when is the right time to say the relationship is over?? - Page 3

alabamafuntonig · 07-28-2003, 12:51 AM

oh mrs O save that for another thread " mommas who take bamas over ther knee"

hum sounds like a monday morning poll to me?

ya ive been a little off this week on the political threads but guess what,,my appitite is back any one have a snack ? jen are ya game(lol)30 lbs of my cheast and i still need a boob job! go figure!

back too the kids! they will be ok daddy bama got a ot of freind now and ideas are a flowing...i see my dreams tonight are going to be wonderfull! ill sleep for once in 4 days and i cant wait!

i just relized something! i can finaly sleep side ways on my bed and still have all the covers!

i can watch tv at 3 am if i want

i can take a shit and not light a match

yup those are my hairs in the shower

yes i can drink the milk from the jug

i finaly get my favorite sweater to myself

no more channel surfing its espn all day aevery day

i can eat chilly and have a good nights sleep

no more tampons

of course i match i said so

yes my boxers have holes in them i like them that way

yup i just ate cereal for supper

make the bed!why? its only me

oh what a future and yes im smilling right now

OhioCouple · 07-28-2003, 12:54 AM

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Originally posted by alabamafuntonig
oh mrs O save that for another thread " mommas who take bamas over ther knee"

Oops, maybe I should have posted that in the fetish forum?

alabamafuntonig · 07-28-2003, 10:00 AM

Quote:

Oops, maybe I should have posted that in the fetish forum?

maybe but is bama spanking a real fetish! its just down right fun!

OhioCouple · 07-28-2003, 02:04 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by alabamafuntonig
maybe but is bama spanking a real fetish! its just down right fun!

Damn. Now that I know you like this, I'll have to change my method of 'behavior modification'.

alabamafuntonig · 07-28-2003, 02:10 PM

facelick facelick facelick

M&B · 07-28-2003, 02:27 PM

Get a room!!!!

alabamafuntonig · 07-28-2003, 02:29 PM

hey M+B i have 2 empty rooms any suggestions..maybe ceiling swing a leather wipping post maybe a gyno chair!!!!!!

M&B · 07-28-2003, 02:42 PM

Barbados, remember?

yawanna · 07-28-2003, 02:45 PM

Hello everyone

I've been reading the posts here for a few weeks now, and most especially this particular thread. I'm glad to read that Bama is feeling more positive about things...I was worried for a bit there

I've had 2 major break ups in my life, and I'm 45

From my experience..it's still difficult but easier to process when you are the dumpER as opposed to being the dumpEE. The dumpEE has MUCH more confusion, self doubt, fear, sadness than when you are the one making the decisions and having some control over a very emotional situation and time.

Bama, if I may offer an opinion? I've ended one marriage and was dumped by another. It was many years for me of dating, work, raising a child alone, and both my men were nasty ex-es. I spent many many lonely unhappy unfulfilled years and I came to wonder if I would always be alone.

Today, I am ecstatically happily remarried to the most wonderful man. I believe now that everything I went through in my life was to prepare me to be with him now. Sounds sappy, and generally I'm not that way, and hindsight is 20/20 naturally.

Please..if you can't work this out with her to stay married, you can find a way to keep your children in your life and personally move on.

What doesn't kill us - makes us stronger. I've seen it in my friends, and I know firsthand it's true.

Take VERY good care of yourself during this time. As you say, watch ESPN ALL the time, do all the things you can while she is away

( I finally smoked INSIDE the house after I got dumped)

alabamafuntonig · 07-28-2003, 02:51 PM

thanks yawanna. your statement is true what dont kill mr bama only gives him more super humen powers............like the power to control the weather or the power to levetate and the power of water! right now i turned myself into a puddle of water and im wating for my boss to step in it so i can electricute him with my super humen electric bolts.......( mr bama is so far gone he belives he can fly....wait i can)

wrnakedru · 07-28-2003, 03:25 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by alabamafuntonig
thanks yawanna. your statement is true what dont kill mr bama only gives him more super humen powers............like the power to control the weather or the power to levetate and the power of water! right now i turned myself into a puddle of water and im wating for my boss to step in it so i can electricute him with my super humen electric bolts.......( mr bama is so far gone he belives he can fly....wait i can)

I am not totally sure if I am more awed, or more scared by the prospect of all this power.

