Wow... and Wow!

SnozzberryBlu · 12-22-2007, 05:20 PM

Well... hmmm..

My hubby and I hung out here a while in 04/05, loved swingersboard, thought this was just the mecca of information for anyone in the lifestyle. Then something weird happend to us... polyamory

Somewhere around the time that we met our SOs, someone had posted a general statement in one of the other SB forums asking about polyamory. The response was not too positive. So.. there we were with this new thing going on, the people at our club were acting funny about/around us, we generally felt like "freaky people" ... and well life in general got busy as hell. So we didn't post anymore.

Last night we met with a guy (and his new wife) that we were friends with in college -- who found us on SB, lol... so I came back, re-read some of our old posts, and then scanned the forums.. and found this one! Oh WOW!

Thank you SB for creating this area. We never intended to be where we are now, and it may be forever, or we may eventually move in a different direction. I am not even sure if we were um "single" that it would even happen again... as the lifestyle has always been our main focus. This was more sort of an ambush... we never saw it coming.

I haven't read a lot of the board, so I am hoping (assuming?) that posters in this forum are comfortable here, and posting away as if this were any old internet BBoard. I do hope I am right. I have so missed this place.

Again, thank you SB for creating this.. without it, we might only have read some posts today and moved on again.

rpu3 · 12-22-2007, 05:26 PM

Welcome back.

The Board, overall, has become quite friendly towards all sorts of alternative sex arrangements/relationships, and it's nice to have a place to go if you are in alternative arrangements in addition to swinging, or swinging has lead you elsewhere.

I hope you'll post - new viewpoints keep the Board going IMO!

**BiloxiCouple** · 12-22-2007, 05:36 PM

Glad to see ya'll back. Yeah, life does get busy as hell sometimes. We haven't been to CE's often because of school and health reason.

Say hi to your other half for us if ya'll are still together.

**fun4Ds** · 12-22-2007, 05:55 PM

hey, welcome back

thanks for some info as to what has been going on. great to hear positive things this time of year.

happy holidays from both of us.

Spoomonkey · 12-22-2007, 06:01 PM

Welcome back, Snozz!

We've not been "ambushed" as of yet, so I don't visit the poly threads much, but I am glad to see that you've returned!

Hope all is well and the "surprise" has been an entirely pleasant one

Spoomonkey

Mrs Spoomonkey · 12-22-2007, 07:10 PM

back. Glad you decided to pop back in and plan to stay. I'm sure you can have some positive input for this forum as well as elsewhere on the board.

Mrs Spoomonkey

sweet_tna · 12-22-2007, 07:14 PM

Welcome back!

=)

SnozzberryBlu · 12-22-2007, 07:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BiloxiCouple

Say hi to your other half for us if ya'll are still together.

We are.. and we will

SnozzberryBlu · 12-22-2007, 07:27 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

Welcome back, Snozz!

We've not been "ambushed" as of yet, so I don't visit the poly threads much, but I am glad to see that you've returned!
Hope all is well and the "surprise" has been an entirely pleasant one

Spoomonkey

So far it's been complex, interesting, fun, exciting, crazy, eye opening and definitely gives you a whole new perspective on both yourself and your "first" relationship. Wouldn't trade it for anything

And thank you... missed you guys a lot!

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mrs Spoomonkey

back. Glad you decided to pop back in and plan to stay. I'm sure you can have some positive input for this forum as well as elsewhere on the board.
Mrs Spoomonkey

Thank you! I hope so.. else shut me up and send me packing, eh?

SnozzberryBlu · 12-22-2007, 07:28 PM

Thank you everyone for the warm welcome back and all the Luuuuvvvv lol!

LikeMinds321 · 12-22-2007, 07:36 PM

Hi Snozz!

When I saw you online today I lit up because I haven't seen you here in a long while.

You did some great posting when you were here before and I look forward to seeing you post regularly again.

....back.

LM

***JustAskJulie*** · 12-22-2007, 10:51 PM

Welcome Back!! So good to see you again!

SnozzberryBlu · 12-23-2007, 11:26 AM

Thank you!! Now I just have to get my typing fingers a lil oiled up lol

It's also good to see that there are still a lot of people here we knew. I have been on several boards before (not lifestyle) and the membership tends to turn over quite frequently. Must be the lifestyle... lol

TheDeal · 12-25-2007, 03:30 AM

SnozzberryBlu, is there a thread where you tell your poly story? If not, do you think you might post it? Sorry for all the questions, but my wife and I are in a quad (newly formed and was quite a surprise) and would love to hear, er uh...read your story!

Thanks!

VanHlebar · 12-25-2007, 09:53 AM

Hey Snozz...welcome back to the board. MrsVan and I weren't around in '04/'05 so guess we don't know ya

but we are looking forward to getting to know you.

The whole poly thing intrigues me for some reason. Not that we are looking for something like this at all, but just the dynamics of the situation and all the complexities that it brings. I have a hard enough time with one relationship, can't imagine more than one.

You mentioned when "we" met our SOs, so do both you and your husband/SO have secondaries?

