Are you Poly?

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[quote=StacyCat]Hi, im Stacy and i am poly :-)

Polyfuckery tends to be where I lie, I like my long term relationships, but if I meet someone and want to fuck them then and there, I want to be able to do that. I tend to form quick emotional attachments during and after sex, and need a little emotion in my sex, which is why I have dropped out of the local swinging scene.

I agree with this... and someone said (about swinging) that it's a little like a weekend affair. This is the way it is with us. I don't know if we strictly fit in the definition of poly... we are exclusive with just one other couple (and before that, in CA we were exclusive with one couple out there).

On the other hand, we generally see them for a wonderful fuckfest about once a month (sometimes more, but hardly ever less), and while there may be an occasional purly social phone call or two, there's just not a lot that goes on between our together times, other than setting up the next meeting and associated events and themes. (And when we do get together, we have a lot of fun together besides just the sex.)

So some people might say that's poly while others might say that there's not enough togetherness. We don't really care 'cause we like it.

[Mrgomer]

POLYAMORY
A love relationship involving more than 2 people.

I tend to disagree with this broad definition.
I "love" to some extent, every couple we've ever been with.
Even a few we haven't
I think it's more of a "marriage" type of relationship only one that involves sex.

MRG