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We are a married white couple and I prefer my wife to swing with black men. For some reason I get jealous about her playing with white men but not black. Any advice on how to not get jealous and let her have fun all around? Anyone else ever feel this way?

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Just curious -- why do you think you feel jealous over a white man and not a black man?

 

It sucks when jealousy creeps into swinging in any way ... no one wants to feel hurt; everyone wants to feel GOOD.

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I may be wrong, but it sounds like a black man somehow seems like less of a threat to you. Much like some guys are comfortable with their wife playing with a woman but not another man. The woman offers something different that doesn't threaten the status quo. Apparently you feel your wife is not going to leave you for a black guy but might like another white guy better than you. In my opinion it wouldn't matter if the other guy was black white yellow or red it's still another man. You're either OK with her playing with a man or you're not. If this is anywhere near close, then there needs to be more security between the two of you before you continue to play with any other males.

 

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I think it is related to a very natural instinctive fear. I myself have thought long and hard on this one. Picturing S going off alone with another caucasion male or even feeling that she is giving one excessive attention gives me that feeling in the pit of my stomach (you know the one) while thinking of her alone with another couple is not so accute. Thinking of her going off alone to meet another woman does not produce this feeling at all.

 

I think that somewhere deep down inside, you like myself have a fear of your wife leaving you and since you don't believe she would leave you for a black male the threat alarms never kick in. Notice I said fear not jealousy. These are primitive instincts designed to protect us and I believe we have little control over them. I also think that this "fear" is why newbie couples look for other couples to begin with. Listening to more experienced swingers I think this fear must abate with time as trust and faith in the other partner builds to higher levels to overcome these basic instincts. I guess it is like the old adage "If you love something set it free. If it comes back, It was and always will be yours. If it never returns, it was never yours to begin with." (or you can change the last part to hunt it down and kill it whichever you prefer) :D

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pagan-lovers said:
I may be wrong, but it sounds like a black man somehow seems like less of a threat to you. Much like some guys are comfortable with their wife playing with a woman but not another man. The woman offers something different that doesn't threaten the status quo. Apparently you feel your wife is not going to leave you for a black guy but might like another white guy better than you. In my opinion it wouldn't matter if the other guy was black white yellow or red it's still another man. You're either OK with her playing with a man or you're not. If this is anywhere near close, then there needs to be more security between the two of you before you continue to play with any other males.

 

Well said...that was my thought too, that he doesn't think his wife will leave him for a black man but could for a white man.

 

Spoo and I don't look at color we just go with attraction to a playmate regardless of what color the woman or man is. Our relationship is solid. We are best friends and soulmates, and always play together so we can enjoy seeing each other have fun. So neither of us is threatened that one or two times of having sex with another person is going to tear us apart. Pagan-lovers made a good point...until you two can be more secure in your relationship you shouldn't be playing with anyone, male or female. You and your wife need to talk about this and find your comfort zones 'together'.

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john1234 said:
We are a married white couple and I prefer my wife to swing with black men. For some reason I get jealous about her playing with white men but not black. Any advice on how to not get jealous and let her have fun all around? Anyone else ever feel this way?

 

Hi John,

 

You only speak of men being with your wife. Do you only do MFM, or do you ever swing with couples? Are you ever with other women? If not, why not?

 

Best wishes.

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As a black man, I believe I should comment.

 

I honestly believe that there is a superiority/inferiority complex, you choose. Perhaps you feel superior to black men in general, for whatever reason, and you look at them (black men) as social subordinates? Perhaps black men are redeemable goods and/or just (sexual?) objects that couldn't possibly measure up to you whether it be socially or any other measure of importance in your life? Not a flame, but this is common in a country where race and racism runs rampant. Perhaps you feel as though your wife could never find any quality, other than sex, to be even remotely interesting about a black man?

 

You are jealous of white men being with your wife,possibly because you have an innate RESPECT for them. Possibly by default, and/or by what society as portrayed them (white men) as. You feel threatened that your wife would somehow find even a better white man to be with. And in the same breath, you have excluded, erroneously, all black men from ever being anything your wife would enjoy/respect/admire/desire, other than sexually.

 

This is just my opinion. I believe this "issue" is deeper than sex and/or swinging. But that's just my opinion.

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Taylor74 said:
But that's just my opinion.

 

I think it is a great part of this thread, Taylor! A very good post and very insightful...

