Would you participate in a dark room orgy?

[prettylady]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

But my biggest concern would be, if we didn't know the people exceptionally well, is could that lead to something happeneing to Mrs Spoomonkey that she didn't want to happen? The possibility of that just scares the be-jesus out of me... And I don't get my be-jesus scared out easily...

Spoomonkey

It is an intensly erotic fantasy, I love it, as a fantasy.
I can see where you are coming from with this concern Spoo. My niece likes to say I can kill a man six different ways with a popcicle stick. Not sure when I learnt that trick but aparently I did.
Any way tough or not an unwelcome advance in such a vulerable situation can be scary enough for me to freeze up and not defend myself. Not to mention the fear of not wanting to ruin everyones night by making a "scene" legitemate or not.
When putting together this kind of party, you would really have to plan in detail, and hope the fun pays for the work involved.
Your friend,
Prettylady

[LFM2]

Originally Posted by hilltop

Oh, that's such a hot idea!

If I knew everyone?

You betcha!
What a great way to let go and push some boundries.

Dito

I was reading this to Mr. LFM last night. (I really gotta get him posting on here himself) and he thought the idea was rather erotic. He said he'd do it as he's not bi, but he's open to new experiences. I'd do it in a heart beat. What a great new Fantasy!!

[RANDJ4FUN]

This is the most interesting ? this board has had yet!!
I would absolutely want to be in the darkroom. But my Mrs. probably would not.
So long as everyone stayed away from my backdoor I really wouldn't care who was doing what so long as they were doing it good.

[SuAndBud]

Yes if it were agreed that all the guys were strictly hetero (for Bud) and preferably if we had no idea who else was in the room until afterwards. It would be cool trying to guess who had done what with whom (which was the guy with the 10" tongue?!) lol.

[Rockme]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

I remember a friend of mine once telling me of his fantasy to have an orgy in a pitch black room. The idea being that no one knows who is touching them or whether it's a man or a woman.

So I'm wondering, would you want to do this? Straight guys, does the idea turn you off because another guy could be touching you/ sucking you and you wouldn't know it? And don't give me that "I'd know if it was a guy" line, either.

Would you be more willing to chance a bisexual encounter in a situation like this than you would knowing for sure that it was someone of the same sex touching you?

Considering that all of your other rules were met (these were people you already know and are comfortable with, etc) would you be involved in a dark room orgy?

And just for those not willing to admit it publicly, I've given you a poll.

I think this is HOT

I would give this a big YES as long as "Considering that all of your other rules were met (these were people you already know and are comfortable with, etc) would you be involved in a dark room orgy??

[Tia Vampire]

sounds fun, but my fiance says that he would if he was the only man in the room.

[ShellyM]

If I knew everyone in the room and was comfortable possibly....but then again, we are big on condoms, so I probably would not.

[flkeyscouple]

I'm all for it! Sounds like a great time!! facelick

[TwoLittleBirds]

With my luck, I'd end up fucking an electrical outlet. That'd be shocking.

Mr. Littlebird

[Sparkles98902]

I love the idea of this! It sound so liberating just being able to concentrate on the touch and sound of everyone at once!

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by TwoLittleBirds

With my luck, I'd end up fucking an electrical outlet. That'd be shocking.

Mr. Littlebird

LOL, ouch!

[cuzzeyesaidso]

This sounds like a damn good time. The perfect way to ensure that everybody at the party was there for full participation. I was invited to participate in one of these a long time ago. But the lady that invited me did open my eyes to the fact it wouldn't be me just reaching out and grabbing as many tits as I could find in the dark. She made me aware that wondering hands (theirs and mine) might touch things that they probably wouldn't touch when the lights are on. So I declined. The fantasy is still there though.

[ShellyM]

This does sound like a fun and erotic time, definately. However, before I would ever do something like this it would have to be with a group I am familiar and comfortable with. I mean, you have to be responsible, even when having a good time. If you are talking strictly feeling and touching and kissing, no problem. But if people are doing more then you deal with condom issues and things along that line. But oh yeah, sounds like a lot of fun.

[clutch]

We do this exclusively with one other couple to start our weekend when we meet. Usually soft lights or candles are lit because we all know what we like; we all like to experiment, and pragmatically speaking, it's just easier (and more erotic) when there is soft light.

At this point, the labels start getting blurry about bi, gay, les, etc.

Try to keep in mind, our wives get orgasms on about a 2.5 to 1 basis over the men for the duration of the weekend; we don't bring in any reinforcements, for several reasons, the most obvious being health related. And so we have to go fairly creative.

And, more to the point, since we start with a sensual/sexual group massage, in our case everyone ends up touching everyone else with everything in just a few minutes. We all try to draw out the time for our first orgasm, but the wives will usually let go more quickly because by the time the first early evening orgy is done, they'll have had 2 to our one.

And, at one point or another, all of us have tried everything. No regrets. And while the other husband and I are not the least bit gay, we have no problem doing some certain "operations" or "manipulations" so that the wives can be free to do other things elsewhere. And vice versa for the wives.

However, after the orgy-massage, we usually pair off with the other's spouse (sometimes in the same room, and sometimes not) and finish out the weekend. This is usually spiced with group time, and often a little time with our own spouses.

While the wives have no problem doing sex with each other, they most of the time just choose not to. (They'd be more likely to do it with a lot of "pretty-pleases" from us guys, but even then, it's rare.) On the other hand, we guys have absolutely no desire to mess with each other except during the orgy thing, where, again, it's more a matter of erotic expedition than gayness.



Note: Regard the bonobo monkeys. They're inspirational.

[jack smith]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

Should talk to PeeWee and set that up for the next Bewitched on the Beach.

yes