Getting pregnant

[HotMoCpl]

Gee whiz! That's too bad. I thank God that my wife is in menopause and I had vasc ??? shoot, I think it was in October of 1975. Sorry, but if you are true to your word, its probably your hubby.
Cheers?

I've been a bad, bad, bad wittle boy. -Elmer Fud

[TexasFun]

I don't post here often, but I recently became pg after having sex with my husband for 11 months-post vacecotmy. We are curious about the livestyle, but have not played so we know it was his. It was quite a shock. Please have you husband go back to his dr and be tested. Things happen--it did in our case.

[jsnps]

Originally Posted by jim-n-nicole

I second Aphrodite in wishing you the very best. Thank you for sharing your story.

Let me say that I have thought about this thread a lot and it has had a very big impact on Nikki and me. I shoot blanks so we had relied on condoms for her in this lifestyle...up until this thread started. Since then, we have been under a temporary oral-only rule until Nikki started birth control pills - which she has now done.

We are now back to our normally scheduled fun.

Is everyone aware of the new Seasonale birth control pills, where you only have a period every third month??? Nikki is ecstatic!

Jim.

Yes, I'm on the ortho evra patch and my obgyn has me doing the same "every third month" pattern due to my severe endometriosis. I hope they won't find out several years from now that this is bad for the body. I sure do love the convenience...

Catherine,
I'm so sorry for you that this happened. As others have said, there is the remote chance that it is your husband's baby. I think it is wonderful that you have decided to have the baby, I have no idea what I'd do under the same circumstances. Best of luck to you, your husband and your baby...

Mrs. JP

[TexasFun]

I just read your earlier post about your husband being tested and was negative. I don't know how I missed that. Sorry that my previous post must not have made sense. Sorry this happened but I am very happy for your choice.

[SNHDave1958]

Catherine,

Yahoo for your decision to keep the baby. Both my kids are in their early 20s now and are the joy of my life. I wish you the same love and joy with this one.

Dave

[PamsVas]

Catherine,

My husband had a girlfriend who was a prostitute way before he met me, she was a working girl who claimed she didn't want to have babies, go figure in the type of business she is in. She wasn't even married to my husband and because he loved her he would worship the ground she walked on. He is like that with me. She was with him for two years prior to his 20th birthday. Right after his birthday she asked him to play a game with her when they were at her clinic.

It was a gambling game, she wanted to see if the woman down the hall could get him in her office and run a sperm count on him, then to perform a vasectomy on him. She wanted to see if this woman was faster then her Doctor on turning patients out. He went down the hall and entered her office. He said I'm here because my girlfriend is down the hall getting checked out. I want to know if you have time to do a sperm count on me and to do a Vasectomy right after that. She said why yes I can and it will all be done in under one hour. She had him sign all the insurance and consent forms.

She did a Vasectomy on him that most Doctors don't do. She removed a huge section of both of his Vas Deferens and cauterized the proximal and distal ends of the Vas Deferens remaining. She was done and said she removed 4" inches from the right and the same from the left Vas Deferens.

He has no Vas Deferens what so ever in his scrotum. She tried to make it totally irreversible, hoping she removed so much that they couldn't do anything about it. She tried hard to throw up a block to another Doctor who might try to reverse it. She told him after performing the vasectomy, your sperm count was huge and you could have got a lot of girls pregnant. Looks like I took care of that the right way sweetie. I was mad, the Doctor never even asked him if he had any babies. it never came up once. He never did have one.

When he left her office, he found her waiting for him, she was finished before the Doctor even started the Vasectomy.

She got pregnant and claimed the baby girl is his, she even yelled it at him in Court when he was fighting for some of his property. The baby is yours.

Get a DNA test, that is what he should have done. He said no.
He said can you imagine the damage all the stupid adults will do to her dragging her back and forth. He said she said she is mine, then she is mine.
Even though she was born 2 years after that huge Vasectomy. He was shooting blanks one week after that operation. She had him give her 3 semen samples prior to giving that operation to him to clean the sperm out of his ejaculatory system. So he would be shooting blanks faster afterwards.

