How often do you have sex with your partner?

brew82 · 10-31-2007, 09:07 PM

Our frequency sometimes depends on how well our latest swinging encounter went.....the last few months its been easily 6 times a week. Life is very good right now.

twink · 11-09-2007, 08:44 PM

When we first got married, we had sex everyday. Then when the children came along, I only wanted it once a week, hubby wanted it everyday, so we settled for about 2 x a week. Now I am off hormonal contraception, I'd like it everyday, but hubby is busy with studies, so only manage average 2-3 x a week. Sigh.

travcouple · 12-30-2007, 12:35 AM

We are usually 3-7 times a week, depending on the week. I put 3-5 since I think that is close to our average.

We have been married for almost 12 years and had our ups and downs, but we are just too horny to not do it all the time. Since we started in the lifestyle we have been pretty much the same. We have only had a couple real swinging events, usually we just play with each other at the parties, she likes to be watched. Unfortunately, since she is not here it will be 0 a week fora while

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Tia Vampire · 12-30-2007, 04:32 PM

1 to 2 times a week for us.

sexcupid · 12-30-2007, 04:38 PM

Our average is about once a day. Some days, like the last few have been twice a day...

Although there are days when we are just too fricken tired at the end of the day and just fall asleep, more often than not we have sex.

Maria

WesternSwing · 12-30-2007, 07:36 PM

Not often enough. It seems we've only been averaging once every 10 days right now. In fact in November we had more sex with other people than with each other. This is most likely to do with the fact that when we are out at the club and such we are away from the kids, work stresses, house work, etc. We probably need to take some time and just get a hotel room for us alone, but it seems strange to have to spend $60 on a room for something you should be able to do at home but can't seem to get the time to do with all the family distractions and interruptions.

Mr. WS

wewannabebad2 · 12-31-2007, 11:27 PM

We chose 3-4 times a week but that's not set in stone. For us it just depends on schedules, energy or lack of and mood.

Pepper & Drew · 01-01-2008, 05:35 PM

You mean you can actually have sex during the week? LOL I always think we're such slackers with these surveys. We're 1-2 times per week people.

Pepper

**rpu3** · 01-01-2008, 05:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pepper & Drew

You mean you can actually have sex during the week? LOL I always think we're such slackers with these surveys. We're 1-2 times per week people.

Well, we are 2 to 3 times a week kind of people, and there's been many a week the all of the sex was Saturday night/Sunday morning due to a crummy week.

If it's vacation, we could be doing it once or twice a day, but come the end of the quarter for or a heavy overtime/compressed week for me, it's a drought. Otherwise, we are pretty vanilla with the 2-4 times a week average.

ourrockstarlife · 01-01-2008, 06:42 PM

We have two young children, so.........playtime on all fronts is a little difficult

But we manage to squeeze in at least once a week

***JustAskJulie*** · 01-02-2008, 01:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Pepper & Drew

You mean you can actually have sex during the week? LOL I always think we're such slackers with these surveys. We're 1-2 times per week people.

Pepper

We are in this category as well, although we are trying to work on it. The problem we have is that our sexual clocks just don't match. I'm roaring to go at bedtime and he's zonked on the couch before we get to bed. He's doing everything he can to wake me up for some morning fun but by the time I finally start waking up he's given up after much hard work. The weekends or days off are best for us. If I am home during the day and he's not slammed at work we both enjoy a lunchtime quickie (but the days when those two things coincide isn't very common either).

starryeyes · 01-02-2008, 08:44 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ourrockstarlife

We have two young children, so.........playtime on all fronts is a little difficult

But we manage to squeeze in at least once a week

We almost fall into this category....but more like 1-3 times a week. We have teens with cars that seem to pop in with friends a bit too much. Tough to get some real private time... unless its the wee hours. But its all fun and games till someone looses an eye... no one has!!!

Jim&Shelley · 03-19-2008, 02:01 PM

We usually have sex 3-4 times per week...I average 4-6 orgasms/week

sweet_tna · 03-19-2008, 02:32 PM

On average, 5 times a week . . . when Mr. Sweet isn't traveling.

=)

goanniego · 03-22-2008, 03:49 PM

Well... I divorced and have a new girl friend.... It has been 6 months now and we are still... at more than once a day on average....

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Less than once a week	116	12.61%
Once a week	107	11.63%
Twice a week	163	17.72%
3 times a week	173	18.80%
4 times a week	128	13.91%
5 times a week	88	9.57%
6 times a week	34	3.70%
Every day	79	8.59%
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10-31-2007, 09:07 PM	#76 (permalink)
brew82 Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 31 Location: WI Status: Couple SLS Name:brew82	Re: So - that's why we go to bed early... Our frequency sometimes depends on how well our latest swinging encounter went.....the last few months its been easily 6 times a week. Life is very good right now. __________________ brew82 at DiamondSwingers, SLS, AFF and every other site out there...How many profiles is too many?

