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Former Lovers

This is a discussion on Former Lovers within the Polyamory & Swinging forums, part of the Swingers Topics category; Have any of you had a lover from the past come back into your life then formed a poly V ...

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Old 12-29-2008, 11:34 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Have any of you had a lover from the past come back into your life then formed a poly V relationship? How did it work out? Were there any hurdles that you have to overcome? Do you have any tips or pointers for someone starting down that road?

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I tend to follow the school of thought that "You can never go home again". I think there are reasons that relationships end, and trying to start something again might not be sensible in light of a current relationship.

Man, life and relationships are hard enough without trying to revisit the past.

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We haven't had this situation, though if it happened with one of Mrs. old lovers came back into the picture and she was okay with him than I would be too. And with several of my old lovers Mrs. would be okay also. But like avid, for Mrs. WS when she end a relationship it's over.

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The relationship didn't "end," several thousand miles of distance put it in limbo.
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The relationship didn't "end," several thousand miles of distance put it in limbo.
Were all three of you in a relationship together? Or was this prior to your relationship?
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The relationship didn't "end," several thousand miles of distance put it in limbo.
So, is your relationship out of limbo, or has a chance of coming out of limbo in the near future?
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Honestly, I don't know.
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