Where does a Single males find two Poly F's?

[bigjohnson2]

I've been trying to find a bisexual woman online and its not easy. I don't do bars, besides what do you say? Hi, are you bisexual? Probably earn a slap on the face or beer poured on me. Which online search sites are legitimate?
Adult Friendfinder is a joke; SinMatch is a joke; SexAds is a joke; HornyMatches are a joke; Passion Ads as a joke; Singing lifestyle had responses but no meet; Amateur Match a joke; Mate1 is talk but no meet;
Find a New Lover: chatted with several women but no meet; Hotmatchcup is a joke. I know that Barbi's Swinging Boat Regatta is real but its a long drive for me but plan to attend when it warms up.
Where else can I look to find a bisexual woman so we might be able to find another woman who is poly-minded? Thanks!
I live near Clermont, Florida.

Harry

[KajiKurai]

You are more likely to meet them when you're not trying and least expect it. I've found a good way to gauge a reaction if you are talking about movies with them is mention "Bound". Rent it if you haven't seen it.

If she's seen it and like it. She might be bi. If she owns it, she really likes women. No guarantee of bi though. Just higher chances.

Good luck.

[Miss_Piggy]

Have you checked out whether there are any poly groups in your area? You could try finding some sort of poly social group. I know Vancouver has one.

kajikurai is right though, you don't tend to find such things when you're looking for them.

[DJTriad]

I've met single bi females on My Space and also Yahoo 360 that I'm online friends with.

[intuition897]

Originally Posted by bigjohnson2

I've been trying to find a bisexual woman online and its not easy. I don't do bars, besides what do you say? Hi, are you bisexual? Probably earn a slap on the face or beer poured on me. Which online search sites are legitimate?
Adult Friendfinder is a joke; SinMatch is a joke; SexAds is a joke; HornyMatches are a joke; Passion Ads as a joke; Singing lifestyle had responses but no meet; Amateur Match a joke; Mate1 is talk but no meet;
Find a New Lover: chatted with several women but no meet; Hotmatchcup is a joke. I know that Barbi's Swinging Boat Regatta is real but its a long drive for me but plan to attend when it warms up.
Where else can I look to find a bisexual woman so we might be able to find another woman who is poly-minded? Thanks!
I live near Clermont, Florida.

Harry

With that many ads out there and so few leads I have to wonder a couple of things: 1) Is it something about your ad, and the way you approach others?* and 2) Is it just S-E-X that brings people to these sites in flocks? Swinging and polyamory are definitely not mainstream lifestyles and if you asked people in a general chat room or forum what they think of either on, you'll be told you're a sicko for even asking! Yet millions and millions of ads show up online...I guess that means there are either a lot of people in denial or they're just horny and THINK they are into swinging/poly. Both lifestyles are poorly understood, so you will get a lot of time-wasters.

* - I had to wonder about your ad when I read your nickname. Maybe you really do have a Big Johnson, but when most women read that, they aren't swooning with desire. They're thinking, "Big Johnson?? Pshah right. More like 'Big Ego'." Big egos have the aerodynamics of a brick in the lifestyle; they create nothing but drag.

[WesternSwing]

Wow, dude. It's not just like you go out and find two poly chicks to hook-up with for hot sex and a relationship. I don't think I've ever heard of it working that way.

Mrs. WS and I are 'poly-friendly' and have many friends that are in the poly community here. From our observations it is a primary couple that opens their relationship up to a third member, not a single male that gets hooked-up with to bisexual poly-minded females.

So first I'd say you would have to find a poly-friendly bisexual female to start a solid relationship with, THEN look for a third you both like to add to your relationship.

Other than that, just try to get in the swinger lifestyle in the meantime.

Mr. WS

[KenRachel]

Have to agree with WS. The best way to end up with 2 poly Fs is to start with 1 poly F. Both people aren't likely to walk into your life at the same time. Look at how hard it is to get 2 people together. Now think about 3.

It is rewarding when you find it. Took us a several years.

Rachel

[Menage_a_Trois]

Originally Posted by KenRachel

Look at how hard it is to get 2 people together. Now think about 3.

We couldn't agree more. I surely wasn't looking for this type of relationship and while Mrs. Ménage had always dreamed of something like this they weren't looking either. It was fate that brought us together and it is fate that our relationship was destined to be..........

These types of relationships aren't something that is instintually natural otherwise everyone would be in a relationship such as this............but when it is right it is right.........and you can not force that.

The Other Mrs. Ménage