Would you participate in a dark room orgy?

[JustAskJulie]

I remember a friend of mine once telling me of his fantasy to have an orgy in a pitch black room. The idea being that no one knows who is touching them or whether it's a man or a woman.

So I'm wondering, would you want to do this? Straight guys, does the idea turn you off because another guy could be touching you/ sucking you and you wouldn't know it? And don't give me that "I'd know if it was a guy" line, either.

Would you be more willing to chance a bisexual encounter in a situation like this than you would knowing for sure that it was someone of the same sex touching you?

Considering that all of your other rules were met (these were people you already know and are comfortable with, etc) would you be involved in a dark room orgy?

And just for those not willing to admit it publicly, I've given you a poll.

[TNT]

Originally Posted by Julie

Considering that all of your other rules were met (these were people you already know and are comfortable with, etc) would you be involved in a dark room orgy?

Yep, we would. Thanks for the new fantasy...something we haven't done yet that we will have to start working on.

TNT

[biglickcpl]

Thanks Julie!! What a great idea! We had never thought of this, but now that you have brought it up, it sounds like a lot of fun!!!!
Both of us.

Only if I knew exactly who was in the room.

I am Straight, very straight but Mrs naughty is somewhat Bi.

I would have to know who is in the room so I would know there would be no M on M INTENTIONAL touching.

I understand that in the heat of swinging sometimes dicks do come in contact now and then unintentionaly for brief moments. But if it is intentional

[lovers]

Another thing to consider is someone in an "evil" frame of mind taking advantage of the situation by doing something the could normally not get away with. Eg: going bareback,

[OhioCouple]

We have experienced this some, however there were just four of us, so you did have the idea of who was there, just not who was doing what. I will say that it was a huge turn on for me not knowing exactly who was doing what/where and it allows your mind to roam and feel the moment. Oh, yeah, I'd do it again! You wouldn't have to ask twice.

[RW1F]

Nope, not a chance. I like to see who I'm doing and who's doing me.

[Mrs Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by lovers

Another thing to consider is someone in an "evil" frame of mind taking advantage of the situation by doing something the could normally not get away with. Eg: going bareback,

Good point I hadn't thought of that.

Mr Spoomonkey and I talk about the fantasy of just having a big pile up orgy but with the lights on. Never thought about it in the dark. Our stipulation was always that I would want to know all the people involved (i.e. previously played with and/or friends we trust) because it would give the freedom to relax and enjoy it since you wouldn't mind who was touching who. Also, especially for the Mr., the visual is a this situation is a bonus.

I do however enjoy fantasies where you can't tell who is touching you so this definately pushed a few buttons but I think it would still have to stand with the same rule as an orgy with the lights on, I'd like to know all the people that are in the room first. There are a lot of variables on this I guess for it to really happen, but given the right situation . . . . . . it would be hard to pass up.

Anyway thanks for the new fantasy Julie . . . and who knows maybe for some of us it will become reality

Mrs Spoomonkey

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by TNT

Yep, we would. Thanks for the new fantasy...something we haven't done yet that we will have to start working on.

TNT

Should talk to PeeWee and set that up for the next Bewitched on the Beach.

[HotCoupleGnS]

I totally agree with Mr&Mrs-Naughty! It would be a lot of fun, but hubby & I both would want to make sure there was no intentional m/m touching. That just isn't our thing!

But that would be so much fun as a bi/bi-curious (whatever you want to label it) tobe playing around with people, not knowing who you are touching/sucking/fucking or who is touching/sucking/fucking you! I get hot just thinking about it! facelick

[T-Rex]

We haven't been, but we were told by a woman who runs one of the local swingers clubs in Denver, that there was a pitch black orgy room at one of the Nawlin' in November parties, and she said it was the most fun and exciting times she ever had. So...maybe those fantasies are a little closer to reality!

[Spoomonkey]

I am being very over-reactive here, but I would say no.

The fantasy is really, really hot... But - the reality of what it would take for me to be comfortable enough (not just with myself, but also not being able to "check up on" Mrs Spoomonkey) would likely make it something that wouldn't happen.

I am comfortable enough with the boy/boy brush as long at it's more "Oh... Is that you Bill?" ... "Uh-huh" ... "Oh - sorry" ... "No porblem" ... "So - you still working with the heavy equipment down at the quarry?"

But my biggest concern would be, if we didn't know the people exceptionally well, is could that lead to something happeneing to Mrs Spoomonkey that she didn't want to happen? The possibility of that just scares the be-jesus out of me... And I don't get my be-jesus scared out easily...

Spoomonkey

[Alura]

We wouldn't play this game if there were strangers (to us) in the group. It could be a whole lot of fun with say four to six couples who know each other well enough. It would be even more fun if everybody changed partners every so often. The most fun would be when the two of us hooked up together at the end of the party.

Mr. Alura is straight but doesn't get offended just by touching another man. A simple "excuse me" would solve that. Mrs. Alura... well, she'd probably go with the flow...

Now, how about a "Daisy Chain" during this little party? <EG>

Alura

Edit: Spoo, I can guaran-damned-tee you that nothing would happen to Mrs. Alura in that room that she didn't want to happen whether it was dark or like the noon-day sun.

[VegasLee]

Three years ago at the Reno Lifestyles convention we did a "dark room" in our suite for the first night of parties. Out of the 300 people that came to the party that night I would feel 100 of them went in the dark room. You could not see your hand in front of your face.

Some that went in came back out in a couple of minutes. Soime that went in did not come back out for hours!

The ones that like it had many positive comments to make about it. Some that did not even go in really ragged on me about even having something like that. Each to their own I guess.

[DandS]

Interesting question Julie.

I dont think the "Mr" would be into it, but I think it sounds like loads of fun and is something I would love to try