But while you are flying around, if you happen to pick up on the winning numbers for Wednesday night's Texas Lotto - Please do me a favor and pass those numbers this way!

We could use some of the power that kind of break would give us

alabamafuntonig · 07-28-2003, 03:31 PM

13-25-45-47-53-60

and the other ball is 6

good luck i want my cut

**Alura** · 07-28-2003, 04:03 PM

[QUOTE]Originally posted by alabamafuntonig

back too the kids! they will be ok daddy bama got a ot of freind now and ideas are a flowing...i see my dreams tonight are going to be wonderfull! ill sleep for once in 4 days and i cant wait!

What the hell you talkin' about, Bama? I'm not sure I have a real understanding of your situation. I know you are at home and your wife and kids have gone elsewhere.

Are your kids with your wife and her new lover? Would they be better off with you? (financial means, stability, environment, nutrician, etc.) Do you think you could be a better parent?

You can win custody. There is a support group in Tulsa called, "Dads." They help deserving fathers to gain custody, and are often successful. There may be one in your area.

Do you remember that country song, may have been by Hank Williams, Jr., something like "I like my women a little bit on the trashy side." My brother could have written than song. He's going through his second custody battle with a girlfriend. He went through the same thing about ten years ago with his first wife, and won. In both cases, the battle has taken all his resources, but the reward of raising his children is worth it. My brother is a very involved dad and can easily prove it. That helps.

...oh what a future and yes im smilling right now

I'm glad you're feeling better, Alabama. I thought for awhile you were being drawn into a black hole and weren't going to do a damned thing to escape. Now, get your wierd ass back there and fix those friggin' phasers. We'll need 'em to make warp speed!

Mr. Alura

alabamafuntonig · 07-28-2003, 04:10 PM

mr alura the wife is still gone with the kids and there at a friends house (swingeers) but i have to cheer up and wake up! of course the kids are better off with the 2 of us but she chooses to see it her way .. im not going to put myself down while she plays her childish game. i did try to but it only made me sad and depreased. i cant be that way any more . se le vi..if she comes back fine if she dont well ill survive.and i might as well have a good time . i only live once and ill leave the door open and the lights on for her but im not going to beg for my wife back. i put the ball in her court if she wants to play than she plays by the rules if she dont then i wont play with her .

saranmark · 07-28-2003, 10:58 PM

"i only live once and ill leave the door open and the lights on for her but im not going to beg for my wife back. i put the ball in her court if she wants to play than she plays by the rules if she dont then i wont play with her ."

Well said, Bama. Hang in there!

SARA

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saranmark Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 154 Location: Elkhart, IN Status: Married Couple-female half	"i only live once and ill leave the door open and the lights on for her but im not going to beg for my wife back. i put the ball in her court if she wants to play than she plays by the rules if she dont then i wont play with her ." Well said, Bama. Hang in there! SARA
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07-28-2003, 12:51 AM	#31 (permalink)
alabamafuntonig Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 1,357 Location: alabama Status: couple	oh mrs O save that for another thread " mommas who take bamas over ther knee" hum sounds like a monday morning poll to me? ya ive been a little off this week on the political threads but guess what,,my appitite is back any one have a snack ? jen are ya game(lol)30 lbs of my cheast and i still need a boob job! go figure! back too the kids! they will be ok daddy bama got a ot of freind now and ideas are a flowing...i see my dreams tonight are going to be wonderfull! ill sleep for once in 4 days and i cant wait! i just relized something! i can finaly sleep side ways on my bed and still have all the covers! i can watch tv at 3 am if i want i can take a shit and not light a match yup those are my hairs in the shower yes i can drink the milk from the jug i finaly get my favorite sweater to myself no more channel surfing its espn all day aevery day i can eat chilly and have a good nights sleep no more tampons of course i match i said so yes my boxers have holes in them i like them that way yup i just ate cereal for supper make the bed!why? its only me oh what a future and yes im smilling right now

07-28-2003, 02:10 PM	#35 (permalink)
alabamafuntonig Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 1,357 Location: alabama Status: couple	facelick facelick facelick

07-28-2003, 02:29 PM	#37 (permalink)
alabamafuntonig Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 1,357 Location: alabama Status: couple	hey M+B i have 2 empty rooms any suggestions..maybe ceiling swing a leather wipping post maybe a gyno chair!!!!!!