 

I am going to kind of disagree with Pagan-Lovers and Mrs Spoomonkey - both of whom I greatly respect, one of whom I have sex with a lot.

 

First - I think we all have our comfort zones. For whatever reason - and Taylor certainly gave a compelling reason why this might not be a healthy comfort zone. But - we have them. If you know what your comfort zones are, there is absolutely nothing wrong with playing within them.

 

If black men are what makes you comfortable as a husband - and your wife is happy to play with them - then go for it. There is absolutely no reason that you shouldn't. Many couples, for whatever reason, fantasize about including black men - so that is not terribly uncommon.

 

Personally - I consider it to be objectifying and ultimately humiliating - but I recognize that it is a legitimate and rather common kink.

 

I don't think there is any reason that you need to be comfortable with all races equally as playmates. Sure - I think their are some real "soul values" to seeing all races as equal - but short of that, it is okay to entertain your kink and comfort by playing only with black men.

 

There is no reason to include white men.

 

But - if you want to get over your jealousy, my advice would be the "sink or swim" method. It is what worked for me. I struggled with jealousy at times early on - men I was intimidated by for whatever reason (never racial - typically just a real selfishness about Mrs Spoo running into a guy who was good at what he did). Occasionally I would say something to Mrs Spoo that would "blunt" her experience. She would have a great time with the playmate, but my insecurity about it would spoil her fun after the fact...

 

Which was horribly unfair since twenty four hours later, whatever happened was a huge turn on for me! The experience that made me feel insecure was now - a day later - turning me on like a teenager with his first porn mag.

 

I was all over Mrs Spoo for a week or more afterwards - the memory of her hot time lighting my fuse and sparking towards an explosive finish. And THAT is what we are in the lifestyle for really. Sure - she had a good time with the playmate (which I really, really want her to have) but the real pay off is the energy afterwards...

 

So - I did a lot of soul searching and realized that if I could just be smart with the jealousy when it reared its ugly head, I could reap the benefits at home later.

 

And almost as soon as I made that decision - *POOF* - jealousy has pretty much disappeared. It sounds hokey, but it was almost like now that jealousy couldn't get the best of me, it just decided to go pick on someone else...

 

Now I get the benefits of Mrs Spoo's hot times (and, well, the benefits of my own hot times... Thanks ladies :D ) and she doesn't have to deal with my insecurities and can relax and really enjoy her experiences too.

 

So - how do you do this?

 

Straight on brother...

 

Let her play with a white guy. They are everywhere. Set some ground rules and "safe words" ahead of time and then go for it. You'll talk a LOT afterwards which you should do anyway. And if you do find yourself turned on by it - all over your wife like a sex addict on Viagra and yellow jackets - then you've struck gold! Realize THAT is the benefit and work through the jealousy.

 

If you are anything like me... *POOF*

 

But - if it doesn't turn you on - no big deal. If the experience leaves you just jealous and no more turned on than before - go back to what works for you.

 

We are all here to fulfill our fantasies - and they are all different from one another.

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Taylor74 eloquently expressed what I was thinking, but I didn't know how to say it.

 

Spoomonkey said:
If black men are what makes you comfortable as a husband - and your wife is happy to play with them - then go for it. There is absolutely no reason that you shouldn't. Many couples, for whatever reason, fantasize about including black men - so that is not terribly uncommon.

 

Personally - I consider it to be objectifying and ultimately humiliating - but I recognize that it is a legitimate and rather common kink.

I would think that a black man who senses that a couple sees him for the reason expressed by Taylor, would not wish to swing with them. Maybe Taylor can give us more insight into this and how he spots these type of swingers. What are the signs you look for?

 

If I knew someone wanted to swing with me because they think they are superior to me, and their believing me inferior made them feel less threatened, I'd not be happy. Thankfully, I have a pretty good sense of people, and would never play with them. I'd move on quickly.

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LikeMinds321 said:

I would think that a black man who senses that a couple sees him for the reason expressed by Taylor, would not wish to swing with them. Maybe Taylor can give us more insight into this and how he spots these type of swingers. What are the signs you look for?

