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creamylips

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  • Birthday 11/12/1970

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    M.female
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    cali
  • Swinging Experience
    17 yrs.

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  1. You are so right when you state that the the general public has an easier time accepting adultery versus swinging or an open marriage. Totally screwed up and ironic- but it is the truth.
  2. No- seperate room swinging is not an open marriage. Thats wandering around during group play! We actually group swing, and play solo totally apart from each other, and our seperate play may include several people. Open marriage is the freedom to explore other sexual partners, without having to ask or explain to your spouse. Then there are times we have solo play dates in our home, while the other spouse is at home too. It's just a given that if it is designated solo play time and not group- we give total privacy to the other. They are still classified as actual solo playdates even though we may both be in the house at the same time. Because during solo playtime, the other spouse isn't involved at all, and isn't having any type of play time. I may be doing laundry upstairs, while he is partying with his galpals down in the basement. We have a great basement with seperate entrance that works well for swing time and our own solo play dates. We do give each other the courtesy of letting each other know when we will be off playing, or using the basement.
  3. well, I feel the penis starting to shudder a bit, thats the start of it- then I know he will be cumming soon. Then when he actually cums, I feel a little sensation of warmth against my vaginal wall, then as the semen is pushed out from the pumping action, I feel it surround the opening of my vagina. You really have to tune yourself into his actions and how is penis is moving within you- once you get the hang of it- wow!
  4. We don't sleep overnight with our playdates either- we prefer sleeping only with each other. Sometimes I am at home when hubby is having a playdate- if he is playing at home. If I am at home, I like to make sure that I have a nice meal and plenty of drinks flowing for him and his galpals, but otherwise I give him total privacy. But most of the time I make arrangements to be out of the house.He has a very healthy appetite, and has sex everday- wether it's with me or his lovely gals pals. But alot of the time hubby plays at his gals homes, or a hotel, or wherever he makes plans to play. I usually play solo when he is at work- because I have the house to myself- but I also play when he is at home too. When we are at group play with other couples and singles, it's usually at a home. Although group play while camping is marvelous!!
  5. Well, my hubby usually plays solo more than I do! He has a group of regular gal pals that he has playdates with, and every now an then a new gal is introduced. It really depends on the group of people that you know, and how well you have developed your own network. He usually has solo playdates once,sometimes twice a week. I have solo play as I feel like it. Usually every other week or so- sometimes more, sometimes less. Then we have group play 2-3 times per month.We don't put limits on each other, and really don't keep track.We support and encourage each other in our solo play. We don't put limits or constraints on a satisfying sex life. We do what really works for us, and as I said , we have been together in a loving marriage for 17 years- .
  6. For those that are swingers with an open marriage. Do you just swing in seperate rooms, or do you and your partner play seperately all together on occassion? The hubby and I swing and have individual play time. He'll arrange playtime with a galpal or 2, by himself, and I will occassionally do the same with a guypal. It's a huge turn on for me when I know my hubby is off playing.How bout everyone else?
  7. For solo play, you need to be in a stable and loving relationship- that has no room for jealosies or insecurities. Hubby and I have been doing group and solo play for 17 years! but we have a different take on sex than many people do. For us, our playtime is sex to be enjoyed for fun, and thats it. We have successfully seperated our love for each other from our LS. We understand the dynamics completely, and appreciate them. Our love is our own- for nobody else, we just happen to have sex with others also!! If a swing LS or open marriage is causing your marriage grief- then you are just not ready for it. Don't push your partner to divulge details. Sometimes it's just not our business to know every little thought or action. To truly be unselfish is to let the other have those experiences with out explanation. But,as usual, I digress. The cam can be helpful in those types of sitations. That way your partner doesn't have to explain every thought or detail, you can just watch for yourself- and I'm sure it will be self explanatory!!Unless your partner comes home with a frown on their face, it's a given that they had a great time.
  8. Yes, aggressive is subjective- it all depends on if the female is receptive. If she is not, then he is called aggressive. I have never had an aggressive "asshole". But I have had aggressive, and I find it sexy myself. It all depends on the viewpoint of the lady, and what it is that she is looking for. sometimes an aggressive male can just be a very horny male, that needs a little extra attention at first, before he mellows a bit. In other words, let him go at ya a bit, then after he gets off, he mellows and enjoys the groove of the evening with everyone else. It really depends on the situation you are in. Seriously.
  9. deep, thank you!, maybe in time your wife will come around. She just may need some extra re-assurance from you. There are also a lot of books that have been written on the subject. Once she understands that you only love her, but still capable of having playtime with other ladies, it will be easier for her. I find your frankness quite sexy too!
  10. We play alone quite a bit. It tends to be our fave. We just make sure to have the video cam ready, as either way, it's a huge turn on to watch my hubby play with another lady.And he likes to watch my alone play also.So, we always make sure to give each other the courtsey of a video or live cam show. And, sometimes when he is alone with another lady he lets himself really get into the moment-that is what I really enjoy about it. Seeing him so fully pleased and satisfied. But keep in mind you must be very confident in your relationship. There is no room for jealosy when you let your partner have alone play.
  11. Yes!! The cam is your friend!! When my hubby goes off to have fun and I'm not with him at the time, I get all the juicy details first hand via the vid cam, later on- sometimes via a web cam! It's fantastic. He would have a tough time going into detail with me also. Now I get to see exactly how much he was into it, and it's a huge turn on!
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