How often do you have sex with your partner?

havefuninsun · 02-28-2007, 03:24 PM

Hell -- we hit five times just this past weekend!

Not sure if it's a swinging thing, or the fact that we're still "new" to each other (two years). Or if we're just horny.

(hahahaha)

2TexasTornados · 02-28-2007, 04:11 PM

We've ALWAYS had very frequent sex (married almost 12 years), but we hit an all time high when I hit my sexual peak a few years ago. We haven't slowed down from that yet, and just started the swinging stuff less than a year ago - so it's hard to tell if the frequency is just because we've always been like that, because I'm still basking in my peak, or if it's because we've added this new dimension to us. It all blends together, and it's all good! We still average 5-6 times a week.

flkeyscouple · 02-28-2007, 08:28 PM

We've always had a very active sex life - been married 20 years and together for almost five prior to marriage. We have peaks and valleys over the years, but we are never more active than when we are actively participating in the lifestyle! The last few years we've been actively participating and have not had a 'valley' at all! We average 5-6 times a week but 'celebrate' with twice a day for the week after a great play date!

We've always thought that the more sex you have, the more you want. It's a great cycle! facelick

Sarah

jmark · 02-28-2007, 08:32 PM

We have been together 18 years and we still go at it 10 to 12 times a week. We are interested in adding swinging to the fun.

Spoomonkey · 02-28-2007, 09:09 PM

I chose 5-6 times, but it is higher than that... But as flkeyscouple said - throw a good play date in the mix and someone is going to get hurt

Spoomonkey

meandher2go · 03-01-2007, 05:33 PM

we do it more than most but we dont have any kids so it might make it easier.

or at least easier to be loud about it...lol

sexyshelby · 03-02-2007, 07:54 AM

We do about 3-4 times a week. If it were up to him, it would be 3-4 times a day.

But my body cant handle that, never mind that we don't have time for that.

~SS

des1re06 · 03-02-2007, 08:43 AM

More than 6 on non-kid weeks, and average twice on kid weeks (face in pillow to muffle the screams).

Mrs. D

**LFM2** · 03-08-2007, 11:11 PM

I put 5-6 times a week. We've been married for close to 23 years. In the Lifestyle now for close to a year.

socolais · 04-06-2007, 05:01 PM

I voted 4 times a week and it works out about like that most of the time - there have been a few dry weeks and many smiley weeks. Frequency is not such a big deal with me, although I frequently want it. I'm more into the intensity of the passion, but there's no meter to monitor that objectively, yet the passion has really been significantly stronger since we've been discussion the possibility of swinging.

Treat me like a rented mule

Spoomonkey · 04-06-2007, 06:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by socolais

Treat me like a rented mule

I have no idea what you mean by this - but it's funny

Spoomonkey

LOL_OMG · 04-06-2007, 07:00 PM

Spoo
Think about it, if you think it's funny, then you know what it means, heh.

Mr. Lol

nikki77 · 10-03-2007, 06:10 AM

we do this 3 times a week .

ShellyM · 10-15-2007, 10:00 PM

We try and have sex or make love daily. However, 3 children, fatigue, life lol....we cannot always do this...so what we need is not always what we get. But we do have sex absolutely consistently at least every other day. So I would say 4-5 times per week.

2ofakind33 · 10-23-2007, 09:41 PM

My husband is only home on weekends. So its usually 3 or 4 times between Saturday and Sunday. More if I give him a surprise visit out of state. Would also be more if we didn't have 3 kids running around. Love the sleepover stage!!!!Had one this past weekend, we went to a strip club.. came home and broke in our new picnic table,new bed, and kitchen table... Can you tell we are remodeling?lol. Now we have to pencil in time do break in everything else.

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View Poll Results: How often do you have sex with your partner?
Less than once a week	116	12.61%
Once a week	107	11.63%
Twice a week	163	17.72%
3 times a week	173	18.80%
4 times a week	128	13.91%
5 times a week	88	9.57%
6 times a week	34	3.70%
Every day	79	8.59%
More than once a day!	32	3.48%
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02-28-2007, 03:24 PM	#61 (permalink)
havefuninsun insert witty banter here Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,190 Location: Virginia Status: Couple SLS Name:havefuninsun	Re: How often do you have (non swinging) sex? Hell -- we hit five times just this past weekend! Not sure if it's a swinging thing, or the fact that we're still "new" to each other (two years). Or if we're just horny. (hahahaha)

02-28-2007, 04:11 PM	#62 (permalink)
2TexasTornados Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 63 Location: Texas Status: Couple	Re: How often do you have (non swinging) sex? We've ALWAYS had very frequent sex (married almost 12 years), but we hit an all time high when I hit my sexual peak a few years ago. We haven't slowed down from that yet, and just started the swinging stuff less than a year ago - so it's hard to tell if the frequency is just because we've always been like that, because I'm still basking in my peak, or if it's because we've added this new dimension to us. It all blends together, and it's all good! We still average 5-6 times a week.