-Van

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12-22-2007, 05:20 PM	#1 (permalink)
SnozzberryBlu Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 98 Location: South Mississippi Status: M.Female Swing Lifestyle Name:http://SnozzberryBlu.swinglifestyle.com	Wow... and Wow! Well... hmmm.. My hubby and I hung out here a while in 04/05, loved swingersboard, thought this was just the mecca of information for anyone in the lifestyle. Then something weird happend to us... polyamory Somewhere around the time that we met our SOs, someone had posted a general statement in one of the other SB forums asking about polyamory. The response was not too positive. So.. there we were with this new thing going on, the people at our club were acting funny about/around us, we generally felt like "freaky people" ... and well life in general got busy as hell. So we didn't post anymore. Last night we met with a guy (and his new wife) that we were friends with in college -- who found us on SB, lol... so I came back, re-read some of our old posts, and then scanned the forums.. and found this one! Oh WOW! Thank you SB for creating this area. We never intended to be where we are now, and it may be forever, or we may eventually move in a different direction. I am not even sure if we were um "single" that it would even happen again... as the lifestyle has always been our main focus. This was more sort of an ambush... we never saw it coming. I haven't read a lot of the board, so I am hoping (assuming?) that posters in this forum are comfortable here, and posting away as if this were any old internet BBoard. I do hope I am right. I have so missed this place. Again, thank you SB for creating this.. without it, we might only have read some posts today and moved on again.
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12-22-2007, 05:26 PM	#2 (permalink)
rpu3 Doing it our way... Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 3,273 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female Swing Lifestyle Name:rpu3	Re: Wow... and Wow! Welcome back. The Board, overall, has become quite friendly towards all sorts of alternative sex arrangements/relationships, and it's nice to have a place to go if you are in alternative arrangements in addition to swinging, or swinging has lead you elsewhere. I hope you'll post - new viewpoints keep the Board going IMO!
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12-22-2007, 05:36 PM	#3 (permalink)
BiloxiCouple Julie's Helper Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 4,002 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits and retired Swing Lifestyle Name:graceful	Re: Wow... and Wow! Glad to see ya'll back. Yeah, life does get busy as hell sometimes. We haven't been to CE's often because of school and health reason. Say hi to your other half for us if ya'll are still together.
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12-22-2007, 05:55 PM	#4 (permalink)
fun4Ds Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 6,487 Location: Behind door #2 Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mrmrsfun	Re: Wow... and Wow! hey, welcome back thanks for some info as to what has been going on. great to hear positive things this time of year. happy holidays from both of us.

12-22-2007, 06:01 PM	#5 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,739 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? Swing Lifestyle Name:Spoomonkey	Re: Wow... and Wow! Welcome back, Snozz! We've not been "ambushed" as of yet, so I don't visit the poly threads much, but I am glad to see that you've returned! Hope all is well and the "surprise" has been an entirely pleasant one Spoomonkey
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12-22-2007, 07:10 PM	#6 (permalink)
Mrs Spoomonkey Disney!All rides are open Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 1,758 Location: Ohio Status: Married Swing Lifestyle Name:spoomonkey	Re: Wow... and Wow! back. Glad you decided to pop back in and plan to stay. I'm sure you can have some positive input for this forum as well as elsewhere on the board. Mrs Spoomonkey
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12-22-2007, 07:14 PM	#7 (permalink)
sweet_tna Being good is overrated Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 4,221 Location: Poconos, PA Status: The boss of Mr. Sweet Swing Lifestyle Name:Sweet_tna	Re: Wow... and Wow! Welcome back! =)
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12-22-2007, 07:28 PM	#10 (permalink)
SnozzberryBlu Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 98 Location: South Mississippi Status: M.Female Swing Lifestyle Name:http://SnozzberryBlu.swinglifestyle.com	Re: Wow... and Wow! Thank you everyone for the warm welcome back and all the Luuuuvvvv lol!
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12-22-2007, 07:36 PM	#11 (permalink)
LikeMinds321 I'll think about it Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 10,099 Location: With Wild Things Status: Married Female	Re: Wow... and Wow! Hi Snozz! When I saw you online today I lit up because I haven't seen you here in a long while. You did some great posting when you were here before and I look forward to seeing you post regularly again. ....back. LM

12-22-2007, 10:51 PM	#12 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,288 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Re: Wow... and Wow! Welcome Back!! So good to see you again!
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12-23-2007, 11:26 AM	#13 (permalink)
SnozzberryBlu Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 98 Location: South Mississippi Status: M.Female Swing Lifestyle Name:http://SnozzberryBlu.swinglifestyle.com	Re: Wow... and Wow! Thank you!! Now I just have to get my typing fingers a lil oiled up lol It's also good to see that there are still a lot of people here we knew. I have been on several boards before (not lifestyle) and the membership tends to turn over quite frequently. Must be the lifestyle... lol
	__________________ ---- "Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not sure about the former." - Einstein

12-25-2007, 03:30 AM	#14 (permalink)
TheDeal Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 89 Location: Texas Status: Couple	Re: Wow... and Wow! SnozzberryBlu, is there a thread where you tell your poly story? If not, do you think you might post it? Sorry for all the questions, but my wife and I are in a quad (newly formed and was quite a surprise) and would love to hear, er uh...read your story! Thanks!
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12-25-2007, 09:53 AM	#15 (permalink)
VanHlebar Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 711 Location: Here Status: S	Re: Wow... and Wow! Hey Snozz...welcome back to the board. MrsVan and I weren't around in '04/'05 so guess we don't know ya but we are looking forward to getting to know you. The whole poly thing intrigues me for some reason. Not that we are looking for something like this at all, but just the dynamics of the situation and all the complexities that it brings. I have a hard enough time with one relationship, can't imagine more than one. You mentioned when "we" met our SOs, so do both you and your husband/SO have secondaries? -Van

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