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| Polyamory & Swinging We realize that polyamory and swinging are two very different things, however they do often overlap. This forum is for the discussion of those overlaps between polyamory & swinging. |
This is a discussion on Close swinging relationships within the Polyamory & Swinging forums, part of the Swingers Topics category; I usually suggest that newbies don't search out newbies, but many disagree with this. We as newbies got involved ...
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10-28-2005, 12:19 PM
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| Active Member |  Re: Close swinging relationships I usually suggest that newbies don't search out newbies, but many disagree with this. We as newbies got involved with LONG TERM friends of ours for our first relationship. Didn't seek it, but my wife was confiding in the other wife and one thing led to another  Thing is, the other couple refused to talk about it... anything relating to it... they wanted a sex now and then without discussions. It ended... not badly... just ended, since it ended up feeling like they were totally in control. However, the relationship is even now after two years strained and has never gotten quite back to what it was. We still see each other, but miss what we had.
__________________ Did I mention I could have sex for 8 hours? What I forget to mention is that it usually involves 4 hours of begging and then dinner and movie. |
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10-31-2005, 11:38 AM
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| Some sort of user Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 1,121 Location: Argentina Status: Couple  | Re: Close swinging relationships As for us, we have the rule of not involving our actual (vanilla) friends in our activities. We also like the idea of becoming closest to another couple as to make a "couple from couples" relationship, but it would be a bad idea to try to push a couple we feel confortable with in another environment into swinging, because unless they were secretelly seeking for that too, it may lead to a friendship rupture. You may fantasize of being with an already known couple, but some fantasies belong to fantasyland and cannot become true. If my grandmother had wheels, then she would be a bicycle insthead of my grandmother. sereneiders |
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