 

Well, I'm no seasoned swinger by any means, so my insight will be limited. I have met several couples recently and have had great experiences. As a single male, regardless of race, we're generally objectifying ourselves by seeking out couples who enjoy including only men in their trysts. So, I guess, their is a little bit of hypocrisy on our (single males) part, to some degree. There are many couples, as you know, who specifically seek out black males. Some make this very clear in the beginning, others don't. If I had a choice, I would rather be with a woman/couple who generally finds me attractive and/or interesting enough to "swing" with. The couples who seek out black males specifically and discuss the details of a possible encounter like a business deal, are a real turnoff for me. It's too mechanical and planned. Most of the time, it's the male-half pushing for this fantasy, at least in my experiences. Also, if a couple is too embarrassed to be seen with a black male in public (having drinks, etc), then I know they have issues. This is a good sign. Thank God, I haven't had this problem. Also, if a couple describes the length a black man should be in order to meet is a tell tale sign. Racism, sexual myths, and just plain ignorance perpetuates this kind of behavior.

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Well, I'm no seasoned swinger by any means, so my insight will be limited. I have met several couples recently and have had great experiences. As a single male, regardless of race, we're generally objectifying ourselves by seeking out couples who enjoy including only men in their trysts. So, I guess, their is a little bit of hypocrisy on our (single males) part, to some degree. There are many couples, as you know, who specifically seek out black males. Some make this very clear in the beginning, others don't. If I had a choice, I would rather be with a woman/couple who generally finds me attractive and/or interesting enough to "swing" with. The couples who seek out black males specifically and discuss the details of a possible encounter like a business deal, are a real turnoff for me. It's too mechanical and planned. Most of the time, it's the male-half pushing for this fantasy, at least in my experiences. Also, if a couple is too embarassed to be seen with a black male in public (having drinks, etc), then I know they have issues. This is a good sign. Thank God, I haven't had this problem. Also, if a couple describes the length a black man should be in order to meet is a tell tale sign. Racism, sexual myths, and just plain ignorance perpetuates this kind of behavior.

 

Taylor, I appreciate your insight a lot. I wonder if you can offer me some advice?

 

We're a white couple who enjoy people of any race as long as we're all mutually attracted (personality, etc.). We enjoy both threesomes and foursomes. We don't specifically seek out black men or couples due to their race, but if we click, we click. My question: Many times black couples or interracial couples seem to want to make sure we're okay with their race, before we meet them. I understand that they may have had some kind of bad experience in the past, but I never know quite how to assure them when they ask these things. In my mind, I'm thinking, of course you're okay with us, we liked your profile, we already know what race you are, seen your pictures, etc. Hopefully, we're okay to them at this point, too - but I don't ask, I just assume we're okay, or they wouldn't still be talking to us about meeting. :)

 

I just wonder what is the best way to let couples or singles know that we're not interested based on sexual myths, stereotypes, or any of that stuff? We don't want to make race a big deal or a big conversation, we just want to convey thoughtfully and earnestly that we're not like that, if they seem concerned. What makes you comfortable about a white couple you're talking to?

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Tybee Swing said:

We're a white couple who enjoy people of any race as long as we're all mutually attracted (personality, etc.). We enjoy both threesomes and foursomes. We don't specifically seek out black men or couples due to their race, but if we click, we click. My question: Many times black couples or interracial couples seem to want to make sure we're okay with their race, before we meet them. I understand that they may have had some kind of bad experience in the past, but I never know quite how to assure them when they ask these things. In my mind, I'm thinking, of course you're okay with us, we liked your profile, we already know what race you are, seen your pictures, etc. Hopefully, we're okay to them at this point, too - but I don't ask, I just assume we're okay, or they wouldn't still be talking to us about meeting. :)

 

I just wonder what is the best way to let couples or singles know that we're not interested based on sexual myths, stereotypes, or any of that stuff? We don't want to make race a big deal or a big conversation, we just want to convey thoughtfully and earnestly that we're not like that, if they seem concerned. What makes you comfortable about a white couple you're talking to?

 

Hi, Tybee.

 

One thing you must remember, is that rejection is something everyone hates. And in the swinging world, everyone can pick and choose what they want, almost down to specific DNA strands.LOL! With that in mind, to avoid the frustrations accompanied with rejection and the finicky nature of people in this lifestyle, many choose to over emphasize things such as race to ensure that potential mates are well informed in advance of who they're dealing with. Even if it's quite clear that said partners are interested.

 

Also, in your case, let those interracial couples bring up the topic of race during a discussion. That way, they own the topic because they initiated it. You can convey that race seldomly crosses your mind and that they should put it aside and enjoy the situation for what it is.

