Ok another question I have yet to figure an answer for looking for all advice again! So how can yout ell if someone is trying to back out gracefully or just plain doesn't know what the heck they want in swinging?
We have a cpl we have met them twice so far talk to them almost everyday but they well she is very indiscriminate on when and if we are going to get together again. She wants to hang out with me I have gone out with them once by myself just as friends nothing happend. I even tried the ok let's see if she says hi first if I notice she's on she always does.
I know the guy is totally into me! He wants me bad but with her and hubby don't know if she's just not into him or what. One minute she's all ok not sure I want to be swinging right now the next it's we will get together! Then I ask them fora a specific date they both were like yes and I asked them to be sure since I have to take a day off work right then after I do because they r sure she makes plans to do somthing else and he is totally bummed! Needless to say I am now working that day thank goddness they scheduled me anyway could use the money but what do you all think here?
Or is she just nuts? Just kidding looking for input!