do white women enjoy swinging with black men?

perfectloverman · 03-18-2006, 11:31 AM

As a blackman I have a great time swinging with my wife. we love to make new friends however not a lot of white men are happy to see me and there wivestogether enjoying each others company. Is there some place in north carolina where I could swing and make friends with everyone and enjoy ourselves? Is there a black swingers club? A lot of white women secretly want to enjoy my company even if it is for the experience only we both find a great deal of satisfaction and friendship. Does anyone agree?

perfectloverman · 03-18-2006, 11:41 AM

Can anyone comment on there experience with black men.

Is this something that is o.k? And are we making to much of color? My experience with people of other races has been very eye opening and pleasurable

Can anyone share more information?

Dare2Share · 03-18-2006, 12:02 PM

This may not answer any of your questions, but here goes.

My husband is black, I am white. I have run across more profiles than I would have expected that state "not seeking black men" or "not seeking interracial couples." One of them stated that they would be willing to consider a black woman but not a black man.

As far as my personal situation goes (I may get slammed for this, but oh well) my husband has told me that he doesn't want to swing with another black man, single or part of another couple. I see that as insecurity on his part (he knows that I am VERY attracted to black men...our last MFM was with a black man) but some might see it as racist. My point is that people have their own preferences for their own reasons and they might not be what somebody looking from the outside in would assume. Maybe it's the wife that said she wasn't interested in black men and the husband isn't mad at you, he's just shocked to shit seeing her chat with you.

Anyway, good luck to you.

EDITED TO ADD: Ok, you made another post stating that you're single. Which one is it? I kind of feel silly now for having answered your question because it seems like you are just trying to have a bunch of women tell you that they want to hook up with a black man.

Dare2Share · 03-18-2006, 12:08 PM

I gave you an answer to that on your other thread. Be patient and people will reply! It's the Saturday after Saint Patrick's Day...people are sleeping it off.... LOL

Chip_n_Muffy · 03-18-2006, 12:49 PM

So if you have a great time swinging with your wife and the friends that do accept you, what is the problem? Everyone has a right to preferences, everyone has a right to swing with whomever they want. If I was ever foolish enough to specify "We don't swing with redheads" that would be my right. And the redheads of the world would have to accept that and move on. Other people predjudges may limit your opportunities, but it also limits theirs. My two cents worth.

Chip

Dare2Share · 03-18-2006, 12:58 PM

There's definitely a difference between preference and prejudice, I wouldn't think that those two words are interchangeable in matters of race, especially.

Unless someone comes right and tells you they're racist, you just can't assume anything.

I agree with you Chip, as long as you're having a good time, who cares?

Chip_n_Muffy · 03-18-2006, 01:42 PM

Having read some of his other posts where he is waiting for his first experience, he is single, he is attached, he is married, has experience, no experience ......... none of this adds up. I sense troll or cheater. Either way, this is no longer worthy of my time.

Chip

Deptydog · 03-19-2006, 09:53 AM

I think you are going to find prejudice no matter where you go. I know that when my wife and I used to attend the PDC parties in Greensboro, there were several black couples who also attended and they seemed to be welcomed with open arms (and legs

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Have you tried PDC?

reed&diana · 03-19-2006, 11:32 PM

My wife is very blonde (natural) with very fair skin. It is a real turn on to see her very white skin against black skin. It seems that she draws black men.

perfectloverman · 03-20-2006, 09:23 AM

Well i have spent twenty yrs with the same woman and have divorsed howver I have since engaged but want to swing. I am thankful for all your responses and hope to have my first experience soon. i have noticed that white women either fantisize about being with a black man but won't tell their spouse thu s this fantsy goes unfullfiled.

perfectloverman · 03-20-2006, 09:31 AM

please tell me what is the pleasure received by white women from blak men. and how could i be sure to please her. I s it that black men are typiclally thicker or longer in size or is it the care and time taken during love making/ I'd like to hear from you in this issue. additionally what is it that women enjoy mosy is it foreplay or the act itself? help me to understand. facelick

WesternSwing · 03-20-2006, 10:00 AM

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Originally Posted by perfectloverman

I s it that black men are typiclally thicker or longer in size or is it the care and time taken during love making/ I'd like to hear from you in this issue. additionally what is it that women enjoy mosy is it foreplay or the act itself?

I think you're falling into the BBC syndrome here... Big Black Cock. It's fact that generally black men are not much if any longer then white men, you just see more of it in porn because that is what that audience is looking for.

Black men can be just as bad lovers as white men. Color of skin does not denote a person's lovemaking ability.

From my experience, women enjoy it all. I think for most good foreplay leads to intercourse itself being better.

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Originally Posted by perfectloverman

i have noticed that white women either fantisize about being with a black man but won't tell their spouse thu s this fantsy goes unfullfiled.

Hmmm... This is a leading question, one that would lead right into a racial argument.

Mrs. WS has never fantasized particularily about being with a black man because he is black. And my best friend is black so you could see I have no issues about her being with a black man. It's the man himself that turns her on, not the color of the skin. Although yes, there is something erotic or exotic about people of different races, why else would so many caucasians (both men and women) be into Asians, Hispanics, and African-Americans and visa-versa?

Mr. WS

Dare2Share · 03-20-2006, 10:04 AM

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Originally Posted by perfectloverman

please tell me what is the pleasure received by white women from blak men. and how could i be sure to please her. I s it that black men are typiclally thicker or longer in size or is it the care and time taken during love making/ I'd like to hear from you in this issue. additionally what is it that women enjoy mosy is it foreplay or the act itself? help me to understand. facelick

You are really spending too much time on this race issue. No, it isn't true that all black men are more well-endowed than all white men. No, it isn't true that all white women fantasize about being with a black man. You're being very stereotypical and if you WERE to meet another couple with that attitude it would be a major turn off.

I very briefly dated a guy with that attitude. He was obsessed with the fact that I was white and it made me uncomfortable. He wasn't very good in bed but he really believed that because he was black he was fulfilling my every need. He wasn't.

lovedoctor · 03-20-2006, 12:01 PM