 

The best way to let couples/singles know that race, etc isn't something that you concern yourself with, is to simply say it, type it, and/or convey it. For example, when a woman/couple says to ME..."you're an attractive guy" as opposed to saying..."you're an attractive BLACK guy", I know that race isn't something that they give a second thought. This means a lot to me.

 

Likewise, if we speak on the phone and they (white couples) mention other black male encounters that didn't live up to their expectations, I know that they have an agenda regarding sexual myths,etc.

 

But what truly makes me comfortable, is honesty and when couples speak freely and hold no punches. I hate dealing with people with hidden agendas.

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Very well stated Taylor. Being the black female in an interracial couple, we were often bombarded with what I called the "stupid" males. These were men who once they found out that I "liked" white men wanted to sleep with me, simply because they couldn't find black women who liked them or because they'd never done it before. I promptly refused them, but tried to answer any legitimate questions they had in a dignified manner. Stupid questions (yes there are stupid questions LOL) got stupid answers. I too hate people who have agendas regarding race & we try to avoid them at all costs. I don't like feeling that I am just another thing to be done on a "to do" list.

 

Tybee

As far as black couples making sure you're ok with them, like Taylor said, it's just their way of being reassured you will not reject them later on. My hubby usually meets most of the couples online we may potentially meet & talks to them. He used to use his swinger account, we have separate ones, & couples were eager to meet us until he sent a picture. Then all talking would stop or we'd get the usual lines of BS & excuses. So I'm sure black couples come across this just as often. And being in GA, particularly where you are doesn't make it any easier. We know, because we were right down the road from you & preferred to find playmates in FL. My hubby & I never saw the difference in our races or having to even state the difference before living in GA. We just accept people as they are for who they are & I guess our downfall is that we expect everyone to have this same belief. So as Taylor said, what you're doing to reassure the other couple seems to be just fine. Even if you reject a couple because of incompatibility issues, they will still probably think it was racially motivated. This is just ingrained in some people in the south & especially in how black swingers are treated there & is not meant to reflect on you personally. The worst thing to say to a black couple or person in my opinion in trying to reassure them that you are fine in swinging with them, is the dreaded, "I have black friends". Just my 2 cents on the subject.

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I'm not quite sure how to answer this.

 

You see I'm white, my cute little Chapina is a nicely tanned Spanish woman.

 

I would feel uncomfortable with anyone who had hangups on the colour of the skin. A man is a man, a woman is a woman. Why should it make a difference?

 

If your relationship is not strong enough to handle you or your wife having another partner without such feelings, maybe you should re-evaluate your relationship RE: swinging.

 

Jealousy is a very dangerous animal that usually bites at some time or another.

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I'm not quite sure how to answer this.

 

You see I'm white, my cute little Chapina is a nicely tanned Spanish woman.

 

I would feel uncomfortable with anyone who had hangups on the colour of the skin. A man is a man, a woman is a woman. Why should it make a difference?

 

If your relationship is not strong enough to handle you or your wife having another partner without such feelings, maybe you should re-evaluate your relationship RE: swinging.

 

Jealousy is a very dangerous animal that usually bites at some time or another.

 

Couldn't have said it better myself baby.

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S, thank you for your input. I appreciate that.

 

And being in GA, particularly where you are doesn't make it any easier. We know, because we were right down the road from you & preferred to find playmates in FL.

 

It's odd to me, because my husband was born and raised right here, and he's the most non-racist person you'll meet. He's so not like that. I grew up mostly out west and in FL (came to GA later in adulthood), and race just seemed like a non-issue to me growing up.

 

Our profile doesn't say anything one way or the other about race. Should white south GA couples like us put something in there, stating we're non-racist? Or, better just to let a couple get to know us and see this for themselves on their own, as we do now?

 

Tybee

As far as black couples making sure you're ok with them, like Taylor said, it's just their way of being reassured you will not reject them later on.

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Even if you reject a couple because of incompatibility issues, they will still probably think it was racially motivated. This is just ingrained in some people in the south & especially in how black swingers are treated there & is not meant to reflect on you personally.

 

This is too bad, because not everybody is a match, and sometimes after a first meeting the personalities just do not connect. I hate to think they'd assume it was race, but I suppose there's no way around this, huh?

 

The worst thing to say to a black couple or person in my opinion in trying to reassure them that you are fine in swinging with them, is the dreaded, " I have black friends". Just my 2 cents on the subject.

