Ever tempted to get pregnant on purpose when swinging?

[Karen12345]

Hi again,

just some hours ago, i posted a question on preventing
pregnancy when swinging. Got the hint to search the old
posts for this topic and i found lots of information.

What surprised me most is that there are some swinger
actually thinking about or playing with the risk to
become pregnant with a swinging partner. I have to
admit that it is a naughty and somehow tempting idea
to play the real game, but i think i will never consider
doing this. Until now i thought of swinging as only fun...

Karen

Never.
A swinger baby would not be a good thing.

[SnSnLex]

Never!!!

It should never be considered a game......

[OhioCouple]

Never here, either. There is too much at risk to even consider that and deception alone is only the beginning...

[viper31631]

I actually heard of this happening the woman who was married by the way intentionally got preg by a swing parter......Last I heard she was asking him for support and such after tricking him.......she told him she couldn't get preg

[VegasLee]

I believe that anyone that would even consider something like this has no business in the lifestyle or swinging at all.

They are not mature and to even consider this shows they are not responsible.

Someone that would play with lives like this needs some serious help.

[Elusive BiFem]

Originally posted by VegasLee
I believe that anyone that would even consider something like this has no business in the lifestyle or swinging at all.

They are not mature and to even consider this shows they are not responsible.

Someone that would play with lives like this needs some serious help.

I believe anyone who would deliberately get pregnant without the partners consent (assuming we are talking about non-consent) is not mature enough to even be having sex. Period.

- EBF

[HotCoupleGnS]

I total agree with everyone on this one! It is shocking that people would even try something like that!

[Triumphs]

Let me start off by saying, we don't condone this behaviour. If this is how you feel, then we think that you should talk with your SO about it before you swing again. Who knows, you may find your SO finds it arousing too. You may even find someone else who feels the same, but please be honest with them. Not being honest and forthright about your desires, to the other person(s), is wrong. Particularly if your intent is extortion, which would make you a criminal.

I believe that, for every vice, there are people who find that very thing arousing. As vices go, though, this one is rather exotic. We all know that breeding with the healthiest and most attractive mate we can is one of the core drives our bodies have. Therefore, I can see where a person would be tempted when they find a person, through swinging, that has a quality they feel their SO lacks. I can also see where someone would be tempted by the "naughty factor". We probubally all know someone that craves attention and/or desires being the center of controversy. What would you do/think if you saw a white mother with a mixed child if you knew her husband, of many years, was white also? Look? Gossip? Both? Some people like that...

I tried to not to be gender specific, since it could go either way, but I would suspect that women feel this way more. Some guys may get off on the thought too, though.

Personally, we would never do anything like this while swinging. If we want to make babies, we can just go home and role play until the swelling starts.

Is there any other factor/reason I missed?

TriumphGuy

PS - I am not a psychoanalyst, but I play one on the internet...

[Brit_Pair]

On top of all the other potential pitfalls, the possibility that there might actually be such people out there is enough to make a person decide to stop swinging and take up something more secure . . . like blindfolded rock climbing.

[DBL D]

Unthinkable!
DBL D

[SnSnLex]

Originally posted by Brit_Pair
On top of all the other potential pitfalls, the possibility that there might actually be such people out there is enough to make a person decide to stop swinging and take up something more secure . . . like blindfolded rock climbing.

They are out there, and on this board too........

Search our posts if you feel the need to know more

[Alura]

Well, it's not surprising how this poll is going.

Anyone doing this for extortion (child support) should be in gaol. The only one I know who did, is my brother's ex-girlfriend. That story is unfolding daily.

To do such a thing for a thrill is unbalanced, at best.

The only scenario where I might condone getting pregnant intentionally while swinging would be if the husband of a couple were sterile and the couple wanted to have a child. In this case, they should talk it out with the "donor couple" first. Whatever the four decided would be okay with me.

I can see, if the couples were close, perhaps polyamory, there could be a lot of good feelings among all four.

Still, it would probably be a can of worms and a sperm bank would be a better option.

We quit swinging during the time we were having children.

Mr. Alura

[SparkyandAJ]

We already have 2 wonderful children, and don't want any other kids. I(the male) don't want to get a summons one day for a child support hearing! The lifestyle is no place to be playing games! Guys....provide your own condoms!!!!! Protect yourself as well as your SO. If any of you are wanting to try this kind of thing.....SHAME ON YOU!!!!!

Sparky

[RockrcplOrlando]

At the time i'm writing this, the poll is 22 "nevers" and nothing else has gotten a vote....2 words, THANK GOD.