Poly male havin' a hard time finding

[Omniferum]

Hey guys, i've been on the boards a while but this is my first thread. I'm only posting because it seems the general posters are quite nice and not your run of the mill swingers. Well at least as i've come to know them anyway :P

I'm a relatively young male, 23, and have been practicing swinging/poly since age 18. I make a damn decent living investing and have been to and lived in quite a few countries to live so i've seen a bit of the world. My parents are Australian but I was born and raised in Jakarta, Indonesia. Have my diploma in Network Engineering and I suppose by all accounts i'm what people call successful.

If your not one for long posts you can just skip to the bottom, everything from here on is probably me ranting. I need to vent a lil' :P

The only issue I have currently is that being stuck in Australia is pretty much killing me, I live in Brisbane and there isn't by way of swinging/poly type activity that is easily accessible. There are swingers clubs and stuff like that but they are usually catering to all those wonderful 'athletic' body types, while I myself used to be and am getting myself back to that body type I really don't like playing with people that are that way. Also the swinging activities here are very tame so poly is amazingly difficult to find.

Australians also seem to have this tall poppy syndrome and I seem to aggravate it, I have Asperges so i'm somewhat ignorant of general social norms. If I were to say these sort of things in Brisbane all people say is "You haven't met the right people" where as to the other two countries i've lived in i've never encountered this sort of problem so I doubt it. I know Brisbane is not cut out for me and if there is anything for me here i'd spend years trying to find something even half-decent.

I love sex, the act of it and not always the cumming part. It's a rather personal thing for me and I prefer my partner(s) to respond in kind, it can be a bit too intense for some people so they never return (Which is a pity because I hate one time play). I suppose passion is key, general play is fun too but I want my partner to at least look at me or acknowledge my participation/existence and the athletic body types don't seem to be that way hence my dislike. I am aware it's a generalization but one can't help it, I am not adverse to them should they approach me but I just feel like i'm wasting my time approaching them. I'm fairly outgoing but rejection sucks, it might require 10 people to reject me before I feel a little upset but the effort put into approaching and being social can be a bit tiring.

*sigh* I keep getting told that I say too much or give too much information but I was hoping to be accepted here.

I've been several wive's "boyfriend" and the husband's have always approved of me (and of my cumming inside them) sadly enough it ends because of my moving (work related at the time). Personally i'd rather have a close circle of friends that is pretty much close to each other and not have any issues but my word it seems amazingly difficult to find people without hangups. I must admit i'm a bit of a nymphomaniac and that can put some people off (even though I can control myself) and I am also a little eccentric which isn't everyone's cup of tea but yeah hopefully someone here will give me some helpful info. It seems difficult enough in this town to find a single female for a normal relationship even though i'm apparently tall, dark and handsome. Well off too, so it's getting a little trying being here.

I know what it is I want, i've met enough people to know when my time is being wasted and I also know that I have to fight that generic 'single male' stereotype that really kills my advances in one fell swoop.


Either way I looking to move country (America preferably) and was wondering if any of you could give me some helpful tips/advice in regards to your local community? Preferably on the poly side, but swinging is fine too. If anyone wants to chat (MSN/Yahoo) i'd welcome the opportunity to speak with likeminded people, single males/couple/females juts send me a message (I'm not sure if i am allowed to post my contact details)

Also to the moderator's I apologise if this isn't the right board as it is my first time but seeing as I am more interested in the poly section it seems apt.