 

LOL! That would sound pretty dumb, I'm sure. If a black couple told us, "We have white friends", I'd have to laugh and say, "So happy for you" :wtf: Seriously though, we'd never say that line. Have you heard that line in swinging, yourself?

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WE have received several messages saying things such as "I want to see my wife with a black man," "I want to see my wife have sex with a black couple" etc. These emails may come from perfectly nice people; but it is clear to us that they only want us for our color. Our profile is well-written (we think) and there are many exciting things about us. But...it seems like some couples hone in on one thing...color. We understand that people want different experience and that's cool. But, don't just look for race; look for positive qualities as well.

 

On the flip side...we have had experiences with people of all flavors...vanilla, chocolate, mocha, etc. and they are all yummy!! facelick

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Our profile is well-written (we think) ...

 

Yes, I would agree! Very well-written, multi-faceted.

 

What is Zumba? Sounds interesting. I love pilates and yoga, too.

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Tybee, you're more than welcome for comments from me. I'm glad someone appreciates them LOL. Seriously, I wouldn't change your profile to include anything because you may get those people who won't want to swing with you because you swing with "undesirables". And by undesirables, I mean anyone who isn't white. I don't know if those type of people even matter to you guys, but being in your area there's a lot of them. If you did choose to change your profile, I would suggest saying race unimportant.

 

As far as the "I have black friends" thing....OMG you wouldn't believe how many people in GA period use that line to let us know that they're ok with playing with us. These were also the people who didn't care about meeting before hand, but just wanted to hook up. Honestly, I had never heard this line come out of a person's mouth until I moved to GA. I usually respond to this by saying, "Really? Wow I wish I could see my friends. They're all invisible."

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Hi all, this is Mr Freeky, my first time posting on this website! I usually let my wife post comments and I read the threads and comments with her! Very interesting and informative! I feel I must comment on this topic as it is near and dear to my heart!

 

When I met my wife, I didn't see color, money, or anything else. I saw a beautiful woman (inside and out) with a smile that lights up a room! I fell in love with her and definitely wanted to pursue things further with her!

 

As we progressed into marriage, it frustrated and angered me more than her about the "looks" and comments we would receive from people about us being an interracial couple. It wasn't fair that people would judge me for being with an African American woman or her being with a Caucasian man, and it was an eye opener for me. She would just laugh it off and chalk it up to people being the way they were, and I thank her for keeping me calm! LOL

 

But seriously, I love my wife for her being her, not for her being a certain color or anything like that, and wouldn't change her for anything or anyone!

 

Swinging is supposed to be fun, exciting, and strengthen your relationship instead of tearing it down or belittle people for the color of their skin!

 

Believe me, I usually let the wife have the final say on who we swing with because I love seeing her pleased and turned on and want her to feel comfortable with who we are with! If she says no, I will support her 100%. But anyways, thank you for letting me express my opinions and I welcome any feedback! ::P:

 

It's a damn shame we are now in Germany because there's a lot of nice people on here! :)

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      We chatted for about 5 minutes then Vince put his wine glass down and reached over to kiss me.  Simultaneously, he slid his hand under my skirt and started rubbing my cunt. His other hand reached for my breasts. I asked him to take me to the bedroom and told my husband, “I want to be alone with him please.”  Sometimes I like my husband present to snap pictures and take videos.  Other times I don’t want to be distracted.  More importantly, I didn’t want Vince distracted so he could pretty much do as he pleased or I could do as I wished.
       
      In no time at all I was stark naked except for my heels. As I sat on the edge of the bed, Vince got on his knees and started lapping my cunt.  I melted.  He then pushed back onto the bed and disrobed.  Oh my fucking God.  He didn’t have a cock, he had a baseball bat!  He grabbed my head and pushed his cock into my mouth.  I felt his cock start to twitch then my mouth was flooded with his cum.  How I managed to swallow all of it surprised me. 
       
      We took a short break, had some more wine, then he laid me on my back and started to mount me.  I usually required a lot of stimulation to squirt and my husband uses a special curved toy to make me squirt.  Not this time! Vince placed the head of his 10-inch cock at my cunt entrance and pushed it completely in.  Yes, I yelped, because he was thick and he bumped my cervix. 
       
      After he sank his cock balls deep into me, he started thrusting fast then slow then fast again.  Every time he slowed down and pulled back, I sprayed lady cum all over me and him.
       
