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Texasfuncouple last won the day on January 15 2008

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About Texasfuncouple

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  • Birthday 02/07/1974

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    Couple
  • Location
    texas
  • Swinging Experience
    1 year

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    texasfuncouple2
  • SDC Username
    gentlenibbles

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  1. From our experience we find the ones who "share" the most are the ones we probably are going to enjoy the least. Not to mention......"What the hell are they going to say about us" ~Texasfun
  2. A little more FYI. We have always been under the impression that swinging with vanilla friends is a bad idea and figured that was a pretty accepted idea. But after running this poll, these are the votes we received to date: Is it a bad idea to swing with good "vanilla" friends? I don't know, but please show me the answers. (43%, 111 Votes) It is a very bad idea. (24%, 62 Votes) It is OK. (20%, 52 Votes) It is not only OK, they make the best play partners! (12%, 32 Votes) That means: 42% Against 58% For With 22% saying it was not only OK, but they made great play partners. Just a little food for thought. I think the big key one needs to take into a situaiton like this is the extreme jeopardy they put the relationship in should things turn ugly! that additional $.02 brings us up to a total of $.04 on the topic. ~texasfun
  3. We have been actually toying with idea of a "Monogamous House Party" Mrs. Texasfun and I are full swap, but we enjoy playing with all hotties who love to get naked. We know lots of new couples who are a little afraid to jump head first into sexual situations and clubs can be intimidating. So we thought what about throwing parties where everyone had a great time, got naked, and had sex but without the pressure of swapping. In a poll we posted we had an overwhelming positive response from newbies and veterans.
  4. Humor works very well in this situaiton. When all of you are together bring it up in a non-threatening way and see where the conversation goes. our 2 cents
  5. It is funny this topic is coming up, as we have a post scheduled to run on our blog tomorrow entitled... "The Orgy Myth - This Ain't Your Daddy's Lifestyle" It discusses the misconception many people have that swingers have absolute disregard for who they let have sex with them...
  6. This subject is right up our alley, We have a blog and often the word "pussy' comes up, but I just hate typing that word. Not that our blog is completely professional, but I feel like I am just creating porn fodder when I use it in a post! lol I will keep up to see what the consensus is on this discussion!
  7. It has been amazing what the lifestyle has done for Mrs. Texasfun. She never had low self esteem or issues with how she looked, but the attention she gets when we go out has finally made her get a small taste of just how beautiful she is. It has been so fun to watch her, as her whole mindset vanilla and "darkside" has changed. As for me I am still ugly......just kidding! I have never had self confidence issues either....probably to my detriment sometimes!
  8. We enjoy being with a soft-swap couple just as much as being with full swap couples. So much about Swinging exists in the eroticism of the moment, the intimacy, and the interaction. To think all of this suddenly goes away if "full swap" is not on the menu is something we have never understood. Some of our best experiences have been with Soft-swap couples. just our thoughts ~Texasfun
  9. Our only regret: Being too eager to please when we first entered the lifestyle, and not excusing ourselves from a situation we could see blowing up in front of us. Turns out we got stuck witness the whole fireworks show as a couple with some issues aired all their laundry in front of us. It taught us really quick. No matter what and how much of anything has happenned prior to a moment, at anytime it no longer is our desire to go further we are not afraid to say Thanks, but No Thanks! ~Texasfun
  10. In a recent post regarding New Swingers on our blog we wrote: "If you have a healthy happy marriage, then hang on for the most exhilarating, sexual liberating, marriage intensifying, communication inducing ride of a lifetime." We stand by it. Our marriage both inside and outside is better since entering the lifestyle, and it was pretty damn great to begin with!
  11. Obviously sleeping with other people, I would say we have gotten a little more kinky! But as far as the overall sexual spectrum we are still pretty conservative compared to many. Although, if those fantasies came up we probably would have much fewer inhibitions in trying them. As far as the quality of sex before or after the lifestyle! It can not be compared!
  12. Thanks B, This post actually inspired me to write a post on our blog about it. If anyone's interested its here: http://www.gentlenibbles.com/2007/12/26/large-and-in-charge-a-heavier-look-at-swinging/ ~Texasfun
  13. Nicertxcple, You have several great things going for you! The lifestyle is made up big and small, red, yellow, black, and blue. At this moment you are someone's fantasy, and you don't know it yet. Once you get out there and start enjoying yourself and you realize people find you attractive it really builds your confidence. Since entering the lifestyle my wife has gone from relatively shy to bold and sexy, and all it took was her hearing how sexy she was from someone other than me. On the flip side, nothing has given both of us more inspiration to get in shape than being in the lifestyle. It is a win/win situation!!! Take care and enjoy! Texasfun
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