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ERICANDANN1

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About ERICANDANN1

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  • Birthday 02/04/1971

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  1. Uh yeah!!!!!!!! I don't know what your relationship is or isn't. For my wife and I we would never play without the other present somewhere. We, and this is just us, have never understood why a married couple would allow one or both to go off on their own for a night, weekend etc. with someone else without the other. We are in this together and for each other. I would never allow my wife to spend a night or a weekend with someone else by herself and I know she would never allow me to do that either with another woman. Not because of jealousy but, rather in our case we feel it would be disrespectful not to mention that it could potentially lead to developing damaging issues or other problems. If you are comfortable with doing that than by all means do it but, my wife and I got into swinging to enjoy ourselves and to make great friends and have fun with each other. As far as penis size goes I would not let it bother you. Bottom line is you got what you got. Take care and good luck.
  2. For Us the reason we do same room is that we got into the Lifestyle together so we play together. The whole point for us was to be able to do Full Swap and watch and be involved. I see your point however, I would want to be able to see and listen to the experience. You telling your spouse what you did in the next room is not the same as actually your spouse being there and being able to see what is going on.
  3. According to most statistics of people in the lifestyle people on avg are usually college educated and usually would be considered middle to upper class. I have also see statistics that show that people in the lifestyle have a 10% divorce rate whereas couples not in the lifestyle is now at or around 60%.
  4. I would tell her that the sanctity of your marriage is still in tact and always will be. For my wife and I she was kind of floored the first time that I brought the idea up and then the usual insecurities kicked in from her like "am I not good enough for you" to "why would you want to see me with another man" etc. etc. What I told her which is the truth is that I love her very deeply and that we have a rock solid marriage and that Swinging would be a lot of fun. It would give us a chance to make good friends with people and I told her that I love her so much that I want to see her pleasured in every way possible. She and I have an unbelievable sex life together but, it would be very arrogant of me to think that I am the end all be all. We are both straight so my wife and I have our rules and they are that we will do Full Swap, Soft Swap Same room and we will do MFM threesomes and FMF threesomes because neither of us is bi or bi curious. The question that you really have to ask yourself is... Does your marriage have a rock solid foundation to tolerate what happens in swinging and can you truly witness and see your wife in every intimate position imagineable with another man or woman? Then to flip it around is can your wife withstand watching you pleaure another woman in every way imagineable? You have to get into swinging for all of the right reasons. This lifestyle is not for the faint hearted and it certainly is not for anyone who is jealous. I hope this helps.
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