Ever tempted to get pregnant on purpose when swinging?

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by Chris&Amelia

Julie... I'm not trying to be a smartass, but IP's aren't necessarily a rock-solid ID. I know my ISP "rotates" us cable-modem users every two weeks or so. And when I was a dial-up user (shudder), I got a new IP every time I dialed up.

Just trying to help...

I do understand how IP's work and when one is in Germany and one is in some US state it's pretty clear that it's not just a rotation of IP #'s.

IP#'s are usually issued to ISP's in blocks. SO even if your number changes every time you login it's going to be within that block of #'s (or one of the other blocks owned by that ISP), wIth the exception of AOL which has so damn many blocks it's about impossible to narrow the users down.

[n02deep]

I'm an ex Intranet & Internet server admin and you're absolutely right about the IP scenerio Julie. If your tracerouted the IP's and got one from Germany and one from the US, provided they aren't both part of a large company with a global infrastructure, you are probably dealing with two distinct individuals. The chances are about 99.9% unless you happen to be dealing with a "special case". It is actually possible, though highly unlikely, to reroute your IP to appear to be from another network, BUT... it takes a network admin or "equivilent" with skillz and access to the needed servers to do it.

[Chris&Amelia]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

I do understand how IP's work and when one is in Germany and one is in some US state it's pretty clear that it's not just a rotation of IP #'s.

Okay! Okay! Just trying to help out here. I'll keep my trap shut.

now that gives swinging a bad name.

[Jenny&Thomas]

Since i am not on the pill, we always use condoms with other couples. From time to time the male part of the other couple tries to persuade me to go bareback, even if he knows that i am not on the pill. I have to admit that from time to time - if the guy is very nice and charming - i am of course tempted to go without, but i am in love with my hubby and would never allow another man to make me pregnant.
ever tempted?... yes, but i will never happen!
Jenny

[TeamSoBe]

Wow I have never even considered this. My wife and I have had some encounters with some very affluent couples and I noticed that they are always very interested in my wife's plans for children. Always one of the screening questions. I never really made the connection as to why they would be so concerned but that totally makes sense now.

[onenosbest]

We both got fixed so we would never end up in this situation..

[lauriern]

Yeah, this is one of those weird ideas you hear from guys who want to "breed" their wives to "bulls," particularly black bulls. Or women who should be in therapy and not the lifestyle. It's stupid ideas like this that give swinging a bad name.
If you are really serious, go to a sperm bank where they screen donors.

[lovers]

Yeah, this is one of those weird ideas you hear from guys who want to "breed" their wives to "bulls," particularly black bulls. Or women who should be in therapy and not the lifestyle. It's stupid ideas like this that give swinging a bad name.

It's weird, but you have no idea how many e-mails we get asking if I (the male half of this couple) would "breed" someone's wife. I used to think that this was some sort of kink and the wife was really on the pill or something, but I see all sorts of ads from couples and women who are looking to do this. I can only conclude that some of these are serious.

[Sandy & Allen]

Need I say more! Who wants to get caught up in something like that without even knowing it.!

[lovers]

Need I say more! Who wants to get caught up in something like that without even knowing it.!

One thing to consider. There are guys who don't care because they are only interested in getting their rocks off.

[zebrahead7557]

YUK,YUK,YUK.

As a married woman, that scares me to know that there are sneaky people out there doing this. When have ran into a guy before that kept rambling on about my "genes" & proceeded to ask if I had any kids yet. We told him to get lost.This is one reason why I make sure my husband has 2 to 3 sometimes more condoms on hand before he is with another woman. Also, even though I ALWAYS use condoms, by me not being able to use the pill, I won't have sex when I am ovulating just in case it breaks.