Husband wants long term relationship with another woman - polyamory?

[lovedoctor]

That's awesome! Sounds like it was a "happy ending" to the story, even tho it wasn't what you had idealized.

[sereneiders]

Originally Posted by lovedoctor

That's awesome! Sounds like it was a "happy ending" to the story, even tho it wasn't what you had idealized.

Yes, altough I don't think of this as an "ending": we earned a great friend here, one that we shared everithing (and this means, everithing) with, and I expect this friendship to last a lifetime. You know, good friends can be accounted just with the fingers of one hand, so earning a new one for this category is something that really worth. I feel really lucky because of this.

[DBL D]

Initial Thought: Sorta sounds like your husband is the one that this lifestyle isn't good for, not you.

If I ever heard the "L" word from a partner or a guy telling my wife something along those lines, we would surely have to end the relationship. You guys definitely need to be thinking the same thoughts or this kind of thng will happen again. I'm not saying that you can't have nice feelings for another; that's what attraction is all about and why we don't just sleep with anyone. But using the "L" word is a bit too much if you're not on the same page.

M.D.