking or being used as a slut. At first I was jealous, now I enjoy watching her and realize the difference. I would probably get jealous now if I saw her "making love" with a new friend instead of fucking him like a slut, that is what we do, not what she does with others.
  2. Different than several folks here, I will tell you that a passive woman can be just as much fun in swinging as any other. The difference is communication. My wife is very passive, it simply is her sexual nature. If any man (including myself in our 31 year relationship) asks her what she enjoys she will tell them "whatever you want is fine with me". We make sure that the men she plays with are dominant in nature and are OK with "taking whatever they want" from a woman. This is what turns her on, to simply be used by a man for his sexual pleasure. There are plenty of men out there who are willing to "ride em hard and put em up wet" with a submissive woman, IF they know in advance that this is her nature. Most of us, in life and in this lifestyle both, have been trained to cater to the woman's taste, so it is unusual to have to deal with a passive woman. But if forewarned, we have found men enjoy using a woman simply as a fuck toy for their own pleasure. In fact, they tend to step up and use her repeatedly, adding greatly to her enjoyment (her most fun is in a gangbang situation being used as a sex object for the men). Good luck; as in everything in this lifestyle communication with prospective gentleman, as well as a discerning eye as to what kind of man she needs, will work wonders for you both.
  3. In the pacific northwest we have found multiple men in the swing lifestyle who would be willing to participate in a gang bang (we have hosted 2 of them), but even more of them in the fetish/BDSM world. (They are also into the sex, not just into flogging the bride to be). This may be out of line here to mention another group, but depending on location I would first check at local munches (as the BDSM folks call their meet and greets) or look to meet some folks on Fetlife.com. I would be careful about discretion and noise in a conservative community, and make sure you pay costs of rooms, condoms etc yourselves so there is no hint of prostitution. Remember for every 3 men who RSVP that they will absolutely be there, only 1 will show up for the event (men fantasize about doing this but get cold willies at the last minute). Filming and masks should be asked about with the participants in advance. I might also suggest finding a good friend to be a fluffer for your bride, to keep the men who are in the warm up pen nice and warm (and hard). Good luck and have fun, too bad we live to far away to help you with despoiling your southern lady.
  4. Our favorite was the gentleman who sent us an email saying "is it time for me to come give her some more orgasms"? This was a gentleman she had played with at a party before who was definitely in the "OK" (but not great) category for her. It seems that a lot of single men's emails imply that the reason we play is that I cannot satisfy my wife sexually. It never crosses their mind how offensive this can be to the husband of 29 years to read that, and thus they seem disappointed when we just don't jump on their invitations to to "ah'll fuk er gud fer ya".
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