Swinging as a triad - Page 2

JacobSky · 11-16-2006, 12:34 AM

avid, it would seem to me that couple that are open to swinging with single males and couples would be most likely to be open to swinging with you as a threesome. Couples that are not open to single males, due to relationship insecurity reasons, would be least likely to swing with a triad for fear that one of the males might be emotionally attracted to the wife of the other couple. Did that make any sense?

ohash01 · 11-16-2006, 09:47 PM

I possibly agree with Jacob - but not necessarily because of insecurity issues...some couples just don't dig "extra" males THEN on top of them not understand that no one is single...that you're really a triad...I can see how it would get complicated. Luckily - J. an I are not one of those couples. We are not a triad...not have we ever swung with a triad...but we're definately not opposed to it. Nor would we AUTOMATICALLY discount someone because there's an "extra" person. Who cares if the numbers aren't balanced? And I'm a true Libra saying this - I should be obsessed with balance. Hm. Odd. Usually I am. Apparently my need for balance doesn't apply to swinging.

Anywho - I like to think that J. and I are very fair. If there's a chance we'll like you and you match what we're looking for...you could be a quadrad (is that right) with 3 M's and we wouldn't discount you - and I'd give the F kudos for handling 3 sets of men's socks on the bedroom floor. Haha.

cubnamy1995 · 01-15-2007, 05:48 PM

Well, I can certainly understand where everyone is coming from here. To us, swinging is about trying things we couldn't try with just ourselves. It's about more than just a piece of ass to us. We personally would love swinging with a triad, MFM or FMF.

No, really. We would

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Slushco · 01-17-2007, 04:03 PM

Hey, I wish you lived closer to us and we could get together, you sound like a fun couple,

Jimbo

Menage_a_Trois · 01-18-2007, 01:13 AM

We agree!!!!!!!!!!!! Anyone up for a triad and heading to Reno let us know lol

The Menage's

Mrs.PaganLovers · 01-18-2007, 05:18 AM

Ok, I have been reading this thread because a while back we met a couple (and this couple happens to be 4)

. I just adore all 4 of them!

Before I can say more about them, I want to ask them permission to talk about their relationship.

I respect them as a married couple (that means all 4). Hopefully, I can post my thoughts on this later today.

I do understand that there are a lot of people that have trouble understanding that concept. But there are some of us that do understand. Ok it's 5am and I haven't had coffee yet, so rambling.

Blessings
Mrs. PL

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11-16-2006, 12:34 AM	#16 (permalink)
JacobSky Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 254 Location: Beaver, OK Status: Single Male	Re: Swinging as a triad avid, it would seem to me that couple that are open to swinging with single males and couples would be most likely to be open to swinging with you as a threesome. Couples that are not open to single males, due to relationship insecurity reasons, would be least likely to swing with a triad for fear that one of the males might be emotionally attracted to the wife of the other couple. Did that make any sense?
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11-16-2006, 09:47 PM	#17 (permalink)
ohash01 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 535 Location: Ohio Status: Single Female	Re: Swinging as a triad I possibly agree with Jacob - but not necessarily because of insecurity issues...some couples just don't dig "extra" males THEN on top of them not understand that no one is single...that you're really a triad...I can see how it would get complicated. Luckily - J. an I are not one of those couples. We are not a triad...not have we ever swung with a triad...but we're definately not opposed to it. Nor would we AUTOMATICALLY discount someone because there's an "extra" person. Who cares if the numbers aren't balanced? And I'm a true Libra saying this - I should be obsessed with balance. Hm. Odd. Usually I am. Apparently my need for balance doesn't apply to swinging. Anywho - I like to think that J. and I are very fair. If there's a chance we'll like you and you match what we're looking for...you could be a quadrad (is that right) with 3 M's and we wouldn't discount you - and I'd give the F kudos for handling 3 sets of men's socks on the bedroom floor. Haha.

01-15-2007, 05:48 PM	#18 (permalink)
cubnamy1995 Amateur Naked Acrobats Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 541 Location: East TX Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:cubnamy1995	Re: Swinging as a triad Well, I can certainly understand where everyone is coming from here. To us, swinging is about trying things we couldn't try with just ourselves. It's about more than just a piece of ass to us. We personally would love swinging with a triad, MFM or FMF. No, really. We would http://cubnamy1995.swinglifestyle.com

01-17-2007, 04:03 PM	#19 (permalink)
Slushco Registered User Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 1 Location: Harlan, Kentucky Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Slushco	Re: Swinging as a triad Hey, I wish you lived closer to us and we could get together, you sound like a fun couple, Jimbo

01-18-2007, 01:13 AM	#20 (permalink)
Menage_a_Trois Sex is emotion in motion! Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 576 Location: Reno, NV Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Menage_a_Trois	Re: Swinging as a triad We agree!!!!!!!!!!!! Anyone up for a triad and heading to Reno let us know lol The Menage's
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01-18-2007, 05:18 AM	#21 (permalink)
Mrs.PaganLovers Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 246 Location: In my house Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:paganlovers	Re: Swinging as a triad Ok, I have been reading this thread because a while back we met a couple (and this couple happens to be 4) . I just adore all 4 of them! Before I can say more about them, I want to ask them permission to talk about their relationship. I respect them as a married couple (that means all 4). Hopefully, I can post my thoughts on this later today. I do understand that there are a lot of people that have trouble understanding that concept. But there are some of us that do understand. Ok it's 5am and I haven't had coffee yet, so rambling. Blessings Mrs. PL

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