07-28-2003, 02:45 PM	#39 (permalink)
yawanna Has Left the Building Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 1,176 Location: Canada Status: married female	Hello everyone I've been reading the posts here for a few weeks now, and most especially this particular thread. I'm glad to read that Bama is feeling more positive about things...I was worried for a bit there I've had 2 major break ups in my life, and I'm 45 From my experience..it's still difficult but easier to process when you are the dumpER as opposed to being the dumpEE. The dumpEE has MUCH more confusion, self doubt, fear, sadness than when you are the one making the decisions and having some control over a very emotional situation and time. Bama, if I may offer an opinion? I've ended one marriage and was dumped by another. It was many years for me of dating, work, raising a child alone, and both my men were nasty ex-es. I spent many many lonely unhappy unfulfilled years and I came to wonder if I would always be alone. Today, I am ecstatically happily remarried to the most wonderful man. I believe now that everything I went through in my life was to prepare me to be with him now. Sounds sappy, and generally I'm not that way, and hindsight is 20/20 naturally. Please..if you can't work this out with her to stay married, you can find a way to keep your children in your life and personally move on. What doesn't kill us - makes us stronger. I've seen it in my friends, and I know firsthand it's true. Take VERY good care of yourself during this time. As you say, watch ESPN ALL the time, do all the things you can while she is away ( I finally smoked INSIDE the house after I got dumped)

07-28-2003, 02:51 PM	#40 (permalink)
alabamafuntonig Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 1,357 Location: alabama Status: couple	thanks yawanna. your statement is true what dont kill mr bama only gives him more super humen powers............like the power to control the weather or the power to levetate and the power of water! right now i turned myself into a puddle of water and im wating for my boss to step in it so i can electricute him with my super humen electric bolts.......( mr bama is so far gone he belives he can fly....wait i can)

07-28-2003, 03:31 PM	#42 (permalink)
alabamafuntonig Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 1,357 Location: alabama Status: couple	13-25-45-47-53-60 and the other ball is 6 good luck i want my cut

07-28-2003, 04:03 PM	#43 (permalink)
Alura Just a hick Okie Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 8,144 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Widower	[QUOTE]Originally posted by alabamafuntonig back too the kids! they will be ok daddy bama got a ot of freind now and ideas are a flowing...i see my dreams tonight are going to be wonderfull! ill sleep for once in 4 days and i cant wait! What the hell you talkin' about, Bama? I'm not sure I have a real understanding of your situation. I know you are at home and your wife and kids have gone elsewhere. Are your kids with your wife and her new lover? Would they be better off with you? (financial means, stability, environment, nutrician, etc.) Do you think you could be a better parent? You can win custody. There is a support group in Tulsa called, "Dads." They help deserving fathers to gain custody, and are often successful. There may be one in your area. Do you remember that country song, may have been by Hank Williams, Jr., something like "I like my women a little bit on the trashy side." My brother could have written than song. He's going through his second custody battle with a girlfriend. He went through the same thing about ten years ago with his first wife, and won. In both cases, the battle has taken all his resources, but the reward of raising his children is worth it. My brother is a very involved dad and can easily prove it. That helps. ...oh what a future and yes im smilling right now I'm glad you're feeling better, Alabama. I thought for awhile you were being drawn into a black hole and weren't going to do a damned thing to escape. Now, get your wierd ass back there and fix those friggin' phasers. We'll need 'em to make warp speed! Mr. Alura

07-28-2003, 04:10 PM	#44 (permalink)
alabamafuntonig Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 1,357 Location: alabama Status: couple	mr alura the wife is still gone with the kids and there at a friends house (swingeers) but i have to cheer up and wake up! of course the kids are better off with the 2 of us but she chooses to see it her way .. im not going to put myself down while she plays her childish game. i did try to but it only made me sad and depreased. i cant be that way any more . se le vi..if she comes back fine if she dont well ill survive.and i might as well have a good time . i only live once and ill leave the door open and the lights on for her but im not going to beg for my wife back. i put the ball in her court if she wants to play than she plays by the rules if she dont then i wont play with her .

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