PlayingTogether

I don't think it is crazy at all. In researching swinging lifestyles, one thing my wife and I have found time and time again is the need for respect of desires and boundaries. In fact, swingers seem to have a better handle on this than most of the rest of the world. My wife and I have both been involved in full swap in the past (before we knew each other). Now that we are together, we have settled into exactly what you and your husband are looking for. That is what makes US happy. Isn't that what sharing a swinging experience is all about? It is more difficult to find people with similar desires. But, it sure is fun when you do. Different strokes for different folks?

My wife and I have talked about having or attending such a party as well. To each their own... but we think it would be incredibly sexy. Go figure... we are in a flyover state as well.

We both have had experiences in the past. Since we have been together, we have had one FMF and one experience with another couple. We are not into full swap, but mostly like to watch and be watched. Some girl/girl touching is fine. In our relationship we have found the mutual desire to have such boundaries, where in the past neither of us cared for any boundaries at all. Some in the lifestyle may feel this is restrictive. It makes it harder to find the right female or the right couple. However it actually intensifies the experience for us while sharing the experience together. So, our quest for like-minded couples goes on and the fun and passion continues to grow.