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Forum: Saying No Gracefully - A Swinger Skill

Skillful swingers know how to say no with poise and grace with respect to everyone involved.

  1. Help with thinking clear and saying "no" when in the moment

    Started by carebear, 09-07-2013 08:18 AM
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    1 2
    saying no
    • Replies: 25
    • Views: 1,122
    09-20-2013, 11:52 PM Go to last post
  2. Jello shot conundrum! When to say yes or no?

    Started by funcoupledayton, 07-21-2013 08:19 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    etiquette, house party, saying no
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 883
    08-02-2013, 09:50 PM Go to last post
  3. Unhappy Possible Drama with couple

    Started by Desdemona1980, 06-27-2012 04:05 PM
    bad experiences, cheating, drama, singles and clubs
    • Replies: 10
    • Views: 1,431
    07-01-2012, 11:36 AM Go to last post
  4. Question Meet up and then it doesn't click...

    Started by jnkrhot, 04-18-2012 11:03 PM
    first meet, meeting others, no connection, rejection, response time, saying no
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 1,399
    06-20-2012, 06:39 PM Go to last post
  5. miscommunication

    Started by occ, 02-15-2012 07:28 PM
    communication, friendship and swinging, saying no
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 1,055
    06-17-2012, 08:20 AM Go to last post
  6. Post Do we owe them an explanation?

    Started by EnjoyingLife, 11-01-2011 10:01 PM
    saying no
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 1,250
    11-25-2011, 11:02 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 842
    11-22-2011, 06:28 PM Go to last post
  7. Repeat request to meet

    Started by exploringRM, 11-20-2011 08:11 PM
    saying no
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 604
    11-22-2011, 06:03 PM Go to last post
  8. What's the etiquette in this situation?

    Started by Danielle87, 10-18-2011 01:39 PM
    etiquette, not interested, saying no
    • Replies: 8
    • Views: 987
    10-22-2011, 12:42 PM Go to last post
  9. Politely saying No

    Started by MattandBianca, 07-17-2011 09:39 AM
    saying no
    • Replies: 8
    • Views: 635
    07-17-2011, 07:41 PM Go to last post
  10. We said yes, now she says no

    Started by Dont.Stop, 05-28-2011 04:01 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    lost interest
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 2,132
    07-03-2011, 12:25 PM Go to last post
  11. First club experience

    Started by Linkin40, 05-03-2011 07:59 PM
    saying no
    • Replies: 4
    • Views: 1,401
    05-24-2011, 05:45 PM Go to last post
  12. Interested in the wife, but not the husband

    Started by IvorieManiac, 05-07-2011 10:11 AM
    attraction, saying no, taking one for the team
    • Replies: 12
    • Views: 1,863
    05-09-2011, 12:38 PM Go to last post
  13. Time for silence or honesty?

    Started by SsHubby, 04-26-2011 11:05 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    honesty, saying no
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 1,755
    04-27-2011, 06:16 PM Go to last post
  14. Rejecting ugly people

    Started by WhatisTruth, 04-17-2011 11:12 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    attraction, rejection, saying no
    • Replies: 24
    • Views: 3,686
    04-23-2011, 11:32 PM Go to last post
  15. Unwanted Bonding

    Started by Coffeeblack, 02-09-2011 08:37 PM
    bonding
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 2,014
    02-12-2011, 01:43 PM Go to last post
  16. Turning down someone?

    Started by Desertbird, 01-29-2011 11:20 PM
    saying no
    • Replies: 10
    • Views: 1,649
    01-31-2011, 09:33 AM Go to last post
  17. How would you all have handled this bad experience?

    Started by hardrockers70, 01-03-2011 12:35 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    escape methods, saying no
    • Replies: 29
    • Views: 3,393
    01-19-2011, 12:54 PM Go to last post
  18. How do I tell them I don't want to play again? - Help

    Started by Pretty Blue Eye, 01-06-2011 05:07 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    saying no
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 2,370
    01-08-2011, 11:03 AM Go to last post
  19. How to get out of a bad play situation?

    Started by ClosetSwinger, 07-10-2010 07:04 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    bad experiences, escape methods, quitting
    • Replies: 21
    • Views: 1,670
    07-19-2010, 12:34 PM Go to last post
  20. How do you "gently reject" someone?

    Started by funat40, 07-14-2010 08:44 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    rejection, saying no
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 1,255
    07-16-2010, 09:41 PM Go to last post
  21. The real reason the other couple doesn't want to play again

    Started by The Fuse, 06-06-2010 11:14 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    not interested
    • Replies: 26
    • Views: 2,053
    06-27-2010, 04:24 AM Go to last post
  22. How to answer with a polite "no" to mail in swinger sites?

