Mixed poly/swinging vacation situation (need advice) - Page 3

ncmd_couple · 01-22-2010, 10:49 AM

Sorry for taking so long to reply to your post.

The fact that Claire is still communicating through you is a sign of respect. Several times I have read where the playmate starts talking to a spouse and cuts the other out of the loop and things get bumpy. So, though it good for you to offer direct communications, enjoy the comfort of knowing that she respects you enough to not do so.

S

couplers · 02-19-2010, 11:10 AM

Hi, this is Petra. I feel compelled to give an update because of how this has gone farther than with hubby's previous partners, but I promise this will be my last post on this.

Clair called yesterday and asked if I would have some time soon for just the two of us to get together, if that was OK with me. (She always says, "If that's OK with you." Damn, girl, everything you want is OK with me.) "Alone?" "Yes." "You mean alone alone just the two of us, or meet somewhere for lunch?" Clair said, "Your place or mine." I said, "Ah, how soon?" and she said, "At noon." My house is closer for both of us.

It was what my sister used to disparagingly refer to as "Lezzie action." Nothing out of the ordinary, I guess, but a lot of first time stuff for Clair on the giving end and me on the receiving side (from a girl, anyway). Before this she let me lick her and fondle her as part of her play with hubby, but didn't want to do that to me (which was totally fine with me). She really jumped into it hard and fast, a mixture of proving herself (I think) and that we had to get back to work. We both came hard. Couldn't wait to tell hubby last night and looking forward to what has become our usual Sunday afternoon threesome.

xxxboxy · 02-19-2010, 07:29 PM

Don't stop with the story!

ncmd_couple · 02-19-2010, 08:01 PM

Hmmm.... I wonder why you feel that this is going to be your last post on this topic. It doesn't have ta' be. That is what this site is all about, sharing, questioning, and learning.

S

bbarnsworth · 02-19-2010, 08:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by couplers

Hi, this is Petra. I feel compelled to give an update because of how this has gone farther than with hubby's previous partners, but I promise this will be my last post on this.

Can I beg you to break that promise please? Pretty please?

Your posts here on any subject are always welcome. Keep it coming!

Additude · 02-20-2010, 07:40 AM

Making that your last post is irresponsible, un-needed and uncalled for. Please carry on.

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01-22-2010, 10:49 AM	#31 (permalink)
ncmd_couple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 2,252 Location: North Carolina Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ncmd_couple	Re: Mixed poly/swinging vacation situation (need advice) Sorry for taking so long to reply to your post. The fact that Claire is still communicating through you is a sign of respect. Several times I have read where the playmate starts talking to a spouse and cuts the other out of the loop and things get bumpy. So, though it good for you to offer direct communications, enjoy the comfort of knowing that she respects you enough to not do so. S
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02-19-2010, 11:10 AM	#32 (permalink)
couplers Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 368 Location: Memphis, Tennessee Status: couple	Re: Mixed poly/swinging vacation situation (need advice) Hi, this is Petra. I feel compelled to give an update because of how this has gone farther than with hubby's previous partners, but I promise this will be my last post on this. Clair called yesterday and asked if I would have some time soon for just the two of us to get together, if that was OK with me. (She always says, "If that's OK with you." Damn, girl, everything you want is OK with me.) "Alone?" "Yes." "You mean alone alone just the two of us, or meet somewhere for lunch?" Clair said, "Your place or mine." I said, "Ah, how soon?" and she said, "At noon." My house is closer for both of us. It was what my sister used to disparagingly refer to as "Lezzie action." Nothing out of the ordinary, I guess, but a lot of first time stuff for Clair on the giving end and me on the receiving side (from a girl, anyway). Before this she let me lick her and fondle her as part of her play with hubby, but didn't want to do that to me (which was totally fine with me). She really jumped into it hard and fast, a mixture of proving herself (I think) and that we had to get back to work. We both came hard. Couldn't wait to tell hubby last night and looking forward to what has become our usual Sunday afternoon threesome.

02-19-2010, 07:29 PM	#33 (permalink)
xxxboxy Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2009 Posts: 360 Location: Near Seattle Status: Male half of couple Swing Lifestyle Name:xxxboxy	Re: Mixed poly/swinging vacation situation (need advice) Don't stop with the story!

02-19-2010, 08:01 PM	#34 (permalink)
ncmd_couple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 2,252 Location: North Carolina Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ncmd_couple	Re: Mixed poly/swinging vacation situation (need advice) Hmmm.... I wonder why you feel that this is going to be your last post on this topic. It doesn't have ta' be. That is what this site is all about, sharing, questioning, and learning. S
	__________________ Try anything once, twice if it is fun, three times if it is real good!

02-20-2010, 07:40 AM	#36 (permalink)
Additude Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 623 Location: OBX-NC	Re: Mixed poly/swinging vacation situation (need advice) Making that your last post is irresponsible, un-needed and uncalled for. Please carry on.
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