here2play
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- Birthday 09/01/1974
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Lorain
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byzkit
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here2play started following Our first time last Saturday!, What is your profession?, Swinger Lifestyle myths and misconceptions, what have you discovered? and and 3 others
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Swinger Lifestyle myths and misconceptions, what have you discovered?
here2play replied to iapr's topic in Swingers Talk
Very interesting! I have heard several of these. Even now when we talk to friends who are into trying a threesome, I always here "but I don't want to get into that swinger stuff". Uh, hello smart one, that's what you want to dabble in!!! Swingers is all about everyone fucking everyone, that's what we hear most. -
Do you have face pics in your online swinger ads?
here2play replied to indycouple's topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
We started off not putting face pics public, now we have them visible to all. Reason being, you play hell seeing other peoples pic. You get the standard "your pic gets mine", very tedious. We figure if someone sees us there, they are looking so clearly they are into as well. We finally embraced it and it has been much easier all the way around, and yes, our discretion is still maintained outside the lifestyle.- 61 replies
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Crazy campers - although I am just reading this, that is exactly what happened! The four of us met yesterday unexpectedly and all was well! We are all remain friends, he was caught off guard, as these are his interests as well, but did not feel comfortabe "going public" and feel a bit reassured that it is not "taboo" to be in the swinger lifestyle. They both contacted us last night hoping to attend a club in the near future, together. All in all, we ALL learned something and are moving on! Thanks all, good or bad reaction, well respected! Have fun and be safe!
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How old is everyone and how long have you been swinging?
here2play replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Curious About Swinging?
Her - 33 Him - 35 We have been swinging together for about a year now. We are still learning and loving it! -
Ok, this is a good on. First off, we were accused being swingers (like that's a bad thing?) long before we actually were, now we are fine with it, we are happy and that's what matters. So, a vanilla girlfriend of ours, who is unfortunately with a so called boyfriend, had expressed interest in going to a club after we told her of our experience. So, we took her. We did not manipulate her or anything like that (but it would have been fun to seduce her!), we gave her a tour, showed her around, etc. Low and behold she ends up watching us, and playing with me (female half), just a little. It was hot! So she got herslelf a profile on SLS and somehow, her boyfriend checks her history and flips! Of course being very childish, not wanting to see us, forbidding her to see us, etc. She attempted to remind him how he always wants threesomes, etc., and that is, in fact, a form swinging o what's the problem? She was curious and we showed her. Clearly the relationship as a whole is utimately doomed, but that's their call. So now, she had a blast, definately wants to go back and is trying to get him to go. He is still freaking out, not wanting to see us, etc., and we were friends with him as well. So my friends, let me have it, what would you do?
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Things not to do in a picture
here2play replied to JustAskJulie's topic in Finding People to Swing With
I love this post! I too would like to see more of the male half of the couples, since they go along with the hot women! And I have seen that pimply ass and it's not pretty! Although our profile pic is of the both of us, smiling, it is not our best and we do get passed by unfortunatly, but it is the two of us and we are happy to be there! I also dislike the no pics or the private pics that people refuse to show because they need t be "discreet", yet they see all of you up front. Nonetheless, we keep checking and we find a few great profiles and couples to go with them! -
If you are considering having your profile looked at, we highly suggest it! We did it, and the feedback was wonderful! We took some advice, looked within our own desires and made some changes. Our responses to meeting/chatting have gotten so much better! Thanks all!
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Thanks all! We have listened, learned and acted! The responses are already better!
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Interesting point Dynamar, but definately makes sense. Thanks!
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Thanks all, I appreciate the support!