02-28-2007, 08:28 PM	#63 (permalink)
flkeyscouple Sarah&Roger's Female Half Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 1,160 Location: FL Status: couple-female half SLS Name:floridakeyscouple	Re: How often do you have (non swinging) sex? We've always had a very active sex life - been married 20 years and together for almost five prior to marriage. We have peaks and valleys over the years, but we are never more active than when we are actively participating in the lifestyle! The last few years we've been actively participating and have not had a 'valley' at all! We average 5-6 times a week but 'celebrate' with twice a day for the week after a great play date! We've always thought that the more sex you have, the more you want. It's a great cycle! facelick Sarah __________________ Life is like riding a bicycle. To keep your balance you must keep moving. - Albert Einstein

02-28-2007, 08:32 PM	#64 (permalink)
jmark Registered User Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 1 Location: Georgia Status: couple	Re: How often do you have (non swinging) sex? We have been together 18 years and we still go at it 10 to 12 times a week. We are interested in adding swinging to the fun.

02-28-2007, 09:09 PM	#65 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,563 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? SLS Name:Spoomonkey	Re: How often do you have (non swinging) sex? I chose 5-6 times, but it is higher than that... But as flkeyscouple said - throw a good play date in the mix and someone is going to get hurt Spoomonkey __________________ "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis

03-01-2007, 05:33 PM	#66 (permalink)
meandher2go Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 307 Location: nnj Status: Couple SLS Name:meandher2go	Re: How often do you have (non swinging) sex? we do it more than most but we dont have any kids so it might make it easier. or at least easier to be loud about it...lol __________________ Always looking for a good time in NJ..

03-02-2007, 07:54 AM	#67 (permalink)
sexyshelby It's not easy being easy. Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 2,012 Location: In Bed Status: Person	Re: How often do you have (non swinging) sex? We do about 3-4 times a week. If it were up to him, it would be 3-4 times a day. But my body cant handle that, never mind that we don't have time for that. ~SS __________________ What's love got to do with it?

03-02-2007, 08:43 AM	#68 (permalink)
des1re06 Great Times 1 Year Exp. Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 1,080 Location: East TN Status: Couple SLS Name:Des1re06	Re: How often do you have (non swinging) sex? More than 6 on non-kid weeks, and average twice on kid weeks (face in pillow to muffle the screams). Mrs. D

03-08-2007, 11:11 PM	#69 (permalink)
LFM2 Happy Fall, Y'all!! Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 1,843 Location: State of Confusion Status: Couple SLS Name:LFM2 Blog Entries: 4	Re: How often do you have (non swinging) sex? I put 5-6 times a week. We've been married for close to 23 years. In the Lifestyle now for close to a year. __________________ "One half of the world cannot understand the pleasures of the other." Jane Austen

04-06-2007, 05:01 PM	#70 (permalink)
socolais nothin special Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 869 Location: Dallas Status: M. Male - half of a novice swinging couple SLS Name:Bruce_Melissa Blog Entries: 11	Re: So - that's why we go to bed early... I voted 4 times a week and it works out about like that most of the time - there have been a few dry weeks and many smiley weeks. Frequency is not such a big deal with me, although I frequently want it. I'm more into the intensity of the passion, but there's no meter to monitor that objectively, yet the passion has really been significantly stronger since we've been discussion the possibility of swinging. Treat me like a rented mule __________________ Drama sold separately,,,,, some assembly required.....

04-06-2007, 07:00 PM	#72 (permalink)
LOL_OMG Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 939 Location: where we're at Status: Couple SLS Name:LOL_OMG	Re: So - that's why we go to bed early... Spoo Think about it, if you think it's funny, then you know what it means, heh. Mr. Lol __________________ Somebody better go back and get a shitload of dimes!!!

10-03-2007, 06:10 AM	#73 (permalink)
nikki77 Here to Stay Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 30 Location: mars Status: couple	Re: So - that's why we go to bed early... we do this 3 times a week .

10-15-2007, 10:00 PM	#74 (permalink)
ShellyM Jay's Bumper Buddy Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 2,299 Location: San Marcos, TEXAS Status: On the prowl for man meat SLS Name:lost_j1	Re: So - that's why we go to bed early... We try and have sex or make love daily. However, 3 children, fatigue, life lol....we cannot always do this...so what we need is not always what we get. But we do have sex absolutely consistently at least every other day. So I would say 4-5 times per week. __________________ Merry Christmas and a Ho Ho Ho Shelly

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