      This went on for quite a while.  He then told me to roll over.  He reinserted his cock into my cunt then pulled it out and started to slide it into my asshole.  I tried to stop him but I couldn’t.  I yelped in pain when I noticed my husband was now in the room.  Instead of stopping him, he said, “Here, use this," and handed Vince a bottle silicone lube.  I said, “Please,  go easy.”  Vince went slow for a while and then at my husband’s urging, he quickened his pace and sunk his cock balls deep in my ass.  There was very little I could do so I relaxed as much as possible and let him ride my ass until he finally came. 
       
      When he finished cumming, Vince went into the bathroom to clean up.  I was worn out and a complete cum mess.  As he dressed, he kissed me tenderly and said he hoped to see me again.  I said, “Of course!”
       
      After Vince left, my husband asked me how it was.  I said it had to the be hardest most violent fuck I ever had.  When he asked me if I wanted him back, I said, “Of course.  He just needs to slow down on my ass.”  
       
      My husband then kissed me and asked me if I cried because I tasted like salt.   I said, “No my dear, those are tears of joy and a little of his semen.”  I then went to take another shower. 
    • By Maturecouple1122
      We were late bloomers to the lifestyle having been married nearly 40 years before we had our first encounter with another couple.  Other than one erotic massage session, during which my husband begged me let the masseur fuck me, I hadn’t had sex with anybody but my husband during our marriage.  As my husband and I became more experienced in the lifestyle, he and I fantasized about me having sex with another woman.  I even agreed to let him change my SDC profile from “Straight” to “Bi-Curious.”
       
      One fall Sunday afternoon, we met a mixed-race couple for lunch.  He was black and she was white.  We all clicked so the man suggested we adjourn to a hotel a few blocks away from the restaurant.  I had no idea that my emerging fantasy was about to be satisfied.
       
      I am a 60 year old woman, 5’ 9” tall who wears a size 18 dress.  I have blond hair, blue eyes, and 38D breasts with ultra-sensitive nipples.  The other woman was similar to me but about an inch shorted and a year younger.  She had nice, firm 36D breasts.  Her partner, a well-built former football player, had a rather small cock for a black man, only about 5 inches.  His girth, however, was huge.  The biggest I have ever seen or felt.  He was nearly the circumference of a Red Bull drink can when flaccid.  When erect, he was simply huge.  
       
      We rented a mini-suite with a king-sized bed and a pullout sofa.  As my husband and the other woman started playing on the bed, the man disrobed me and started fingering me on the sofa. He really knew how to make my juices flow because I came all over the sofa.  That is when we realized the maids failed to stock towels in the bathroom and we had no way to wipe it up.  “Hello, Room Service!”
       
      We then moved to the bed and shared it with my husband and the other lady.  This was the first time I had a close look of my husband in action.  He started fingering the lady very vigorously then all of a sudden, his entire hand, up to his wrist, slid into her cunt.  I didn’t even know this was possible but here was my husband fisting this lady and she was screaming in ecstasy as she came several times. 
       
      As I laid watching this, I felt something very large trying to penetrate my ass.  I tried to move away as I knew his cock was too big for my asshole but he held me tight.  I started squirming but my husband and the other woman held my head and kissed me.  Today was going to be day of many firsts for me.  My first kiss from lady and a huge cock sliding into my ass.  I never thought I would cum from being ass fucked but I did - repeatedly.  After Mr. Red Bull finished, I rolled onto my back to rest to watch my husband fuck another woman.  I was pretty turned on when I saw his cum flowing out of her pussy.
       
      As my husband and I lay on the bed recovering, the man whispered into his partner’s ear and said, “Time for her surprise.” I looked up and the lady had donned a harness with a huge brown, lifelike, dildo.  As she was applying lubrication to the dildo, she reached over, kissed me, and lubricate my cunt.  The man then lifted my legs up and his partner mounted me with her dildo. As I got accustomed to her fake cock, she started fucking me hard.  Pulling her cock almost all the way out then slamming it back in.  We both came in each other’s arms and I kissed her deeply.
       
      After she removed her harness, she crawled up on the bed and started licking my cunt.  It felt absolutely wonderful.  She then asked me to return the favor which I eagerly did. After a few licks of her pussy, I realized my husband’s cum was in the vaginal canal.  Tasted a little salty but not too bad.  As I licked and sucked her clit until she came gain.  When I sat up to rest, I had both her and my husband’s cum on my face.
       
