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To NELA couple, Welcome to the Lifestyle - hope it will give you everything you are hoping for. I agree that we have plenty of labels to deal with in this world, but after some time in the Lifestyle, it will become clear that labels can prevent some embarrassing or hurtful moments. They are not all bad. Let them guide you, and don't be afraid to change your own as you gain experience and realize what is right or wrong for you. B

We have had fun, too, wondering about how long you can stay 'curious' about something you have tried. I consider myself 'bi-comfortable'. I really like guys, have never initiated an encounter with another female, but in a close sexual situation I like 'people' to touch and to be touched by. Sometimes, another girl will know exactly what will make an experience "out of this world" and in that situation I love to be both the giver and the receiver. I do feel sorry for you guys that most men can not be as comfortable with accidentally touching each other as we girls. Especially in a situation with new swinging partners, I see how my husband has part of his attention on not offending anybody by getting too close to another man, attention he should have fully on giving and receiving pleasure.