    Started by WonderWhat, 07-25-2009 02:09 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    rejection, saying no
    • Replies: 19
    • Views: 1,810
    02-07-2010, 09:16 AM Go to last post
  23. Not even receiving a "Thanks, but no thanks" Email

    Started by NDN, 11-04-2009 01:36 PM
    3 Pages
    1 2 3
    rejection, saying no
    • Replies: 34
    • Views: 2,501
    02-01-2010, 07:39 PM Go to last post
  24. Not interested but don't want to burn bridges

    Started by DrunknLaid, 03-25-2009 05:21 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    saying no
    • Replies: 17
    • Views: 1,244
    03-28-2009, 10:43 AM Go to last post
  25. Are we really full of it........?

    Started by Thundermerwe, 01-26-2009 10:35 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    saying no
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 1,478
    01-26-2009, 10:30 PM Go to last post
  26. Why are you so rude to people on your profile?

    Started by jdavisauto, 09-25-2008 10:46 AM
    4 Pages
    1 2 3 4
    rejection, rude behavior, swinger profiles
    • Replies: 47
    • Views: 2,885
    11-23-2008, 04:28 PM Go to last post
  27. Does not saying "NO" imply a "YES"?

    Started by JustAskJulie, 01-14-2004 07:29 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    saying no
    • Replies: 20
    • Views: 2,136
    10-31-2008, 10:33 AM Go to last post
  28. Rejecting someone else

    Started by AandC, 07-06-2008 06:51 PM
    saying no
    • Replies: 11
    • Views: 974
    07-08-2008, 12:33 PM Go to last post
  29. Dealing with Rejection

    Started by JustAskJulie, 06-23-2008 12:29 PM
    negatives of swinging, rejection
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 1,056
    06-26-2008, 09:12 PM Go to last post
  30. DON'T you smell it??? YUCK.........

    Started by swinger5, 06-06-2008 07:15 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    bad smell, pussy smell
    • Replies: 20
    • Views: 2,974
    06-11-2008, 08:01 PM Go to last post
  31. Question Not Interested Sexually, only Friends!!

    Started by winnme, 05-13-2008 11:15 AM
    friendship and swinging, not interested
    • Replies: 9
    • Views: 1,460
    05-18-2008, 01:42 AM Go to last post
  32. How to Uninvite a couple

    Started by exquisit1s, 04-07-2008 02:35 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    saying no
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 2,622
    04-26-2008, 06:59 AM Go to last post
  33. New Twist to an Old Issue (Incompatibility)

    Started by havefuninsun, 04-23-2007 04:25 PM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    saying no
    • Replies: 21
    • Views: 2,224
    12-02-2007, 11:51 PM Go to last post
  34. When They're Not Ready

    Started by WeMayTryIt, 10-01-2007 10:19 PM
    communication, not ready
    • Replies: 10
    • Views: 1,711
    10-02-2007, 08:19 PM Go to last post
    • Replies: 9
    • Views: 1,512
    05-31-2007, 10:50 AM Go to last post
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 2,381
    02-06-2007, 08:59 PM Go to last post
  35. We like the couple but the wife is too clingy

    Started by Unregistered, 11-06-2006 12:21 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    saying no
    • Replies: 16
    • Views: 3,380
    11-12-2006, 11:05 PM Go to last post
  36. How to tell others you're not interested in a nice way

    Started by phishfan, 09-23-2006 10:57 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    common questions, communication, not interested, saying no
    • Replies: 18
    • Views: 2,054
    09-24-2006, 06:25 PM Go to last post
  37. Best Way to Say Not Interested Without Hurting Feelings

    Started by appleblossoms20, 06-13-2006 08:39 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    common questions, communication, hurt feelings, not interested, saying no
    • Replies: 22
    • Views: 2,982
    07-02-2006, 10:44 AM Go to last post
  38. Question Only interested as friends

    Started by blinkey, 04-02-2006 12:36 PM
    common questions, friendship and swinging, not interested
    • Replies: 10
    • Views: 1,625
    04-03-2006, 09:43 AM Go to last post
  39. When talk first, then Pics = no attraction

    Started by MarriedNY'ers69, 03-03-2006 10:56 AM
    attraction, rejection, saying no
    • Replies: 13
    • Views: 1,706
    03-04-2006, 01:31 PM Go to last post
  40. Red face Attraction or no attraction?

    Started by lordnladylawren, 02-21-2006 06:34 AM
    attraction, not interested, rejection, saying no
    • Replies: 8
    • Views: 1,510
    02-23-2006, 06:56 PM Go to last post
  41. What is the best way to say no?

    Started by FloridaFlirt, 12-20-2005 08:46 PM
    communication, saying no
    • Replies: 14
    • Views: 1,519
    12-25-2005, 01:52 AM Go to last post
  42. How to say we are only interested in the wife...

    Started by the 2 of us, 11-01-2005 07:24 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    one sided
    • Replies: 25
    • Views: 3,479
    11-04-2005, 12:22 AM Go to last post
  43. Situation gone bad???

    Started by anon for now, 01-18-2005 02:24 AM
    2 Pages
    1 2
    bad experiences, saying no
    • Replies: 15
    • Views: 2,995
    01-22-2005, 10:45 AM Go to last post

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