Do other couples only do same room swinging?

[anotherway2liv]

Hi its MR. Anotherway2liv Here with a few questions
So we are interested in same room sex (even same bed sex).

How welcome have your found the Swinger community to couples that just are looking for same room sex?

We are looking for some clubs to attend as well as personal ads, when meeting people in person how soon should we tell them?

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by anotherway2liv

Hi its MR. Anotherway2liv Here with a few questions
So we are interested in same room sex (even same bed sex).

How welcome have your found the Swinger community to couples that just are looking for same room sex?

We are looking for some clubs to attend as well as personal ads, when meeting people in person how soon should we tell them?

I've met one or two couples who don't want to go past same room at this point, but from an experianced swinger point of view you won't find too many takers. Clubs you might be better off with because you have find a open room to have sex in with each other and watch/be watched that way.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by anotherway2liv

How welcome have your found the Swinger community to couples that just are looking for same room sex?

We are full swap, but have played same room/soft swing with couples who have preferred that. Honestly, I really enjoy it - part of it is my inner-exhibitionist, part of it is having sex with Mrs Spoomonkey is WAY fun

I would say that you might want to bring it up as early as possible. You want to wait until you know that connection to play is there, not too early since being social is a part of going to the club. Some couples will be okay with it, some won't.

For us, if we are enjoying the company of a couple and they want to play "soft" then we are up for it.

Spoomonkey

[spankem69]

I sure hope it won't be that hard to find couples that are into same room ! Watching the Mrs. is the biggest reason I'm looking into this. I couldn't see it being much fun any other way, at least for now.

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by spankem69

I sure hope it won't be that hard to find couples that are into same room ! Watching the Mrs. is the biggest reason I'm looking into this. I couldn't see it being much fun any other way, at least for now.

I'm confused, are you looking for same room sex where you swap (most common type of swinging) or same room sex where you stay with your wife and just watch the other couple?

[WildMiCouple]

Originally Posted by anotherway2liv

Hi its MR. Anotherway2liv Here with a few questions
So we are interested in same room sex (even same bed sex).
How welcome have your found the Swinger community to couples that just are looking for same room sex?

Are you asking about same room with your partner....or same room swapping vs. separate room swapping? If it's same room with your own partner....then no, we don't find many couples at the dances we go to that have this rule. But if it's same room swapping, then yes.....all of the couples we've played with have been same room . Don't really know if any had rules about "no separate room" swapping, but maybe it's just because all of us have always ended up in the same room

Brett (and Tammy)

[anotherway2liv]

at the moment we are just looking to staying with eachother with another couple in the same room or even same bed having sex type of thing. I guess just watching and being watched. Just looking to start very slow in all this. Some cross kissing and light touching would be nice also but thats about it for now.

[tribbles]

Okay...as far as hooking up outside a club for just watching/being watched....not many takers...tell them before you meet, put it in your profile if it's an online ad. BUT...the clubs we have been to here in So. Calif....no problem! It is 99% of what we do...and pretty simple to say, we are newbies and just into being watched and watching right now.

Any idea what you want in a club? Resort- clothing optional with pool/spa or nightclub with beds in back? Singles allowed in or only females single or none at all? Ages over certain age only? Younger only? Barbie and Ken only? 90% BBW crowd? It's southern Calif...we have it ALL!

[spankem69]

Originally Posted by Chicup

I'm confused, are you looking for same room sex where you swap (most common type of swinging) or same room sex where you stay with your wife and just watch the other couple?

Mr. Chicup, I'm saying I'd want to full swap, but only same room. Sorry I wasn't very clear. I think I'd have more fun watching her than being with the other woman. Although, that would be fun too, of course .

[playmatesinpgh]

The majority of couples we meet, whether it is at a club or through one of the swinger sites, want same room, full swap. Personally, we like both same room and separate room play. It just depends on the situation and the other couple.

[WesternSwing]

The majority of the couples we know prefer same room sex. It takes allot of trust in both your spouse and the other person to do different room swaps. We have done it and had a great time, but we knew the other couple very well. We wouldn't do it with a new couple. Besides, a big part of the fun is watching each other!

Mr. WS

[northindycpl]

We are same room, full swap and it honestly hasn't been an issue to find many couples to play with. I think it is more of the norm for that as opposed to playing alone, atleast in our circles. There is a lot of group activity though, which we like.

I would hate to miss seeing MR Indy or know that he is watching me. This is about us, and what we want, not anyone else.

[DBL D]

Originally Posted by anotherway2liv

...at the moment we are just looking to staying with eachother with another couple in the same room or even same bed having sex type of thing. I guess just watching and being watched...

Funny, I think Fem D would rather have sex than watch someone have sex, even watching me! She doesn't seem to mind separate areas but we've always been within earshot of each other.

Male D