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About hughb

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  • Birthday 04/10/1960

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  • Relationship Status
    couple
  • Location
    washington
  • Interests
    Running, Lifting, Napping, Drinking, Eating
  • Swinging Experience
    2 years

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  1. I tend to go with MN Tom's flow. I (Mr.) have felt like there were a few experiences where Mrs. hughb got the short end of the stick (no pun intended) just due to the fact that frequently the chick is the hotter of the couple and Mrs. hughb and I are roughly equal hawtness. Like Alura said there is always SOME fun or beauty in everyone. And I pride myself on being able to find and enjoy it. I would welcome Mrs. hughb experiencing the cuter of the pair for a change because I feel like I have benefited more on that issue than she.
  2. It's all about you! Don't be rude or mean, but do whatever turns you two on. We've had a blast at Sesso and nearly always stick exclusively with each other. Some of us just enjoy the flirty sexy vibe and the "potential." Hope to see you Saturday night.
  3. We have also recently trimmed our presence down to those two sites, SLS and Kasidie, but probably check into kasidie more often as they have more cool features with the facebook wall and "who's been looking at me" feature. Like Lee said, they are truly in it for the right reasons and always take the "high road" with personal tastes, other sites and other preferences. If you travel to Vegas, it's definitely worth checking in on Vegas parties.
  4. 'Rising' this whole scene sounds so familiar to me. My wife and I had a similar experience with a girl who we both REALLY connected with on every level. This girl is much more bisexual than my wife and fairly aggressive so she and my wife were VERY intimate. My wife definitely enjoys herself with women but still prefers men and is adamant that she has no bisexual proclivities. Still, I know what I saw and I saw two women enjoying themselves with each other. In my case, I'll just enjoy these moments as they happen.
  5. I will preface this by admitting that I'm a wuss. I do not like pain. The procedure is quick and relatively painless but select a practitioner of the no-scalpel technique. But for recovery I have three words Vi Co Din. and ice
  6. There wasn't a big presence in our area on kasidie either, but that's changing. The most refreshing thing about their site, aside from the enhanced security, slicker interface and great features is their complete lack of paranoia about competing sites. You can post outside email addresses or even url's from competing sites and they don't try to censor your communication. Other sites (one in particular) act as if they own your relationship with other couples. If you try to post an external email, the post is censored and automatically deleted and I got some hokey message that I was trying to spam and send nigerian emails. When that happened to us several times on LL, I tried the same thing on kasidie and it went through without a hitch. It's a backhanded method of forcing you to remain subscribed to their site or risk losing contact with friends.
  7. Best lifestyle site BY FAR! Yes there is thin membership in some areas but people go where people go. The site has great features such as a Facebook wall, who's viewing me page, several layers of photo security, rendezvous, excellent security and none of that annoying LL paranoia. I swear those guys think they own the relationships we make on their site and prohibit any outside email contact or referral to other sites. There is none of that childish paranoia on kasidie. (I have no financial interest whatsoever in their company) We do still use SLS too but we're dumping LL when our membership expires.
  8. I would tell my wife about this hot chick I saw and what she was wearing and how she moved and acted and all about her beautiful features and charming mannerisms and what she was wearing. And if she spoke to me I would tell my wife everything she said and how MAYBE!! she was flirtiing with me...or either way was being really nice and REALLY caught my attention. That I wanted to fuck her is implied.
  9. Yes, agree with Vegas Lee. My wife was not interested, no how no way. But I did talk her into the topless pools in Vegas and she did enjoy hanging out at the topless pool at Mandalay Bay. And the next day she hung out at the topless pool wearing only a thong. The next year we went to Desire and hung out naked and enjoyed that environment (no swapping) then a year or so later a lifestyle club, then a profile on SLS, then soft swap, then full and finally the never of nevers she had her first girl-girl experience...and enjoyed herself. I agree with Vegas Lee, what's the rush? Enjoy the journey together. It has been a blast corrupting my gorgeous wife!
  10. I don't see a thing wrong with having standards and sticking to them. This is all about you and your wife. There is no need to "settle." No need to be rude, be polite and respectful but do not proceed unless there is four way agreement. Still there will be people who, while you may not wish to get involved with (or even see naked!) will be good humans who are fun to interact and visit with. We had great trips to Desire Cabo and Cancun, with a good mix of hot and not so hot people. Still all were fun, upscale and respectful and a blast to party with. Cabo has since gone non-lifestyle. Nothing wrong with having standards and you can have a blast in this lifestyle. Imagine a beautiful compatible couple and go find them. They're out there!
  11. Living in Vegas, I think your best bet is Kasidie. We love that site and they acquired American Lowlife so they have a great representation for your area. LL is popular but IMO expensive and EXTREMELY annoying popups on their free trial. I don't think we will renew LL when our subscription expires. Just our opinion
  12. "The site that we think has the most potential is Kasidie." Totally agree. Great features nice free trial offer, cheap subscriptions, forums, rendezvous, 'who's looking at me?' private photos, public... Plus a nice good-looking clientèle.
  13. The "losing your virginity" analogy is good. Our first experience was similar, OK for me not as good for my wife. We see the potential, we want to try again, we had no jealousy or dysfunction issues whatsoever. BUT it has literally taken our sex life to another level. You both have to come to terms with risk/reward, for us it is worth it.
  14. We have been using kasidie . com for the past few months and really liking their format. So far membership seems to be more regional with Vegas, Colorado and texas being most active. SLS is a great fallback option though.
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