Getting pregnant

[tracy1878]

if i were ever in your shoes, i would never have told who i thought to be the biological father... hubby and I would raise the baby as our own and never breathe a word to anyone. It just opens up too many cans of worms to do this, IMHO. What happens 5, 10 years down the road when the biological father wants visitation, and your other kids see this one leaving without them? just think of everyone around you, you'll have to come out of the closet, so to speak, about your activites. I don't advocate abortion, but if this is going to strain your marriage, perhaps there are other alternatives for you to consider. Have you thought of adoption? I sincerely wish the best for you and your family, and my thoughts are with you.

[snoopy56]

Did anyone stop to think that maybe no one is at fault, since ALL CONDOMS, I don't care what the brand is, fail at the most inopertune moments.


Lets go EAGLES!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by snoopy56

Did anyone stop to think that maybe no one is at fault, since ALL CONDOMS, I don't care what the brand is, fail at the most inopertune moments.

I'm not sure that anyone is blaming anyone, really. The question now is how should this couple handle it?

This really is the "nightmare" scenario that all in the swinging world are either scared to death of or thanking their lucky stars that they are beyond the reach of that damned stork.

Spoomonkey

[BradAndJanet]

I agree with Spoomonkey. Why do you want to put everyone, including this innocent child through all this? Isn't what's happened bad enough?

I know what I would do: raise the child as my own.

-B

[JustAskJulie]

Sorry all - I just did some research that I should have done a long time ago.... it appears that Catherine1962 is a troll - Neil1 incarnate - as seen in this thread. The IP addresses are identical, and like Neil1, Catherine1962 has now been banned as a troll.

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

it appears that Catherine1962 is a troll

I suspected as much - but under the circumstances, it seemed cruel to say anything...

It seems this fellow has a bit of a "kink" for swingers getting preggo...

Spoomonkey

[northindycpl]

Maybe it was destined to be mentioned. i certainly know that spoof or not, it made me recheck my methods of Birth Control, to make sure they were as safe as possible.

Everything happenes for a resons, and it also seems as though a lot of regulars here, spent time thinking of it, and frankly, it isn't something that Mr. Indya nd I have spent a lot of time talking about. It was atleast good for us.

[Mrs Spoomonkey]

That's okay - it got me thinking about it to start another thread. And while this thread was a bit of a wtf are you doing - hopefully the other has couples thinking ahead a little about what they would do in this situation. We all keep STD precautions in front of us and sometimes I think this could be a worse scenerio and yet do we really consider it as much?

Mrs Spoomonkey

Originally Posted by PamsVas

Catherine,

My husband had a girlfriend who was a prostitute way before he met me, she was a working girl who claimed she didn't want to have babies, go figure in the type of business she is in. She wasn't even married to my husband and because he loved her he would worship the ground she walked on. He is like that with me. She was with him for two years prior to his 20th birthday. Right after his birthday she asked him to play a game with her when they were at her clinic.

It was a gambling game, she wanted to see if the woman down the hall could get him in her office and run a sperm count on him, then to perform a vasectomy on him. She wanted to see if this woman was faster then her Doctor on turning patients out. He went down the hall and entered her office. He said I'm here because my girlfriend is down the hall getting checked out. I want to know if you have time to do a sperm count on me and to do a Vasectomy right after that. She said why yes I can and it will all be done in under one hour. She had him sign all the insurance and consent forms.

She did a Vasectomy on him that most Doctors don't do. She removed a huge section of both of his Vas Deferens and cauterized the proximal and distal ends of the Vas Deferens remaining. She was done and said she removed 4" inches from the right and the same from the left Vas Deferens.

He has no Vas Deferens what so ever in his scrotum. She tried to make it totally irreversible, hoping she removed so much that they couldn't do anything about it. She tried hard to throw up a block to another Doctor who might try to reverse it. She told him after performing the vasectomy, your sperm count was huge and you could have got a lot of girls pregnant. Looks like I took care of that the right way sweetie. I was mad, the Doctor never even asked him if he had any babies. it never came up once. He never did have one.

When he left her office, he found her waiting for him, she was finished before the Doctor even started the Vasectomy.

She got pregnant and claimed the baby girl is his, she even yelled it at him in Court when he was fighting for some of his property. The baby is yours.

Get a DNA test, that is what he should have done. He said no.
He said can you imagine the damage all the stupid adults will do to her dragging her back and forth. He said she said she is mine, then she is mine.
Even though she was born 2 years after that huge Vasectomy. He was shooting blanks one week after that operation. She had him give her 3 semen samples prior to giving that operation to him to clean the sperm out of his ejaculatory system. So he would be shooting blanks faster afterwards.

I want to have a baby and we are looking into swinging big time, I actually want approxmately 4 babies. All through swinging.

My man is very wonderful in that way, he said shoot for it. After all look at his history with the prostitute. He doesn't get jealous which really turns me on. He loves me enough that it won't bother him to see me pregnant by another man or couple.

Good luck Catherine with what ever you do.
Talk to him, you did enter this with openess. He did agree, right?

Sincerely

Pam

OMG!!!!! You make it seem like you are only in it to get pregnant by some poor unsuspecting male. I'm curious, do you atleast tell the guys that you want four kids and your hubby cant do it for ya?