Who are Poly Folks Here?

gatorvol64 · 02-03-2009, 01:03 PM

Thank you all for the well wishes regarding our anniversary. Things are good for us. I shared a good thing in my blog if you are interested in reading those.

Vol

rdy46227 · 02-03-2009, 04:17 PM

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Originally Posted by pants_1

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So that's where I am.

Thanks for the update.

The road to poly is seldom straight and has no clear ending.

Many both of you have a prosperous journey.

**ncmd_couple** · 02-03-2009, 07:43 PM

Jon,

You guys just need to step back and start talking. I never intended to give you any flack about what was going on, life happens. I am one that knows when life gets out of sync. But one boyfriend and another one in the wings, doesn't sound like her sex drive is less than yours. You guys are just out of sync and have other issues.

S

pants_1 · 02-03-2009, 08:09 PM

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pants_1 · 02-03-2009, 09:06 PM

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slevin · 02-04-2009, 07:14 AM

I hope it all works out for you; I have to admit though some of the parallels to 'that other thread' that you were pointed to are pretty striking. Not necessarily in how the events have unfolded, but rather in your reaction to the advice/perspectives given. I'm certainly not trying to convince you you're wrong here, you have more information than we do about the situation and can be a better judge of things. Personally I think this is going to end up blowing up in your face soon, or slowly emerging as a source of pain for you.

I would have thought by now you'd have seen that while many here may disagree with the way you've chosen to handle it, no one is going to be disrespectful about it.

slevin · 02-04-2009, 07:19 AM

And...I should probably read to the end of the thread before replying lol.

SnBinDFWtx · 02-25-2009, 11:10 PM

We have discussed 'what if' regarding entering a poly relationship, from both angles. Single man or single woman, even possibly another couple. We really enjoyed partying with the group of people we used to know. Comfortable. We would enjoy experiencing a regular intimate relationship with a woman or couple. S, being straight, doesn't feel threatened if we did have another guy interested. Would be strictly platonic for him.

Trouble is finding that single someone who is really open to exploring this kind of relationship. We dont really know a reliable source or forum/website to inquire really.

Oh, for those who may also like to know. we're pagan as well.

toycple · 02-26-2009, 09:24 AM

We know the feeling, we have had the same problem for a while now.

AshNFiona · 04-04-2009, 06:06 PM

We are married for 30 years. Started swinging 7 years ago. We've had two poly relationships in this period. During the relationships we didn't swing outside.

The first was with a divorced lady Liz we knew. The three of us lived together for a year, usually sleeping in one bed. Fiona and Liz are bi and had plenty of fun with each other. Liz then had to move to another city for her family reasons.

The second was with a couple. We didn't live together but spent weekends together. Sometimes we exchanged spouses for a few days, so that Fiona went to stay with him and his wife Sue came to me. Each of us guys regarded the two ladies as our two wives, and each of them regarded us equally as two husbands. That lasted about 18 months. We then had an amicable parting when they had to move away. Before that we had talked about moving in together and unite our two marriages into one relationship of four people. But that was not to be then. May be in the future ...

Ash (hubby, well one hubby, of Fiona!)

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02-03-2009, 01:03 PM	#31 (permalink)
gatorvol64 Retired Mod Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,402 Location: Florida Status: Married Couple & half of a quad Blog Entries: 21	Re: Who are Poly Folks Here? Thank you all for the well wishes regarding our anniversary. Things are good for us. I shared a good thing in my blog if you are interested in reading those. Vol __________________ He is the Gator and she is the Vol.

02-03-2009, 07:43 PM	#33 (permalink)
ncmd_couple Julie's Helper Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 2,023 Location: North Carolina Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ncmd_couple	Re: Who are Poly Folks Here? Jon, You guys just need to step back and start talking. I never intended to give you any flack about what was going on, life happens. I am one that knows when life gets out of sync. But one boyfriend and another one in the wings, doesn't sound like her sex drive is less than yours. You guys are just out of sync and have other issues. S __________________ Try anything once, twice if it is fun, three times if it is real good!

02-03-2009, 08:09 PM	#34 (permalink)
pants_1 Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 50 Location: ... Status: ...	Re: Who are Poly Folks Here? [redacted] Last edited by pants_1 : 02-03-2009 at 09:50 PM. Reason: advice of a moderator

02-03-2009, 09:06 PM	#35 (permalink)
pants_1 Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2009 Posts: 50 Location: ... Status: ...	Re: Who are Poly Folks Here? [redacted] Last edited by pants_1 : 02-03-2009 at 09:50 PM. Reason: advice of a moderator

02-04-2009, 07:14 AM	#36 (permalink)
slevin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 611 Location: Toronto Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:sk_forfun	Re: Who are Poly Folks Here? I hope it all works out for you; I have to admit though some of the parallels to 'that other thread' that you were pointed to are pretty striking. Not necessarily in how the events have unfolded, but rather in your reaction to the advice/perspectives given. I'm certainly not trying to convince you you're wrong here, you have more information than we do about the situation and can be a better judge of things. Personally I think this is going to end up blowing up in your face soon, or slowly emerging as a source of pain for you. I would have thought by now you'd have seen that while many here may disagree with the way you've chosen to handle it, no one is going to be disrespectful about it.

02-04-2009, 07:19 AM	#37 (permalink)
slevin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 611 Location: Toronto Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:sk_forfun	Re: Who are Poly Folks Here? And...I should probably read to the end of the thread before replying lol.

02-25-2009, 11:10 PM	#38 (permalink)
SnBinDFWtx Registered Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 9 Location: Dallas / Fort Worth Area Status: Couple Blog Entries: 1	Re: Who are Poly Folks Here? We have discussed 'what if' regarding entering a poly relationship, from both angles. Single man or single woman, even possibly another couple. We really enjoyed partying with the group of people we used to know. Comfortable. We would enjoy experiencing a regular intimate relationship with a woman or couple. S, being straight, doesn't feel threatened if we did have another guy interested. Would be strictly platonic for him. Trouble is finding that single someone who is really open to exploring this kind of relationship. We dont really know a reliable source or forum/website to inquire really. Oh, for those who may also like to know. we're pagan as well. Last edited by SnBinDFWtx : 02-25-2009 at 11:15 PM.

02-26-2009, 09:24 AM	#39 (permalink)
toycple Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 84 Location: Lake Worth, Texas Status: Married Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:toycple	Re: Who are Poly Folks Here? We know the feeling, we have had the same problem for a while now.

04-04-2009, 06:06 PM	#40 (permalink)
AshNFiona Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2001 Posts: 22 Location: U.K. (Manchester) Status: Couple	Re: Who are Poly Folks Here? We are married for 30 years. Started swinging 7 years ago. We've had two poly relationships in this period. During the relationships we didn't swing outside. The first was with a divorced lady Liz we knew. The three of us lived together for a year, usually sleeping in one bed. Fiona and Liz are bi and had plenty of fun with each other. Liz then had to move to another city for her family reasons. The second was with a couple. We didn't live together but spent weekends together. Sometimes we exchanged spouses for a few days, so that Fiona went to stay with him and his wife Sue came to me. Each of us guys regarded the two ladies as our two wives, and each of them regarded us equally as two husbands. That lasted about 18 months. We then had an amicable parting when they had to move away. Before that we had talked about moving in together and unite our two marriages into one relationship of four people. But that was not to be then. May be in the future ... Ash (hubby, well one hubby, of Fiona!)

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