DON'T you smell it??? YUCK.........

[swinger5]

I can't believe how many people are going to house parties getting naked and don't realize their privates smell so fishy, I may as well put a hook on the line and bait it. Do these women OR their partners smell this? Do they think it is normal??? I don't get it. The last TWO places we have gone, this smell was there.....the minute I smell this I about want to puke......

Please people, go to the doctor and get it checked out. I realize we all have different smells, but come on.

I need advice on how to get the heck out of a situations with grace when I don't even want to touch someone with that problem.

[ktimephoenix]

erm the words "no thankyou" would work i'd say

[tribbles]

Just say "no thanks" if they offer to play.

As for the smell....if you have friends at the parties, ask them later if they smell anything.

Maybe you are just sensitive in ways others aren't to something some women have that is not icky to anyone but you?

There was one lady, mr tribbles could not get near due to her scent....but I could go down and stay for a long, long time.

Without knowing others experience it the same as you do...maybe it's YOU.

[realcplub2]

This occurs from time to time... unfortunately more often than not, because nervous tension translates into true sweat.. which in turn causes this problem..

Personal hygene aside, it can happen.

if this is a serious problem follow the previous advice, and take a pass, or better yet, start the party with a bit of wet and soapy fun in a shower, or a dip in a hot tub.. Cholorine in most pools or hot tubs will remove such issues

[Sir Dude]

We almost always shower soon before any activity even if we are alone. However, I enjoy the smell of a woman. There isn't much there after a shower. I don't want to have to worry that I might smell, so it makes me feel more comfortable to shower quickly before any activity. I sit in an office all day long. Can't be good for air circulation.

[two42lovers]

Vaginosis is common (i.e "stinky pussy") and is easily treatable with a creme suppository available via prescription. (There is also a pill, but the pill can cause a yeast infection.) A LOT of people don't seem to know this, and just figure it's their "normal" smell. Vaginosis is caused by a bacterial imbalance (normal bacteria that belongs in the vagina getting out of whack.)

[lustylearning]

a true vaginal "fishy" smell can be indicative of a ph problem. a ph problem is indicative of an abnormal vaginal condition which may require treatment, although that condition may not necessarily be an std.

[swinger5]

Yes, I know all about the problems with vaginas, I have one. It just bugs me they still swing when they know they have a problem. Its gross. I know it isn't me, my husband smells it also. SO it isn't ME. Get checked if you have a smell. I do realize all women have a different smell,etc, but when it smells that bad, it is not normal. Man, I guess it's good to do a "finger" test BEFORE hand.

[BiloxiCouple]

Originally Posted by swinger5

Yes, I know all about the problems with vaginas, I have one. It just bugs me they still swing when they know they have a problem. Its gross. I know it isn't me, my husband smells it also. SO it isn't ME. Get checked if you have a smell. I do realize all women have a different smell,etc, but when it smells that bad, it is not normal. Man, I guess it's good to do a "finger" test BEFORE hand.

I thought no one else used the finger test. I guess guys can't quit sticking their fingers in something and sniffing it.

[theboy]

I'd just simply say "Sorry, I'm just not feeling it..."

It's a polite way of saying no without putting the blame anywhere.

That said, I've never had this issue (thankfully) with any of our playmates...

[JustAskJulie]

I knew a woman once whose smell was strong enough you smelled it through the whole room, but it wasn't a fishy smell. She had a lot of medical issues that I'm pretty sure had a lot to do with it. Many things can affect our smells in a bad way. I know in her case there were several of us that avoided her and gave her a pretty wide berth. Even knowing that it wasn't "that kind of smell" it still wasn't pleasant, and she had to know... at least you'd think so. At first I thought maybe it was just that she was used to it, but when I thought about it, I had been with her previously and she had not had that smell. The only thing I could figure is it was related to a recent treatment or new medication she was on I don't think anyone ever said anything to her about it (I know I didn't). She was pretty touchy about her health subjects as it was (and how such health issues may affect others interest in her) so no one really wanted to make her feel worse.

In another case, when I was younger I worked in the mall and there was a woman who worked in the store next door that had an obvious odor issue (pretty obviously vb), it was something that it seemed like everyone talked about and no one talked about to her... it went on for months. What amazed me was that she worked there with her mother (the mother was probably in her 50's and this woman in her 30's) and her mother never said anything, evidently.

I do understand where you are coming from swinger5... I know that I KNOW when things ain't right down below and I'm not going to let anyone else close enough to figure it out, so I do wonder how others go so far without doing anything about it. The only thing I can figure is that they are scared it's something worse than it is and therefore it's easier to NOT know than to find out.

[Greg & Sheryl]

Originally Posted by realcplub2

This occurs from time to time... unfortunately more often than not, because nervous tension translates into true sweat.. which in turn causes this problem..

If perspiration is at the root of this issue, then maybe the high humidity in Florida (swinger5's home state)makes the people there more susceptible to emitting foul odors. In bone-dry Colorado, we've never encountered this at any party we've attended.

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by Greg & Sheryl

In bone-dry Colorado, we've never encountered this at any party we've attended.

Nothing to add here.
Just wondering if there was an innuendo intended with the phrase "Bone-Dry", or were you just being punny?

[bibbwtoronto]

I wonder if that was a fresh pussy or a freshly fu#%ed pussy??

Fishy smells usually indicate bacteria however it can be the delightful intermingling of bodily fluids as well. I find after a few sessions things can get ripe, I notice it but my hubby doesn't. Maybe women just have super senses!

[Chicup]

There is 'I need a shower' smell and 'GOD WHAT DIED IN THERE' smell.

The first is to be expected if the party has been going on for 4 hours with dancing and to little AC. We always shower right before we go to help combat this.

The second is much stronger and never goes away, shower or otherwise. I do think some people are just totally unaware and vaginosis is common. Mrs. Chicup had this once and she was trying to blame it on hormone changes (we had a baby a few months prior) or the like and wanted to wait to see if it would go away. I told her she needed an antibiotic. Well it didn't go away and she got the antibiotic and all funkiness went away, in fact there is no smell at all now and its been that way ever sense.

So the long in short of this is that a lot of women have bacterial vaginosis, for some reason unless you TELL your doctor most won't comment or diagnose it, and many women I think are in denial that its a problem or assume its normal smell for them and they can't do anything about it.

Luckily its not been an issue for us while playing.