      Room service finally delivered some towels, which my husband retrieved in the nude from what I assume was a very startled maid. We all relaxed and hydrated ourselves.  I went to the bathroom to clean up a bit.  When I returned, I realized the man was not satisfied fucking my ass with his fat cock but wanted my mouth and cunt as well.  He gently grabbed my head and pushed it toward his cock.  It took all I could to get just the head of his cock in my mouth.  When he became hard again, his partner and my husband held my legs up for him as they played with my nipples.  He had great stamina as he fucked my cunt for at least 15-20 minutes before he came.
       
      Since we all had to go to work the next day, we decided to call it a night.  It was truly the defining point in my swinging career.  I took a huge cock in my ass and orgasmed.  I was fucked and eaten by another woman.  I ate another woman.  I tasted my husband’s cum second-hand.  We met this couple several more times over the course of a year until they split and left the lifestyle. It was a great year for sure!
    • By Maturecouple1122
      J and I have been married for 41 years.  Our sex life has been up and down for many years due to jobs, children, grandchildren, and life in general.  We were married 39 years when she finally agreed to consider swinging and having sex with other people.  After our first encounter with another couple, she realized she really enjoyed the alternative lifestyle and almost overnight became a sex machine.  People called her insatiable.  One of her new fantasies was to see to be pleased by a big black cock. I finally found a way to make this happen and here is how it played out.
       
      J has blond hair, blue eyes, stands around 5'9" tall and wears a size 18 after having two kids. She has a very nice ass, with extraordinarily sensitive nipples.  Everybody she meets lusts after her.  She is very self-conscious though and doesn't think she looks that good.  Her many suitors think otherwise.
       
      One Friday afternoon while she was at work, I texted her and told her I had a surprise for her.  When she arrived home, I told her to shower and shave and I would pick out her clothes.  
      As she showered, I laid out a very short black skirt, yellow semi-sheer top, and 4-inch heels.  No underwear!
       
      As we traveled to a town about 15 miles away, I told her I arranged a sensual massage for her from a black man at his apartment.  She was nervously excited.
       
      When we arrived at his apartment complex, we had to climb two flights of outside stairs to his second-floor apartment.  She had some difficulty with her heels so I stayed right behind her to ensure she didn’t fall.  It also gave me the opportunity to look up and see her beautiful bald pussy as the skirt was quite short.  Her skirt was so short, she was unable to cross her legs when she sat as it would ride up to her waist.  She looked back to me with a smirk on her face and said, “Enjoying the view?”
       
      We knocked on the door and a tall, black, young man named Christopher answered wearing scrubs.  He was her masseur for the evening.  We sat on his sofa and chatted for a while we discussed the massage session.  He told her that she would be receiving a full body massage and he hoped that she would enjoy it.  When J excused herself to the bathroom, I told Christopher the expectations.  I explained to him her fantasy and told him she would want a superior therapeutic massage then when she was fully relaxed and aroused, he was free to do what he wanted with her within reason.  I further explained I would be taking photos and videos.  He agreed and handed me his camera and said, “Please take some for me.”
       
      J returned from the bathroom and Christopher showed her to his massage table and told her to get comfortable. She looked at me, I winked, then she disrobed.  As she laid face down on the table, Christopher very quietly disrobed.  I don’t think she knew he was now naked. His cock was at least 9 inches flaccid and bounced between his thighs as he moved around the table.
       
      He started by standing at the head of the table, bending over to stroke her back. As he reached to rub her ass cheeks, his cock touched her head.  She now knew he was naked.  He proceeded to massage her back, shoulders and neck for the next 30 minutes. The harder Christopher rubbed her the more relaxed she became.  When he moved to her legs, he slowly moved his hands up and down, getting closer to her pussy each time.  I could tell she was very relaxed now as she cooed softly.  He then moved to her side and started rubbing her arm and leg simultaneously.  His cock was laying on her arm.  She then grabbed his cock with her hand and slowly started rubbing it and kissed the head. 
       
      He then moved to her legs and spread them ever so slightly to be able to access her legs on both sides. He stroked her legs first on the back of her thighs and calves. He then moved inward to the inner thigh and stroked there for a while. Occasionally, his fingers would lightly brush her pussy lips and sphincter. She would gasp and moan lightly. He finished massaging her legs and feet and arms then bent over and started licking her pussy.  She intuitively pulled her knees up under her to give him better access.  He used this position to run his tongue over her vagina and asshole while fingering her clit.  After he enjoyed her pussy and asshole, he asked her to flip over.
       