I want to have a baby and we are looking into swinging big time, I actually want approxmately 4 babies. All through swinging.

My man is very wonderful in that way, he said shoot for it. After all look at his history with the prostitute. He doesn't get jealous which really turns me on. He loves me enough that it won't bother him to see me pregnant by another man or couple.

Good luck Catherine with what ever you do.
Talk to him, you did enter this with openess. He did agree, right?

Sincerely

Pam

[jim-n-nicole]

Originally Posted by PamsVas

I want to have a baby and we are looking into swinging big time, I actually want approxmately 4 babies. All through swinging.

Gulp!! I hope you make your partners aware of your desire to get pregnant by them before playtime! Legally, they would be financially responsible for those children if you chose to pursue that at a future date.

And I'm unclear...a clinic did a vasectomy on your (now) husband before he was 21?

Jim.

[Vespertine]

Originally Posted by PamsVas

Catherine,

My husband had a girlfriend who was a prostitute way before he met me, she was a working girl who claimed she didn't want to have babies, go figure in the type of business she is in. She wasn't even married to my husband and because he loved her he would worship the ground she walked on. He is like that with me. She was with him for two years prior to his 20th birthday. Right after his birthday she asked him to play a game with her when they were at her clinic.

It was a gambling game, she wanted to see if the woman down the hall could get him in her office and run a sperm count on him, then to perform a vasectomy on him. She wanted to see if this woman was faster then her Doctor on turning patients out. He went down the hall and entered her office. He said I'm here because my girlfriend is down the hall getting checked out. I want to know if you have time to do a sperm count on me and to do a Vasectomy right after that. She said why yes I can and it will all be done in under one hour. She had him sign all the insurance and consent forms.

She did a Vasectomy on him that most Doctors don't do. She removed a huge section of both of his Vas Deferens and cauterized the proximal and distal ends of the Vas Deferens remaining. She was done and said she removed 4" inches from the right and the same from the left Vas Deferens.

He has no Vas Deferens what so ever in his scrotum. She tried to make it totally irreversible, hoping she removed so much that they couldn't do anything about it. She tried hard to throw up a block to another Doctor who might try to reverse it. She told him after performing the vasectomy, your sperm count was huge and you could have got a lot of girls pregnant. Looks like I took care of that the right way sweetie. I was mad, the Doctor never even asked him if he had any babies. it never came up once. He never did have one.

When he left her office, he found her waiting for him, she was finished before the Doctor even started the Vasectomy.

She got pregnant and claimed the baby girl is his, she even yelled it at him in Court when he was fighting for some of his property. The baby is yours.

Get a DNA test, that is what he should have done. He said no.
He said can you imagine the damage all the stupid adults will do to her dragging her back and forth. He said she said she is mine, then she is mine.
Even though she was born 2 years after that huge Vasectomy. He was shooting blanks one week after that operation. She had him give her 3 semen samples prior to giving that operation to him to clean the sperm out of his ejaculatory system. So he would be shooting blanks faster afterwards.

I want to have a baby and we are looking into swinging big time, I actually want approxmately 4 babies. All through swinging.

My man is very wonderful in that way, he said shoot for it. After all look at his history with the prostitute. He doesn't get jealous which really turns me on. He loves me enough that it won't bother him to see me pregnant by another man or couple.

Good luck Catherine with what ever you do.
Talk to him, you did enter this with openess. He did agree, right?

Sincerely

Pam

I'm sorry, but this entire post smells like TROLL.

I really, truly hope it is.

I can't believe somewhere (no matter how long ago) there is a clinic that is giving young, unmarried men vasectomies, without an appointment, in less than an hour...and purposely making sure they're irreversible.

Puh-leeze.

And if this isn't a Troll....

Originally Posted by jim-n-nicole

Gulp!! I hope you make your partners aware of your desire to get pregnant by them before playtime! Legally, they would be financially responsible for those children if you chose to pursue that at a future date.

I agree wholeheartedly with Jim.

Make sure all parties involved know what they're getting into.

