POLY Marriage!?!?!?

Twolovers01 · 06-19-2007, 03:46 PM

We have toyed with the Idea of getting "MARRIED" to our poly partners. I have attempted to research this to no avail!!!

We are wondering if anyone has done it or has any great ideas for doing it.

WE know it won't be a legal marriage.

We aren't concearned with the legality of it. More of a show of respect, care and admiration for our poly partners!!!

sexyshelby · 06-19-2007, 05:41 PM

If this is something you want to do, then do it!

Just out of curiousity, is this a triad or do you each have separate partners that you want to "marry"?

~SS

Twolovers01 · 06-19-2007, 07:04 PM

our OSO are husband and wife

Tia Vampire · 06-19-2007, 07:42 PM

We vote, don't care. If you can find four people that can be in a relationship where you all care, respect, commit, and love one another, we say go for it. The best of luck and I hope it all works up.

Menage_a_Trois · 06-19-2007, 10:19 PM

You might read on the following links about handfasting and committment ceremonies................

http://www.polychromatic.com/handfasting.html

Handfastings and Wedding Rituals - http://www.amazon.com/Handfasting-We.../dp/0738704709 - One chapter in this book "Handfastings and Wedding Rituals" contains a ceremony for a polyamorous group wedding.

http://polyamory.tribe.net/thread/76...6-85a78ccbee3e

http://community.livejournal.com/polyamory/1961867.html

well thats a start............I would just suggest you let your creativity flow and see where it takes you.

Good luck.

The Other Mrs. Menage

Twolovers01 · 06-21-2007, 04:51 PM

Thanks for the info!!!

Twolovers01 · 06-27-2007, 07:50 PM

Hey eveyone. Looking for some more posts here!!! we would love to hear everyones opinions and comments on the idea of poly marriages.

I would especially love to hear from those of you who are voting where do we sign up....

Menage_a_Trois · 06-28-2007, 12:33 AM

Well we voted for it obviously. For us we view our relationship as a marriage between the three of us already - we just have never had the ceremony to make it unoffically offical..................

if that made sense lol
Haven't really ever thought about the ceremony part - I'm not much of a day dreamer

and I've never had a wedding before so it's not something I think about much.

The Other Mrs. Menage

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06-19-2007, 03:46 PM	#1 (permalink)
Twolovers01 Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 27 Location: Michigan Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:twolovers69	POLY Marriage!?!?!? We have toyed with the Idea of getting "MARRIED" to our poly partners. I have attempted to research this to no avail!!! We are wondering if anyone has done it or has any great ideas for doing it. WE know it won't be a legal marriage. We aren't concearned with the legality of it. More of a show of respect, care and admiration for our poly partners!!!

06-19-2007, 05:41 PM	#2 (permalink)
sexyshelby It's not easy being easy. Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 2,012 Location: In Bed Status: Person	Re: POLY Marriage!?!?!? If this is something you want to do, then do it! Just out of curiousity, is this a triad or do you each have separate partners that you want to "marry"? ~SS
	__________________ What's love got to do with it?

06-19-2007, 07:04 PM	#3 (permalink)
Twolovers01 Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 27 Location: Michigan Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:twolovers69	Re: POLY Marriage!?!?!? our OSO are husband and wife

06-19-2007, 07:42 PM	#4 (permalink)
Tia Vampire Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,059 Location: Florida Status: Single Female Swing Lifestyle Name:tiavampire	Re: POLY Marriage!?!?!? We vote, don't care. If you can find four people that can be in a relationship where you all care, respect, commit, and love one another, we say go for it. The best of luck and I hope it all works up.

06-19-2007, 10:19 PM	#5 (permalink)
Menage_a_Trois Sex is emotion in motion! Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 576 Location: Reno, NV Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Menage_a_Trois	Re: POLY Marriage!?!?!? You might read on the following links about handfasting and committment ceremonies................ http://www.polychromatic.com/handfasting.html Handfastings and Wedding Rituals - http://www.amazon.com/Handfasting-We.../dp/0738704709 - One chapter in this book "Handfastings and Wedding Rituals" contains a ceremony for a polyamorous group wedding. http://polyamory.tribe.net/thread/76...6-85a78ccbee3e http://community.livejournal.com/polyamory/1961867.html well thats a start............I would just suggest you let your creativity flow and see where it takes you. Good luck. The Other Mrs. Menage
	__________________ Pam & Tom aka The Menage's

06-21-2007, 04:51 PM	#6 (permalink)
Twolovers01 Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 27 Location: Michigan Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:twolovers69	Re: POLY Marriage!?!?!? Thanks for the info!!!

06-27-2007, 07:50 PM	#7 (permalink)
Twolovers01 Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 27 Location: Michigan Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:twolovers69	Re: POLY Marriage!?!?!? Hey eveyone. Looking for some more posts here!!! we would love to hear everyones opinions and comments on the idea of poly marriages. I would especially love to hear from those of you who are voting where do we sign up....

06-28-2007, 12:33 AM	#8 (permalink)
Menage_a_Trois Sex is emotion in motion! Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 576 Location: Reno, NV Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Menage_a_Trois	Re: POLY Marriage!?!?!? Well we voted for it obviously. For us we view our relationship as a marriage between the three of us already - we just have never had the ceremony to make it unoffically offical.................. if that made sense lol Haven't really ever thought about the ceremony part - I'm not much of a day dreamer and I've never had a wedding before so it's not something I think about much. The Other Mrs. Menage
	__________________ Pam & Tom aka The Menage's

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