      After J turned onto her back, he again focused on her upper body.  First, he worked on her shoulders and stomach.  He started massaging her breasts from the outer skin where they meet her chest and started moving inward. He reached her areole on the first one and slowly started rubbing his big fingers around it. As he did this, her nipple started to harden even though he had not touched it yet. He did not touch that nipple yet and he moved to the other side doing the same thing. He brought both of her nipples to full attention. After they were standing up, he slowly dripped some oil on them and started rubbing them. You could see J's stomach twitching and her hip rise as he did this.
       
      He teased her nipples and lightly pinched them while tugging on them, turning her on even more. He then moved down to her legs. He started at her feet and worked his way up. As he moved his hand slowly to the inside of her legs, he would pull and slightly spread her legs apart from each other in the process. Pretty soon she had her legs spread wide enough to enable him to massage her thighs and see her full pussy at the same time.
       
      He worked on her thighs and in the process would lightly touch her pussy. After a short amount of time, he began rubbing her abdomen. He started where her vagina began and worked all around her hips. He slowly would move his fingers in between her legs where the leg met the pelvis and slide his fingers down to her asshole and back up lightly running his fingers over both her ass and pussy.
       
      She felt his bare cock next to her arm and reached over and to my surprise, took him into her mouth.  Obviously, the therapeutic portion of the massage was over.  She then grabbed his leg and had him position himself over her. They were now in the sixty-nine position and she had a massive black cock right above her lips. She reached up and grabbed his cock at the base and brought her head up to meet it with her lips.  She slowly jacked his cock in and out of her mouth.  I thought she would have a heart attack when she reached the tip and realized how big his cock was. Fully hard, he was over 10 and a half inches long and about 5 inches around. She never flinched.  He was licking at her pussy and matching her every move when she slowly opened her mouth and proceeded to start licking the tip of his cock.
       
      She pulled his cock out of her mouth and motioned for him to position himself between her legs. His shaft was now positioned at the entrance of her wet and willing open cunt. He asked her if she was ready for it and she just smiled. Christopher slowly started to work the head of his cock at her opening, teasing her.  He then slowly slid the head in and she grimaced a little due to the muscles being stretched. He took his time and let her adjust to his size. He proceeded to do this through the beginning slowly sliding his cock in little by little. Around 6 inches was in and she was starting to feel a mixture of pain and pleasure deep inside of her. He would move his cock in and out slowly to help her adjust to the size and depth he was going in her. At about 8 inches, he pulled back and pushed the rest of his cock deep into her until his balls slapped up against her ass. This sent pain through her whole abdomen but he stayed there and let her cervix adjust to the size. The pain started to fade and she felt more pleasure that she had never known before. His cock filled her completely up and she loved it.
       
      Soon, he whispered into her ear.  They both got off the massage table and moved to his bed.  She immediately laid on her back and placed her legs high in the air.  Christopher donned a condom, climbed on her and thrusted into her in one motion.  As he started thrusting in and out, J wrapped her legs around his back and interlocked her ankles.  She was now feeling the pleasure of his movements and was working her hips to match him. His cock glistened in the light from the wetness she had. He was moving in and out of her and she was nearing orgasm two, which she has never done in a single session. He kept going and started to work his cock all the way out to the tip and then all the way in again. After about six full strokes like that, she came again. This time she started to squirt, something she never did during intercourse. Christopher’s bed was now soaked.
       
      He then stopped and rolled her onto her stomach and resumed fucking her from behind.  You could see her cum running down her legs on the mattress.  Soon he began to cum. 
      When they were finished, J started to dress.  Christopher helped her buckle her stilettos and as he did, he leaned in and kissed her vagina.  She then whispered into his ear, “Next time I want you bareback.  I regret not feeling your cum in me."  He smiled ear to ear.
       
      As we made our way back to the car, she said, “I’m sure glad we have leather seats!I’m going to be leaking all the way home. What she didn’t know, was a guy was working on his car in the parking lot near our vehicle. Her skirt had ridden up while climbing down the stairs and then climbing up into our SUV. The guy got a good view of about everything to include her cum on the back of her thighs.
       
      J invited Christopher to our home many times after that first encounter. True to her word, she let him cum deep inside of her mouth and cunt each time.
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