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those of you who have followed our posts know we are very adventurous and sexually focust (probably a little too oversexed!), and we're very open about our sexuality.....but we've never been real "swingers." obviously the three of us can and do play both together and separately in any combination, and weve had many sexy encounters with neighbors and friends, but always together. what i am trying to say is that there have always been limits...todd has never been free to stick it up any skirt he likes. you might also remember that my dear hubby is in england right now, due to return in the spring (april or may). and after a long discussion we all agreed that hes to be on his best behavior over there....no dipping his ladle in the local wells!

its only been six weeks and its killing him, frankly. so, in return for keeping his whistle dry over there, anna and i have come up with the biggest reward we could think of....a welcome home party like hes only dreamed of: a "bottomless" party! i think it is genius naughtiness....invite as many of our "open minded" girlfriends over to the house as will "cum" ...with a strict dress code: nothing i mean nothing covering between the belly button to mid way down the thighs, front sides and back. no garters, fishnet, NOTHING. and todd will be free to fuck anybody he wants, wherever he wants, whenever he wants, all night long. (if SHE consents too, of course, no still means no). his own personal harem for one night. todd has NEVER had an opportunity like this before in his life!

we're shooting for at least 8 to 10 girls, plus anna and i. whats amazing is how receptive our friends have been. out of the girls we told about it so far, ive only gotten one definite no, along with one very enthusiastic yes and three maybes. two of those are 'ill have to think about it' and one is a maybe for only logistical reasons. the yes came from the 55 yo stylist anna and i go to. shes met todd like three times but shes all in! freak it, girl!

ok, now that ive blabbed on and on about how cool this is, i have two questions:

1. should bareback be allowed, or will he have keep his coat and hat on? weve always used protection outside of our poly unit, and it is really nice to not have nagging worries about aids and all the nasty other strains out there, and it might be a requirement for some of the girls anyway. in fact, i think i had assumed everyone involved would want that. our 'definite yes' asked the question, and i had not considered it. but its supposed to be a fantasy cum true for hubby. what say all of you?

2. my younger sister said she'd love to do it but only if my brother in law can also be in on the party. now, before you go all weird about the sister thing, we (todd and i) already did a same-room swap with them that lasted about three days, so that's not the issue. the question is about having any other guys there. i know todd would love to have another crack at my sis, and an additional guy or two might keep things lively and make sure all the hens leave satisfied, but that kinda changes things and he'll have plenty of other sweets to sample if i have anything to say about it. i know that todd isnt all insecure about having other guys around, but i think that might take away from the real-life fantasy of having all that bitch-flesh around strictly for his pleasure. i dont want this to turn into a free-for-all orgy. this is about making todd feel special.

we planned to keep it under wraps, but anna told him last night on skype what we have in store for him so as to encourage him but i think it backfired. i thought his brain might explode. todd said he was already distracted by all the british "birds" around now wont be able to pay attention to his training for one minute the rest of the time! i dont know who is more excited, him or me. ill keep you all updated as it approaches ...but its going to be a LOOOONG winter!
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Yes, I think it's a great gift. Hopefully Todd will appreciate it as much as you are putting into it.
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Sounds like one hell of a welcome home that is for sure!

As for your questions. Condom use is really up to everyone there. I would suggest that you let the ladies decide and they can tell him when it is appropriate. I would think that if I was in that position I would elect to use condoms at all times, if for no other reason, to keep my stamina up. As for your sister, that is pretty much up to you.

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If my wife were to be involved in this, she would insist on Todd wearing a condom when he was having sex with her.

I think the rule about gang bangs will probably apply to this party as well; invite 10, get 5 (or less). If you want 8 to 10 ladies there, including yourself and Anna, you're probably going to need to get 12 definite confirmations from ladies wanting to come. That's a tall order

My wife might be game for something like that (and we're actually close enough to you), but she'd want to spend a bit of time with him first to get to know him at least a little bit. That doesn't sound like an option in this case, since he's overseas at the moment. I'd think many women would have a similar outlook on this. So, you'll have the best success among women that know Todd already. Finding 12 agreeable women among that group? You've got your work cut out for you

This isn't impossible certainly. It's been done before.
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Sounds like a great gift.

Did I mention I've got a birthday coming up in December??
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update: yes, we did manage to pull it off with five women including the two of us and we all fucked him bareback. but there is more to the story from there!!!....todd wrote the whole night l up in detail and submitted it to swinger stories a couple of days ago. he really did a good job but i dont know how long it will take to show up.
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update: yes, we did manage to pull it off with five women including the two of us and we all fucked him bareback. but there is more to the story from there!!!....todd wrote the whole night l up in detail and submitted it to swinger stories a couple of days ago. he really did a good job but i dont know how long it will take to show up.
Congratulations That's one hell of a welcome back to the U.S. I'm very happy for you all that it worked out so well! So, was your younger sister in on it too or no?
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Congratulations That's one hell of a welcome back to the U.S. I'm very happy for you all that it worked out so well! So, was your younger sister in on it too or no?
yes, she was in fact, she and her husband hosted it and she brought a friend...a very sexy frend.
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Awesome story!!! I loved every minute of it. You're definitely my Hero.
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Reading this story totally turned me on. The idea of a bottomless party sounds creative and so sexy, and the idea of you plowing all those pussies sounds like something I would have loved to have watched (and I am speaking as a gay man). I just like the feeling of hedonism (yet controlled hedonism with the dress code) and freedom that seeped through your story.

It's too bad that one couple had to ruin part of the evening, but you gotta take the bad with the good sometimes.

If you have any more fun parties in the future, I do hope you will post.
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Thank you so much! I'm not sure if we can ever top that weekend, but it sure has given us an appetite for more like it.
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"my younger sister said she'd love to do it but only if my brother in law can also be in on the party. now, before you go all weird about the sister thing, we (todd and i) already did a same-room swap with them that lasted about three days"

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it was a summer houseboat rental that got hotter than we thought....
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