Jump to content

tscpl

Registered
  • Content Count

    112
  • Joined

  • Days Won

    2

tscpl last won the day on September 25 2009

tscpl had the most liked content!

Community Reputation

93 Excellent

About tscpl

  • Rank
    100 Posts Club

Personal Info

  • Relationship Status
    Couple
  • Location
    NJ
  1. We have found that porn in spite of the obvious titillaton,transmits other information about other people's sexual behavior.Anyone who is interested can then use other sources to pursue one's own interests. Obviously I am not asserting that porn provides the best info about swinging but many ideas are mentioned in the dialogue which is a stepping stone for further enquiry. Like many aspects in life,there is more than one route to a destination.
  2. We have no problems with nudity. But the heating must be adequate. We like comfort!
  3. Maybe we are just getting old but tattoos are probably just ok .However we try hard not to be judgemental.No Jewelry either.Sorry!
  4. I agree with some of the other posters.The idea of swinging is a very serious matter in the context of marriage.After all it goes up against the traditional teachings of Christian churches.Therefore it must be left to the individuals to decide at their own pace how they want to proceed or not.Neither one nor the other must feel pushed or in any other way forced into something they later regret.Patience and good communication between the couple will eventually guide their decision.
  5. I quite agree with The Fuse.When I first saw this thread I was taken aback by the reference to "wife swapping" as if we were back in the 70's. However old habits take along time to die and this one, with all its social connotations, will probably take even longer to die.
  6. Seen two women doing it but we never participated. HOT HOT!
  7. When a child sees its mother apparently having sex with a stranger,this is the kind of activity which gives Swinging a bad name.Not to speak of the effect it can have on the child.
  8. What is very noticeable on some swingers websites,is that some members mostly in the South include in their profile a preference to "stay within their own race". Guess some things never change!
  9. This has never happened to us but it can no doubt be very frightening at the time it occurs.Going to the assistance of ones wife is very instinctive but it would be very helpful if the assistance of Security could be enlisted asap by other members present on the scene.This could prevent serious injury.
  10. We haven't watched this show but could possibly pickup a few tips here when meeting others.
  11. We prefer dim lights but they seem to get darker the older we get. OMG!
  12. Is is sometimes reassuring to be called abnormal!
  13. It is just difficult to judge other people by their age alone.An age difference might be an advantage and not a disadvantage.At the end of the day it could depend on their personality and attitude and this could really count .
  14. Maybe you both need to communicate more about your wishes and goals in swinging just as you presumably did at the beginning.But if you are not getting enjoyment from it perhaps you both need to take a break.
×
×
  • Create New...