Pregnant People

[HotCoupleGnS]

We just started talking to this couple online. When we are talking baout ourselves, she says she is 8 weeks pregnant. That took us a little off guard. She says she will play until she is fat & no one wants her. That really didn't do it for the hubby or me either. When I was pregnant we totally quit swinging. I know some men are turned on by a pregnat woman, but what about women? I'm not saying they aren't sexy or anything. I felt extrely sexy when I was pregnant, except when I was 9 months pregnant in June when it was over 100 degrees with Oklahoma nasty stick heat, lol!
Basically what we are wanting to know is peoples opinion on swinging with a prgnant woman. While, I am pretty sure we never would, (unless we dind't know) everyone has their own opinion & we would love to hear them ! Thanks! facelick

[Spoomonkey]

When I was in the process of creating a dysfunctional little family to call my own, I can recall being VERY attracted to my then-wife when she was expecting. It is weird to think about, because there is really nothing attractive about pregnant women outside of those times of my life. Does that make sense?

I don't know that if someone was eight weeks pregnant that it would keep us from playing - I'd think that we likely would not want to, but I've seen enough of our "rules" bend to make room for the moment at hand. It they were waddling around the club eight months along, well, no... That's a little less "philosophical."

Spoomonkey

[HotCoupleGnS]

Yes I get what you are saying, my hubby was very attracted to me when I was pregnant, but other than that he says pregnant women really don't turn him on.
I know 8 weeks isn't very far along, she probably isn't even showing. I didn't shoe till I was like 5 months along. But now that we know, we both are a little turned off. I think probably b/c our decision was to not swing when I was pregnant. But whatever tickles your pickle!

[Spoomonkey]

Well - there is certainly enough grey area for everyone to find their kink - I suppose...

Like you guys, though, I think if I knew it would really kind of curdle the milk, so to speak...

Mrs Spoomonkey feels like the inherent risks of swinging needn't be brought into the period of pregnancy - and I agree. I think you guys were wise to not swing, but I am sure others could make a case for why they chose to continue.

But - I know that rules that make good sense can be "adjusted on the fly". For example, we have a rule that we only swing with married couples - but we have already adjusted that one. We're not terribly glad we did, but we did. I can see this being one of those grey areas where we meet a couple we really are attracted to and the mountain becomes a mole hill.

But - giving room for our "impulses" and "imperfections" - we agree that people should probably postpone the lifestyle while pregnant. But that is hardly a thing we'd expect everyone to agree with. As you said, whatever tickles your pickle... And when it comes to my pickle, the tickle usually rules...



Spoomonkey

[tazzie_n_truck]

As a couple who is expecting a baby ourselves. We have swapped with other couples while Tazzie has been pregnant. She is getting near to her due date right now of July 4th, and till she is ready to after the baby is born, we have stopped, but we have swapped with other couples up untill about the 8th month. Some people don't mind it, and some do. The most swinging we have done during her pregnancy has usually been done in the 2nd. trimester when she has been so horny and wanting sex all the time. lol Like we said though, currently we have stopped swinging till she is ready to again.

It's a matter of people's preferance if they want to do it or not.

We wouldnt swing with someone we knew was pregnant.......At least I dont think we would.

[MoreThanaHandfu]

I'm sure if my hubby had the chance he would in a heartbeat.lol He LOVES pregnant women. He would keep me pregnant all the time if he could.lol I think pregnant women are sexy too but I don't know that I myself would risk swinging if I were pregnant.

[lcjtsd]

Hubby loves pregnant women. Any pregnant ladies ladies in or coming to Vegas?

[4forfun]

Hi Hotcouple, My hubby used to love me pregnant and thought I was sexy, also he thought other women looked sexy too. I was very horny with my first 2 but having my last child I had breakthrough bleeding and although they couldn't find anything wrong they told us to stop having sex just in case.
The first trimester is not the safest time they say and if you are swinging with a pregnant woman what if she happens to bleed? Sorry to be so straight about this but it got me thinking seriously. Myself personally think the 2nd trimester is the safest.
Mrs. Fun

[Brit_Pair]

I can't imagine wanting to sleep with a woman pregnant with someone else's child, nor can I imagine being comfortable with another man sleeping with a woman carrying my child. No great rhyme or reason to it: it's just an instinctive reaction.

[Alura]

I remember my dad remarking to me when I was about ten that he thought women were never more beautiful than when they were pregnant. I think women are beautiful when pregnant, but I like them in "bikini shape," too.

Mrs. Alura is beautiful to me all the time. That didn't seem to diminish while she was pregnant. I don't think I found myself more turned on during that period, though. I'd say about the same...

We did play once during a pregnancy with a man I'd known some twenty years and his wife who was about to ship out for Desert Storm. Sadly, they divorced before she returned so we never played again.

The pregnancy didn't seem to make much difference to any of us.

Mr. Alura

[DuncanDoughnut]

I think the only problem with being with a pregnant woman is the risk that you take of hurting the baby or her. Yes, I know it's uncommon and I NEVER had a problem, but, if something went wrong with the baby, even if it was unrelated to being with you, it'd be a shame to be blamed for it or to even think you were to blame or to be accused in someone else time of grief. Does that make any sense?

[Alura]

I suppose the biggest risk of harming the infant would be contracting an STD. We'd known the couple for a long time. They'd always been monogamous in their marriage. He worked in health care (still does). We figured there was no danger. I guess we were right. The baby turned out to be very healthy.

Mr. Alura

[lovers]

We had a couple approach us to swing and it came out that she was seven months preggers and they were swinging (or rather she was) because she was extremely horny all the time. While I (the male half) have to admit that I do find women who are pregnant to be sexy, I'm not sure that I would swing with one for fear of doing some damage.

[DuncanDoughnut]

It does cause contractions which could lead to pre-mature labor.