11-09-2007, 08:44 PM	#77 (permalink)
twink Registered Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 8 Location: Adelaide, Australia Status: couple	Re: So - that's why we go to bed early... When we first got married, we had sex everyday. Then when the children came along, I only wanted it once a week, hubby wanted it everyday, so we settled for about 2 x a week. Now I am off hormonal contraception, I'd like it everyday, but hubby is busy with studies, so only manage average 2-3 x a week. Sigh.

12-30-2007, 12:35 AM	#78 (permalink)
travcouple Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 21 Location: New Jersey Status: couple SLS Name:livnlocoNJcpl	Re: How often do you have (non swinging) sex? We are usually 3-7 times a week, depending on the week. I put 3-5 since I think that is close to our average. We have been married for almost 12 years and had our ups and downs, but we are just too horny to not do it all the time. Since we started in the lifestyle we have been pretty much the same. We have only had a couple real swinging events, usually we just play with each other at the parties, she likes to be watched. Unfortunately, since she is not here it will be 0 a week fora while.

12-30-2007, 04:32 PM	#79 (permalink)
Tia Vampire Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 737 Location: Florida Status: couples SLS Name:tiavampire Blog Entries: 1	Re: How often do you have (non swinging) sex? 1 to 2 times a week for us.

12-30-2007, 04:38 PM	#80 (permalink)
sexcupid Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 867 Location: San Antonio Status: couple/f SLS Name:sexcupid Blog Entries: 3	Re: How often do you have (non swinging) sex? Our average is about once a day. Some days, like the last few have been twice a day... Although there are days when we are just too fricken tired at the end of the day and just fall asleep, more often than not we have sex. Maria

12-30-2007, 07:36 PM	#81 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,811 Location: Utah Status: Male half of married couple	Re: How often do you have (non swinging) sex? Not often enough. It seems we've only been averaging once every 10 days right now. In fact in November we had more sex with other people than with each other. This is most likely to do with the fact that when we are out at the club and such we are away from the kids, work stresses, house work, etc. We probably need to take some time and just get a hotel room for us alone, but it seems strange to have to spend $60 on a room for something you should be able to do at home but can't seem to get the time to do with all the family distractions and interruptions. Mr. WS __________________ "God created sex. Priests created marriage." ~ Voltaire

12-31-2007, 11:27 PM	#82 (permalink)
wewannabebad2 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 111 Location: Texas Status: couple SLS Name:wewannabebad2	Re: How often do you have (non swinging) sex? We chose 3-4 times a week but that's not set in stone. For us it just depends on schedules, energy or lack of and mood. __________________ Have you petted your pussy lately?

01-01-2008, 05:35 PM	#83 (permalink)
Pepper & Drew Mmmmm...tasty! Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 1,021 Location: Hurricane Alley Status: Couple SLS Name:alhedonists	Re: How often do you have (non swinging) sex? You mean you can actually have sex during the week? LOL I always think we're such slackers with these surveys. We're 1-2 times per week people. Pepper __________________ "Swinging is a lot like riding a Harley, ...for those who understand, no explanation is necessary; for those who don't, no explanation is possible." --Mr. Alura

01-01-2008, 06:42 PM	#85 (permalink)
ourrockstarlife What Would Betty Do? Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 49 Location: Virginia Status: Couple SLS Name:curious775454	Re: How often do you have (non swinging) sex? We have two young children, so.........playtime on all fronts is a little difficult But we manage to squeeze in at least once a week

03-19-2008, 02:01 PM	#88 (permalink)
Jim&Shelley Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 16 Location: Knoxville, TN Status: Couple	Re: How often do you have sex with your partner? We usually have sex 3-4 times per week...I average 4-6 orgasms/week

03-19-2008, 02:32 PM	#89 (permalink)
sweet_tna Being good is overrated Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 2,862 Location: Poconos, PA Status: The boss of Mr. Sweet SLS Name:Sweet_tna	Re: How often do you have sex with your partner? On average, 5 times a week . . . when Mr. Sweet isn't traveling. =) __________________ I'd rather go to hell for doing something I enjoyed than die wondering what it's like.

03-22-2008, 03:49 PM	#90 (permalink)
goanniego Registered Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 3 Location: Belgium Status: Couple SLS Name:Goanniego	Re: How often do you have sex with your partner? Well... I divorced and have a new girl friend.... It has been 6 months now and we are still... at more than once a day on average....

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