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  • Birthday 10/28/1960

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  1. I just wanted to say hi and say I enjoy your posts. We are in 89121 and it is good to find other people like us.

  2. We have done traditional anal-vaginal DP, and mrs wants to have a DVP now. We tried it once but the other party in question got stage fright so to speak. She was pretty bummed out
  3. It doesn't sound like he has much respect for your relationship. I say drop him. You have to gain respect and trust before asking to play alone the first time.
  4. Several times, but truthfully regular couples or singles are a better experience.
  5. First of all.... Wanting to start with an open marriage right from the get go leads me to think there are other motives to think about. I suggest you talk about this together for a while. Most swingers start with "baby steps", and leave the open marriage, polyamory, separate room stuff for later on.
  6. Hi Not sure you will like Purrfect as a newbie. Lots of single males which MAY make you uncomfortable. Might we suggest you try either New Temptations or Couples Oasis on Friday, and then consider Purrfect Saturday based on your comfort level. Either way, have fun!
  7. Again, patience is a virtue and good things come to those who wait. It seems like you are trying to "set something up". Mrs fun was a lot like your wife. She was always a "good girl" when she was married but admittedly becomes a slut when she was single. A couple of drinks and splitting a dinner and she would drag her date to the car for a quickie. I was in the lifestyle for many years and told her this BEFORE our first date, giving her an out. It took time, and it was ALWAYS her idea but every MFM, or MMFM, MMMMFM encounter we had was HER idea and it was always spontaneous. Now we don't play all that often but when something like that happens, she's usually ridiculously horny and turned on. She loves to flirt, and knows I like to watch her, so it's all the better when it does happen. Maybe take her dancing if she likes that. Men tend to get a little flirty on the dance floor particularly if it's very crowded. Just don't force her or suggest anything. It all adds to the excitement and makes for better play times when it does happen.
  8. Like with us, it will progress naturally. When the time is right and she's in the mood, it will most likely happen. I wouldn't press the issue, just let it happen..... Then both of you enjoy it.
  9. I (the male half) have been swinging much longer than the mrs, so this is my point if view. We all have fantasies and fetishes when we begin having regular sex. As we progress in swinging we find most of them have been realized so we focus our fantasies on things we have not done yet. It takes more and more to satisfy us. The mrs was always monogamous but since she started swinging her fantasies have progressed rather rapidly. I believe swinging itself leads to great sex with your partner when you are alone, but you will always yearn for something more.
  10. I agree with the posters who suggested joining a few sites. Kasidie and SLS are both excellent reputable sites. Look for couples in your area, as well as the party listings in your area on those sites. I would suggest attending a meet and greet party for the first few times. Get to know some people at those events. It will be a good chance to talk in person about the lifestyle. After you're comfortable and realize the people there are friendly, consider moving to an on premises event. You will get some ideas about which places you would like to visit. Make your first few visits all about watching and getting a feel for the lifestyle. After that, discuss your rules and stick to them. If at any time either of you feels uncomfortable then call things off immediately no questions asked. Most of all remember to progress at the pace of the slowest partner. In our opinion if you stick to this plan you will have the best chance of problem and drama free success.
  11. I agree with the other posters. It has turned out fine....I wouldn't do it again without telling him first, but all seems well. Perhaps to alleviate the cuckold feelings you are having, perhaps you might get him to take a few sexy pictures if your friend is cool with it. That way he feels like an active participant and won't feel left out. Mrs fun and I never play separate, but we do have the occasional single male where I don't participate but merely take some pictures. I may join in later or afterwards. It's just what works for us......
  12. We were out for my birthday....mrs was looking exceptionally hot is a tight sexy minidress and 6" platform heels. We were obviously on the prowl that night and she whispered in my ear, "I want to be your dirty whore this evening, so we can do whatever you want"! That was an instant hard on. We did find a single guy in the bar and went to his room shortly after that.....
  13. I love having pics/videos taken of me, but we ALWAYS crop the other parties identifying features out
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