[Aphrodite]

I urge PamVas to rethink her deception...why not go to a sperm bank first?At the very least, you need to inform any potential partners of your intent.And, another thing...if you really are into swinging as much as it sounds...4 children are going to put some restraint on that if you intend to be an involved parent. I have 4 children and they come first...try to remember that when the time comes.{Hopefully,swinging will definitely go to the back burner when you have children,especially when they're small.!!} That's not to say you can't do it, but you will need a seriously reliable babysitter,be prepared!!

[jim-n-nicole]

Originally Posted by Vespertine

I'm sorry, but this entire post smells like TROLL.

That was my first reaction too, Vespertine. And actually I still lean towards that theory at this point.

But I was absolutely certain about 3 months ago that someone in here was jerking my chain and someone privately convinced me to give them the benefit of the doubt (you know who you are). It later turned out to be the truth!

Therefore, at the risk of looking gullible, I now presume innocence until I have proof otherwise. Very strange things happen in this world....

[Vespertine]

Originally Posted by jim-n-nicole

Therefore, at the risk of looking gullible, I now presume innocence until I have proof otherwise. Very strange things happen in this world....

You're absolutely right. Strange things do happen in this world.

But.....

Three hot button topics in one post? Devious prostitutes, plans to get impregnated (multiple times) by future swing partners and unethical, drive-thru vasectomies?

C'mon.

You make a good point, however. Everyone should be given the benefit of doubt. The only alternative I can think of is that her husband isn't quite telling her the truth about his vasectomy. Usually people lie for a reason. Why would one have to come up with an elaborate vasectomy tale? 4 inches cut from his vas deferens? The normal amount removed during a routine vasectomy is between 1 and 3 cm. Sometimes doctors MAY take as much as half an inch. But four?

[conniekutie]

I was involved with a swinging older married couple. They had 3 kids all teenagers. They had a hottub party at their house one night and told all 3 kids to stay in their rooms or else...anyway, they were teenagers, and of course one of them didn't. He was 14 at the time, and ended up having his first time that night with one of the women there. She was like 20 I think, but it turnd out that about a month later, the woman finds out shes pregnant (about a month along).....I lost touch with them all before they could have a paternity test done...but it was just a HUGE screwed up mess. My point here I guess is, adding kids to the mix can mess up the swinging in my opinion.

[Vespertine]

Originally Posted by conniekutie

I was involved with a swinging older married couple. They had 3 kids all teenagers. They had a hottub party at their house one night and told all 3 kids to stay in their rooms or else...anyway, they were teenagers, and of course one of them didn't. He was 14 at the time, and ended up having his first time that night with one of the women there.

Surely you jest?

Is this a test to see if I can control my impulses?

[DBL D]

Catherine1962,

1st of all, I hope everything goes well for you. I am very happy your hub has said you can keep it (Like you wouldn't have a say in that.)

DNA test for sure, just to ease your mind as to the parentage. Did you check out whom you were playing with when you conceived?

As far as having a vasectomy goes...I made damn sure the Doc showed me the smarmy worms he'd just snipped as soon as he did them; had him place them in a jar and showed them to Fem D when I got home. I looked into the wound to see the severance. I saw him tie the knots. And the most important thing (after I asked him if I could photograph the procedure-and he politely turned me down) was to tell my wife what I witnessed. I can't believe someone would say they'd had a V-job and then purposefully "impregnate" his wife then deny it could have been him. What would be the purpose of such a lie?

BTW, this is just another reason to not use condoms. Not only is the risk of getting a disease (From Swingers) is extremely minimal, when you wear a hat you think everything is cool. "Ooops Honey, Sorry. My hat got "wet" and I guess my vas wasn't so bullet proof after all!" Maybe the guys should just always pull out.

Did I miss something...Why have you decided to not use birth control Catherine1962?

Male D

[jim-n-nicole]

@ Vespertine

Okay, I'm about to declare this the wildest thread yet.

The 14yo/20yo story sounds fairly close to the 20 Questions interview with Dustin Hoffman in this month's Playboy....though not exact. He said when he was 15, he lost his virginity at his parent's house to a 20yo named Barbara who, in the darkness, thought he was his brother. You'll have to buy the magazine to get the details.

Jim.